and their upbringing?one may think they had a great childhood and loving parents and another thinks it was dismal?is it a matter of gratitude or temperment or differential treatment?
2007-08-27 07:52:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is due to the reason that everyone has their own style n way of accepting life. Childhood is the stage of ones life when sometimes even a small incident will left the sign in ones memory for forever, its not necessary that the incident which happened at that time would hav the positive impact it could be negative also n this impact would remain same through out the life n the person starts concludes things on that basis.These incidents could be related to the parents as well and as the parents didn't clarify the things at that time to the child or could be their mistake also, these things comes in notice after certain age.
2007-08-27 09:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're talking about different perceptions among siblings. I think most siblings have at least similar perceptions of their parents because they had the SAME parents. But their childhood experiences can differ greatly because of different things such as how they look, the amount of self-confidence he or she had, how popular he or she was, etc. These are all things that can shape a person's childhood and either make it great or horrible. There are some parents, however, that unfortunately make a huge difference in how they treat their children. GOOD parents don't do that.
2007-08-27 08:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main reason behind this problem is the compatibility of their parents.Its the culture of the family, When the bread winner is away on his days hard work the wivese 90.%of them are busy with their clubs kitty parties n with their boy friends n cinema ,Resulting which childrens are neglected n get spoiled with different companys.. hence different cultures enter their houses. The poor husband instesd controlling tries to adjust with every one for peace in the house
Hope u understand .These are neglected houses.In the west ppl are adopting our culture but now it is other way round. If it goes likes this n ladies do not start caring for theire husbands n children , Thingds will get detorated. Its a right timr for the females to start looking after their houses like before for the sake of their children in husband in particular
2007-08-27 09:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think we each have different experiences. some of us are very emotional and others hold everything inside and let it build and fester without releasing it. i also think everyone is treated differently in a family as well weather intentionally or not it happens.
2007-08-27 08:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by momofnini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut depends on the persons nature. i have an aunt who claims my gma didnt spend enough time with her and shes bitter but the other 4 are just fine.
2007-08-27 07:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look god has made everyone diferrent thus all voews, prospects, thinking will also be diferrent n if god were to be made everyone same than there wud be utter non sense because no one wud be ale to distinguis between one another the same guy wud find it difficult to recignize his mother n his wife
2007-08-27 20:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by khadija k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because everybody is thier own individual being and no matter what the surrounding or the circumstances be they will behave and live the way they want to.....no body is the same
2007-08-27 08:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Raushni I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
differential treatment
2007-08-27 17:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they were treated differently...or one of them is deluded..or they're just different people with different views.
2007-08-27 08:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋