Family - August 2007

a blood relative
in uk

2007-08-27 10:43:44 · 1 answers · asked by judas 2

do u think my aunt sould stay at my house for like a month or 2?

2007-08-27 10:42:04 · 3 answers · asked by hydee s 1

last week my hubby and i went to his moms house for birthday (hers). we bought her a brand new computer and i wrapped it really pretty and we got her a comical crad to go along with it. well before we got there she called my husband and told him that she did not want me there and my hubby said look mom where ever i go she goes...she is family mom she is my wife. so she said ok but she needs to stay outside during the party. mind u the party was indoors...and me n hubby wanted to set her computer up for her etc..well later on in the night i was standing by the sliding glass window because i was exchanging phone # with one of our cousins well the mom in law saw me and our 7 yr old daughter right by the door and she shouted loud GET OUT NOW!! BOTH OF U GET OUT I DONT WANT YOU 2 IN HERE LEAVE! so i got all embarrassed and i left with our daughter and baby son.i never did anything to provoke her. she has always been mad at me for marrying n taking her son away and gave me grief about that..

2007-08-27 10:41:55 · 10 answers · asked by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4

Fifteen years ago my little sister was shot and killed as me and my father watched. I was tied to a chair but my father was untied and free to move about.
He just stood there as the guy shot my sister. He let her die. And he went to prison for it. He will never again be a free man. My testimony sealed that fate for him.
Now girlfriend Meriah has been pushing for me to go and visit him. She says that I should try and forgive him. That I should start seeing things from his point of view. That maybe he really couldn't do anything to save her.
I am totally against this. I hate him for what he did. I haven't seen him since the trial and plan on never seeing him again. I don't want to be hurt again.
Do I give in and go see my father? or Do I stand my ground?

2007-08-27 10:33:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think i'm depressed but i'm not sure. When i was in 2nd and 3rd grade my parents got into a huge fight and i mean physical. like my dad punched my mom, my mom threw a glass at my dad and my dad threw it back. There was a lot of yelling and screaming. When that happened i felt it was my job to take care of my younger brother in 1st grade and my 2 year old brother this big fight lasted a few years into 4th or the begining of 5th grade. my parents stopped fighting started counseling and my dad went to AA for his alchol problems. Although my parents apoligized i don't think i ever forgave them for those years i remember i had drifted away from my friends and tried to always protect my little siblings either by telling them it was going to be ok or acting like the adult when my parents were being kids. I was told never to tell anyone and i think that that has effected me too. Another thing i tried to do when i was little was make things better with my parents they always seemed to make me

2007-08-27 10:28:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been emotionally scarred by my child's father. & of course I still have to be around him because we have a child together AND I am pregnant again. We took our baby to her doctor's appointment today & the whole time I was fighting back tears. What can I do to be happy around him? ..or just feel normal around him & not sad or anxious?

2007-08-27 09:46:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

need another healthy way to take my anger out.

2007-08-27 09:29:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-27 09:23:08 · 4 answers · asked by christopher p 1

2007-08-27 09:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This was our biggest fight ever. She cursed at me and called me a little hoar and f-in little "female dog".
I tried to stay calm but I couldnt stop myself from yelling and screaming back. the fight was about my car and driving boys around. I have a lot of male friends and she doesnt approve she wants me to have girl friends only except my boyfriend who she doesn't really like either but she likes him better than my guy friends. dad wasnt home for this fight but I feel like telling him everything. he knows we fight and it makes him very upset but what can he do? its between mom and me, I am starting to hate her. my bf wants me to move in. help.

2007-08-27 09:05:24 · 14 answers · asked by ModelBabe2008 1

I heard illegitimate children are children born from unmarried parents.
I'm 15 and my parent's were married when i was born, but when i was 8 they got divorced.
So i was wondering if I'm considered an 'illegitimate' child?

2007-08-27 08:50:27 · 20 answers · asked by Alex 1

Okay, I am 24 years old and I just recently moved back in with dear old mom n dad while I go back to school to get my real estate license. I just found out that they are getting a divorce basically because my mom is crazy. Not like mentally ill crazy, just yell at everyone and nothing ever pleases her and freak out for no reason crazy. My dad is very soft-spoken, very loving and just can't take it anymore. I fully support him. On the other hand, since I've become an adult, my mom (when not in crazy mode) and I have gotten very close. How do I support my dad and not lose the relationship with my mother while living with them during this split? Also, while I'm on the topic, does anyone have any tylenol and maybe some earplugs?

2007-08-27 08:37:34 · 6 answers · asked by meggybucks1 3

2007-08-27 08:12:53 · 11 answers · asked by MOs fishin 6

okay so im thinking of having a quince(a sweet 15) but i have a twin sister and we fight about everything.so my mom sugested that we go to universal studios to celebrate instead of a quince!! well what should i do?????

2007-08-27 07:53:03 · 5 answers · asked by crizzle 1

and their upbringing?one may think they had a great childhood and loving parents and another thinks it was dismal?is it a matter of gratitude or temperment or differential treatment?

2007-08-27 07:52:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have the number to a very big company that could make me a star.I have everything there looking for and I qualify.The problem is it's in another state and I have long-distance calling.For some reason I'm just nervous about calling.Should I call the people or should I just wait until I feel comfortable about calling.My parents don't know that I am calling another state besides relatives.

2007-08-27 07:02:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had planned an 56 anniver dinner for my parents on Sat night. My brother chose to go to a wake for a neighbor who committed suicide. (He wasn't close to this guy but did like him.)

I said I thought they should go to the dinner b/c it was 56 yrs & he said "Are you kidding me? You can leave right now". I left without incident (didn't storm out) just quiety left. Then I thought it over, & called him 10 min later & apologized. He "accepted" but still sounded mad.

I am still hurt over this, that he hasn't apologized to me for asking me to leave AFTER I apologized to him. I realized I was wrong but I think he was out of line as well. The whole family seems to be taking his side.

He did come to the house for cake after the Wake, and I acted very normal, asked how the wake was, etc. but I could tell he & his wife felt funny around me.

I have never felt so alone in my life. I am hurt & alone. What should I do?

2007-08-27 06:52:20 · 23 answers · asked by Sunny 3

My mom says I have no morales, and she no longer wants me to be arround my little brother because of my "lifestyle". I am recently divorced, out of a ten year relationship, and my mother lost her husband (my little brothers dad) about four years ago to a heart attack. So, I play a big part in my little brothers life.

She says if I make the decision to live with my current boyfriend that she will not let me see my little brother as much...

Plus she thinks I am jumping from one relationship to another...I am, but I am happy... she says I have'nt given myself time to heel, but I think I have... What do I do??? My mom is disappointed in me, and that is way worse than her being mad at me :) Help...

2007-08-27 06:45:30 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah G 1

I'm 26 now and I really don't want to have kids. I will never say never, b/c you never know. But that is my decision right now. I also don't really want to get married either. I've always been an ambitious, independent kind of person who never dreamed of the family life (marriage, house, kids, dog, etc).

The thing is, when I tell people this they look at me like I'm some horrible person. I'm not putting anyone else's choices down or anything. I just don't want these things for myself and I'm glad I can be honest with myself. I see so many parents who should have never reproduced.

Anyone else chose not to have kids and never regretted it?

2007-08-27 06:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by aml0017 5

I do not. What rights do I have? I took my mother for an eye doctor appointment I arranged without consulting my sister. I also purchased new lens and frame for my mother. I have been told by another relative that my sister was under no obligation to reimburse me for the expenses. Moreso, if we had been in an accident or mother fell and got hurt I could have been held liable.

I saw the form but not what my parents initialed for them to be in charge of. My mother is always saying what she wants each of us to have when she dies.. there is no will. I have asked her to do one but she will not. There is a clause in that POA that allows my sister to make decisions in the disbursement of personal property. I don't know if mom gave her that power and mom's memory is unclear now of what all was signed.

Where do I stand? I grocery shop and take mom to the hairdresser every Saturday. To date I have been reimbursed on everything. As far as the bank account and bills I am clueless.

2007-08-27 06:41:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok...i have this sister...she's not that bad but she gets on my nerves like all the time. What should I do about this? (She's older then me.)

2007-08-27 06:31:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Itry so har so he can chance but i always do a lot athings for him but he always is very agresive with me o my husband n my kids i dont no what shut do.

2007-08-27 06:16:01 · 6 answers · asked by ncyrnd 1

I struggle w/ my finances, but am blessed to have parents & in-laws who make it possible for me to do fun things for my kids, give them treats, etc. The problem is, that my daughter has seemed so ungreatful lately. Nothing's ever good enough. I offer her $1 for a treat, she wants something that's $2. I say we can go to the discount movies, she wonders why we can't go to the regular theater? I say she can swim for 30 min., she says why can't it be an hour? I have ended up in tears because I am so frustrated and angry. I feel bad for sarcastically saying that if I won $1million, she'd be pissed it wasn't $1 billion. I have tried so hard to instill gratitude in her and have failed miserably. I hope this is just a phase, but I feel strongly that if I don't nip this attitude in the bud right now, that it will just get worse. I can theorize all I want about how she got this way (one reason could be her father's & my impending divorce) but I need to know how to fix it!

2007-08-27 06:04:36 · 3 answers · asked by Heather K 2

Isn't it so sad these days when kids can't even feel comfortable enough to talk to their parents? When I am out and about I observe the way that parents treat their children I realize then why they might be afraid to talk to them. Parents will often treat their children with absolutely no respect. They tower over them with authority and don't allow them to express themselves. They don't respect them by letting them talk for themselves. They literally scare them into compliance. Yell at them in public and don't discipline in a loving and caring manner teaching them what to do instead of what not to do.

What a sad society that we live in. Now don't get me wrong there are some good parents out there too, but it seems most of the kids that are on here don't even have enough guts to face their own parents and ask them simple questions.

We have been open with our daughter since the beginning. She is only 5, but she knows she can trust us and come to both her Daddy and I with anything.

2007-08-27 05:50:08 · 15 answers · asked by hsmommy06 7

can you predict weather your going to have twins before you get pregnant?
In almost every generation of my family there has been twins
Me and my brother and my sister are the last generation.
which one of us will have twins?

2007-08-27 04:42:03 · 15 answers · asked by Smilesss :) 3

if i live with my mom il hav a good education if i liv wit my dad i hv my gf ova theya and an adaquit edu. what should i do?(im 13)

2007-08-27 04:36:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Aunt gave me a signed baseball by torii hunter, a Bracelet, a sweater, 2 pictures with snoopy on it, and singing cards for my birthday i need help writing a card because i have written SO many like 40 already i ran out of ideas. Please help if you can

2007-08-27 04:30:30 · 5 answers · asked by kkamdog 2

I have returned all the money (infact Double amount) of what she helped me when i was in search of job because she was from a well off family but i'm from a middle class family. She rejected me because I was unemployed. So I have returned double amount of what she helped with........Have I done the right thing.....?????

2007-08-27 04:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by vijay s 1

Ok I have an older friend who was my past college teacher last semester. We have grown close and had lunch and all that and I have been to her house to see her new baby. Well a couple of weekends ago I had bought a gift for her baby and I wrote her in an email telling her, and wrote me back and told me that I was welcome to come by in the evening that week sometime, and I answered her on that but she never emailed me and confirmed. I have written her a second time a few days ago just to remind her but she still hasn't responded. I understand that she started school and is now teaching again and also has a fairly newborn baby... but I dont understand why she would tell me to come over but never confirm. She has never gone this long w/out responding either and I didnt write anything rude in the emails. What do you think.. I really need to give that gift b/c it is a baby outfit for 0-3 months and her baby is already almost 2 months!... I dont know what her deal is??

2007-08-27 03:56:40 · 7 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1

MY father-in-law's helath has been declining, rapidly. He has an old corvette that is difficult to drive and has decided to give it to my husband. We should be happy to receive such a generous gift but it makes my husband incredibly sad because this makes him except that his dad is getting old and can't do these things anymore. We told him to sell the vette and buy something he can drive but he has so many memories of the two of them working on it that he wants to pass it down, not to mentio nthis was his dream car. We feel like we want to repay him for this but we do not have the money to actually pay him for the car, and he wouldn't except the money. what should we do? do you give a thnak you gift? it seems so awkward to take his prized possesion b/c he is to old??? any suggestions?

2007-08-27 03:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous