2007-08-27 09:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My son always asks me about his father. He misses him actually, and knows why I cannot go back to him, because of his violent tendancies towards me. Perhaps one day when my son is older he can look for him, if he wants too. I am not going to back down on that. But, the thing is that my ex has to be clean and sober first...
I don't hate my father, I never knew him, because I was given up for adoption. I don't hate my mother either...Fathers are 'supposed' to be a male role model for their kids regardless of the sex of their children, Male OR Female.
So, if I don't find a new male role model by the time my son is 7, then I am going to call Big Brothers for my son. So that my son can do guy stuff with him. I try to be there all I can for my son, but sons need a male around as well....One that is good, and that is a positive influence around my kid. My kid is 5.
2007-08-27 09:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the second answer they feel abandoned.I was left by my dad when I was 10 my brother was 3 so he didn't get to experience the things I did which I am thankful for but he hates that man and doesn't even know him.I hate him but I accept things the way they are because I know how they could be and my brother has no idea how his father is.I at 26 years old went to my father and asked him why and I was so disappointed I don't ever want my brother to feel the same disappointment I do I would rather him be angry and not know.Hey I guess I am protective.But I will say hate only makes you bitter and thats a hard burden to carry for a person you cannot change....just be happy in your own life and deal with that anger some other way like help a child who has no father and show them life can be good if you choose to turn that anger into passion for something.....its good therapy
2007-08-27 17:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my father until I was 7 when he left us for the drink. That by itself is enough of a reason to hate him but then he came back 1/2 times a year and physically abused us. ANd emotionally abused us when he phoned. I know this isn't what your looking for but...
I guess its kinda that I know who he was and I wish I still had him as my daddy.
2007-08-27 16:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why because i have never met my father doesn't mean i hate him!!
2007-08-27 16:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They feel abandoned.
2007-08-27 16:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋