Family - August 2007

ok.. well i have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months and i love him with all my heart. we know we're right 4 each other. the thing is he's 17 and im 15 and we both want a baby really badly. we know we're young but we love each other enough that we feel it would be right to. but we dont know if we should or not cuz of respect that might be lost and his career. we need some advice plz!!!

2007-08-26 15:30:28 · 23 answers · asked by crazygurl17 1

My husband & i have been married for 7 years, & have many problems with his mother (a.k.a The Mother-in-law). Here is the short version..

My mother-in-law has 3 sons, including my husband. They are all over the age of 25, with the oldest being 35. Except for my husband, they all still live at home, with no job. Thats how she likes it. Ever since my husband and i have started dating, she hated me, & now that we are married, things are worse.

When we becamse pregnatn with our first child, she tried to talk me into getting an abortion. She didnt want ME to be the mother of her grandchildren. I refused the abortion, of course, & when our daughter was born, she told everyone that i had mental problems & should have the child taken from me! Our daughter passed away at the age of 4 months due to SIDS, & she told everyone our daughter died because i didnt love her.That was 5 yrs ago. We moved out of the state due to his job, & now have a 2 yr old boy. Continue reading the details please.

2007-08-26 14:52:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you like to use the public restroom either in or out the stall or does it make you nervous?

2007-08-26 14:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-26 14:22:26 · 4 answers · asked by smiley 3

2007-08-26 14:21:24 · 8 answers · asked by smiley 3

Ok, I got tired of sending resumes without sucess. I studied in a expensive school and my dad paid it but I couldn't find a job on what I studied so I recently accepted a job in a drugstore...my dad is a sucessful bussiness man and I don't know if he would understand that I am working on this. He called me and asked me to visit him and I didn't know how to tell him I can't go to his city because I am working...how can I tell him that I am working??? I think he will get very dissapointed.

2007-08-26 14:15:16 · 11 answers · asked by C6 7

My father is extremely hypocritical! He gets mad so easily and complains that i'm too technical and that everything has to be persice with me. I can't tell him or my mom anything, although I can tell my mom more stuff. I don't exactly trust my dad with anything. Everyime he is near me and is using a knive for whatever reason, I always think he is going to use it on me. Same thing with walking across the front of a car while it's on and he is in the drivers seat...What should I do?!?!?!? I seriously can not stand him anymore...

2007-08-26 13:47:17 · 4 answers · asked by Jon 2

2007-08-26 13:36:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked this question before but nothing has worked, ok heres my dad in full detail. He has been smoking weed every single day since he was 17 years old hes now 55. This is a fact. A day will not pass this man doesn't smoke weed 1-2 times a day. He runs a business hes at his job all day. My mother and I do not like to take him anywhere, because he is very very obnoxious. Ever since i was a kid all hes ever done is YELL and every sentence is a curse word. Its like he has turrets syndrome. Hes always angry. Heres an example, yesterday i decided to go somewhere with my dad. On the way to my aunts house we got into a conversation about cars, from there it turned into a battle as always. He started cursing me out while the windows were down. We are in Manhattan, so you have people from all over looking at the car, looking at me. And i wanted to die! My mom and i both agree that he does this thing where he makes sure everyone is looking then he blows up on you so he has an audience. HELP ME!

2007-08-26 13:34:24 · 28 answers · asked by FlyHighDude 1

my in-laws house grosses me out. One of the reasons is because their dogs mess on the kitchen floor. My father-in-law always says he is going to let them out before he goes to bed and then doesn't. The one week that they were outta town and my husband I were watching their house. I swept and moped that house every day and let them out before I went to bed and I NEVER HAD ONE MESS to clean up.

Is there anything that I can do? Whether is be saying something not so blunt to my in-laws about the dogs or even getting over this nasty feeling about their house.

I mean seriously, I go up there every other weekend to visit and by the time it is time to come home, I cry because I feel so disgusting.

PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-08-26 13:02:00 · 7 answers · asked by hugsinlove 2

Im 14, and just started high school, and im in Marine Corps. Junior ROTC, and i love the program. But i have to wear my hair in a bun when i wear my unifor,, and my hair is layered and somewhat short, wich makes it hard, but if my hair was shorted i wouldnt have to mess with it. Problem....My dad is a preacher, and he thinks girls shouldnt cut thier hair...period. Im tired of having to try to put my hair up for an hour when i could just cut it! i really want to anyways. He tells me that its un christian like for girls to cut thier hair that short, and its really annoying. What do i do?

2007-08-26 12:47:01 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that my daughter is going down hill fast... She moved out 3 months ago (she's 19) She started smoking.. OK not bad but then she started smoking pot, I'm not sure how often but the person who told me said it's all the time. She quit her job, is getting kicked out of her apartment because she can't pay rent, she owes over $1000, she's over drawn on credit cards and at the bank. She doesn't eat and has gone from 120 (5' 7") and is now down to 101 lbs. She looks awful...but she thinks she looks great. How can I help her? She wants to move back home and says she is going to change. Can she change? Any one have any success stories and or ideas on how her dad and I can help.

2007-08-26 12:28:15 · 17 answers · asked by Vapsjp 1

my dad gives me $5 every week but if i want something then i have to tell him what i'm gonna buy and he can say no to it, so i'm practically saving up money for college. and plus he won't let me get a job. what should i do?

2007-08-26 12:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a very small house with only 1 bathroom and we leave the door unlocked and often use the bathroom when someone else (my mom, my brother or me) is in the shower as we get ready for school/work. I hav see him naked before as we are not shy in the bathroom. However, this time I saw him with an erection as he was toweling off and it was huge! This is the first time I hav see a erect penis and I was fascinated as I stared at it. He was quite cool and did not try to hide it but continued to dry off. I asked my mom and she says tht it is normal for boys that age to have erections after a shower and to consider it part of my education. My brother still treats me like a kid and is very protective of me and i luv him and look up to him. Should I apologise to him that I stared at his erect penis?

2007-08-26 12:14:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone thinks moms that have lost custody have been because of drugs, or abuse or crime and it isn't true. I want to hear your stories......

2007-08-26 10:58:00 · 11 answers · asked by artrenery 2

my mum is no longer loud near me due to some problems and im currently with foster parents i would like to try and make this tempory by getting in touch with my real dad does anybody know how you can do this even if you dont knwo much about them xx ?? any help would be appreciated

2007-08-26 09:40:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and I do NOT get along. I have recently moved out. Then I got into some financial trouble due to my daughter's father not paying his support. Well. We started staying at my mom's on the weekends while I'm off so my child is able to eat. We have NO food. I cannot get any kind of assistance because they say I make too much. I spend no money on anything other than gas to get to and from work. I don't even see my child from Tues-Sat. Instead of sitting at home moping about everything I have been working double shifts at work, hoping to maybe earn a little more money so I can buy food and go home. I hate having to stay at my mom's when we have our own place. Anyway.. She gripes about EVERYTHING I do.. Even when I go out of my way to do something she still finds something wrong with how I did it. I suppose this is more of a vent than a question.. Anybody else have a similar problem with their mom? I'm rippin my hair out here..

2007-08-26 08:52:44 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer E 2

At first I thought it was mine because it fell right next to me; So i took it then I realized it wasn't mine. Soon I realized it was someone at the laundry who lost it, they were complaining and talking about it in jamaican [ which is basically english sumwhat]. I
feel like I have sinned because I didn't give them the money. So I came upstairs and prayed [I'm muslim] Idk right now I'mm confused this isn't really a question I guess I'm just venting out my feelings; I feel really guilty. But meanwhile ; what should I do? The people at the laundry left; I tried returning it. I just don't feel like holding on to the money anymore like just throwing it out the windo to tke this weight off my shoulders...

2007-08-26 08:52:21 · 8 answers · asked by ijustwanttoknow 2

After visiting inlaws recently, I felt there were a few things I wanted to say about how my husband's sister dealt with her kids, how his mother responded to me in a conversation. Some background: I'm a middle class Canadian, he is working class Irish, who has brought himself into the professions (respect!).
I find generally, & this applies to the sister, that Irish parents are very quick to put their kids down in public. They might mean well, 'tough-love' etc., but comments passed sound anything but loving.
Re. the mother in law, we were discussing groceries and food in general, & I mentioned that I tended to trust the labelling, if only because questioning every label would drive me crazy. She scrunched her face & said with incredulity "do you really believe that?", as if to say I was a fool. Again with the put-downs. Being a polite Canuck, I said nothing, if only becasue I was a guest & she was my elder.
But once home, I expressed this, & my husband is now avoiding conversation.

2007-08-26 08:43:59 · 3 answers · asked by elka_72 1

At first I thought it was mine because it fell right next to me; So i took it then I realized it wasn't mine. Soon I realized it was someone at the laundry who lost it, they were complaining and talking about it in jamaican [ which is basically english sumwhat]. I
feel like I have sinned because I didn't give them the money. So I came upstairs and prayed [I'm muslim] Idk right now I'mm confused this isn't really a question I guess I'm just venting out my feelings; I feel really guilty. But meanwhile ; what should I do?

2007-08-26 08:37:16 · 19 answers · asked by ijustwanttoknow 2

my cousin [hes 23] was watchin tv and my little brother kept annoying him and messing around. even i said to my cosin to slap him one cos he was messing around. but something snapped in him anhd he picked him from his hands and literally flung him downwards...with force...and my brother fell face first onto the carpet...i heard the thud i was there. this worries me even though my cousin has never ever done such a thing before, hes also never shown such anger or force with anyone. i cant beleive what i saw. i was shocked. im not sure if im exaggerating cos hes my little brother or not. but this is what i saw.my cousin is normally and everyone says so , of a mild nature....im surprised cos my brother didnt deserve that.
since, he hasnmt said a word [ the cusin that is] this happned last night, he hasnt spoken to me.i dnt want to talk to him so pls dont tell me to.


thankyou

2007-08-26 08:03:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Dad and his wife had planned a fish fry for like a week, and I mentioned to my Dad that my hubby and I have 10 lbs of nice big gulf shrimp in the freezer I'd be happy to boil and bring as appetizers. Dad was super excited thought it was a great idea. So this morning, he calls to make sure I'm still making it, and I said of course. 15 mins after I boil it he calls and says that "L" the stepmom doesnt want me to do it cause there will be way too much food. I said well, its already done, I'm bringing it. He replies, "well be prepared for some attitude about it". So I said well, I wont come and we hung up. Now, there will be almost 10 people there, and this shrimp cost us almost $50. What do I do? I'm always dealing with this petty BS from "L" and its getting tiresome. Do I stay home and eat my yummy yummy shrimp with my hubby and kids? Do I take it? UGH family politics suck!

2007-08-26 07:03:11 · 9 answers · asked by sterlinglaw23 2

2007-08-26 06:00:46 · 45 answers · asked by xxibumbenxx 2

Ever since i was born i live with my parent & my mum parents, the millionaire

My mum become almost crazy when her parents both past away & my dad crazy about another woman

I have try to help my mum recover

& bring back mydad to our family

even have help my sister so much from school work to life issue

all i ask from them is their love & time now

I have been working for 10 years & pay my own university fees

Compare to my friends & cousin i am the most success & friendly one

Why my parent still see me like a ghost & never proud of me

I have bring them travel as much as can

They dont even say thank you

I am only 25 and they want more from me

Sometime i feel like killing myself

2007-08-26 04:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by branded boobs 1

my teenage son, 16. comes in and leaves lights on everywhere. goes to sleep and leaves his pc on. goes out and leaves the telly on. leaves his bedroom a tip. leaves his trainers in middle of hallway. etc etc. it causes a lot of rows and my partner (not his father) moans and says this isnt normal behaviour (he didnt live with his own son while he was growing up)
now dont get me wrong, i have a go at him and make him clear up and turn off. he also has a part time job to see him through college and on the whole is quite an amiable lad.
just wanna get others opinions please.

2007-08-26 03:48:25 · 28 answers · asked by annonymiss 1

After my parents died, I went to live with my friends mom. One day I saw her naked, and she was actually pretty hot. Then, a few days ago, we went to a party, and we both got drunk. I have my own house now, but I went to visit my little brother, at her house. Because I were drunk, I jumped into the pool naked. So did my friend's mom. We had sex under water. She was good at sex, and she was hot. She wants to have sex again. Should I do it or not?

2007-08-26 03:07:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

let me just say that i wanna live with my dad and at this moment i live with my mom(well she has full custity but i acually live with my grandma) and they know that i want to live with my dad but they wont let me in fact they wont even let me spend the night with him! So dad talked to his layer to see what he could do bout goin to court to get full coustity and he said that they best dad could get was half custity?? Is that true because im 15 and live in IL and i thought that i could pick the parent that i choose to live with!? So could someone help me plz!!!!

2007-08-26 02:19:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-26 01:10:00 · 23 answers · asked by selenafanalways 2

ever since i was a kid, i used to feel something within the family. i cannot explain the feeling. there is something wrong which i cant figure out. its a peculiar feeling. as if there is something to be find out. years have passed, im a 24 years of age now. and last 2004, my mom told me together with my sisters-in-law, that i am an 'adapted child'..i cried out for awhile. asking lots of questions to them about my history and asking myself 'why'..but it didn't last. my agony has left me. i didn't dwell on to that situation. but of course, it really hurts. by now i feel more insecure and downcast. does anyone out there have the same situation?and feel the same thing. do i have to find for my biological parents?where can i find help?my mom told me that, she bought me for P 800, she doesn't even know that they are my real parents..all what she did, was to bought me and she didn't ask for questions. she cant even remember all things that had happen..its just so sad that i cannot see them..

2007-08-26 00:37:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have no one to rely on with this kind of problem i have. i want to go back to school,but there is no way. i am a medical technology student. i have three siblings, they work already. but they don't give me the assurance that i can stll continue.they have their own family to support and their children are going to college soon. and sending them to college is not that easy. their matriculations are getting so expensive. my mom cannot work because she is already 72..im the youngest. i want to give it back to her. its time for me to give her my gratitude. im so sad that i cannot do anything. i understand the situation of my siblings. i want to continue my schooling. but there is no one i can turn to. my situation seems to be hopeless. all i can do is pray. yeah, that's the only thing i can do..

2007-08-26 00:09:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous