Ever since i was born i live with my parent & my mum parents, the millionaire
My mum become almost crazy when her parents both past away & my dad crazy about another woman
I have try to help my mum recover
& bring back mydad to our family
even have help my sister so much from school work to life issue
all i ask from them is their love & time now
I have been working for 10 years & pay my own university fees
Compare to my friends & cousin i am the most success & friendly one
Why my parent still see me like a ghost & never proud of me
I have bring them travel as much as can
They dont even say thank you
I am only 25 and they want more from me
Sometime i feel like killing myself
2007-08-26 04:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by branded boobs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is a sad situation but if they are not going to be proud of you be proud of yourself and your accomplishments that you have made with out their help. You should be very proud of what you have done so far by yourself. Very impressive for a young women..:) I can only hope my girls do the same..:)
You can not make some one love you and I know it hurts one of the worst pains ever especially since they are your parents but you have tried and tried and it is not working so quit beating yourself up over it. You know that you are a good person and have already accomlished a great deal, I am proud of you!!!! As a mom with three girls..:) Your life is worth living so live it. Either they will accept you or they won't. This is your life your living so live it for you and be happy and stop letting them bring you down.
I wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-08-26 04:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sheila C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously killing yourself is not an option. However, it is a sign that you need a solution in a desperate way. I don't know if this will help, but you sound alot like my husband. He grew up in a dysfunctional family also and is the oldest and most successful and responsible one of the family. Have you done much reading on the net about dysfunctional families? There is alot of info on the roles that children (even adult children) play. Alot of times the oldest child of the family becomes the "responsible" child and takes on lot of the things that you are doing. You are far from alone. It is a rather typical situation. My husband is just like you, but older now, and is able to see that he cannot solve everyone's problems. It is completely impossible. It just sucks the life out of you. Do some serious reading and it will make sense to you. Get some help if you need to.
2007-08-26 13:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by I39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T SAY THAT! Please! Nothing is worth killing yourself over. Please take a look at the world around you. There are many wonderful things that life has to offer. So your mom's crazy, so your dad's a womanizer. I didn't grow up with my dad, he didn't love my mother and left her for some ugly hag. I have a ton of problems and I still manage to smile because I know that life has a way of making things right. Perhaps you feel like you have nothing to live for, but believe me YOU are worth it. Talk to a counselor so that they can advise you. Forget about your parents, I know it hurts, but you have to move on and make a good life for yourself. At the very least, I applaud you for everything that you have accomplish, you are a good person.
2007-08-26 11:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by n_garcia83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, its not your responsibility to try and "fix" your mom, or to bring your dad back. That's between the two of them. It sounds like your parents are grieving big time and that may be why it seems they do not see you. I am sure, under their grief, that they love you. Right now, they may not be able to give you time. Just keep loving them, let them know you are there for them, and continue building your life. Find someone you can talk to, perhaps a counselor or therapist.
Good luck.
2007-08-26 11:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by goodcook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur parents just dont no how 2 express thier feelings towards u so maybe u should try 2 talk 2 them and see wat happens. Chances r is that they are proud of u but r depressed and dissapointed with themselves. I feel 4 u. If u have any more questions or u just need someone 2 talk 2 then u can email me at borrellannemarie@yahoo.com. Good Luck!
2007-08-26 11:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by Emery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie killing yourself is not a good solution!!!! Your parents are going to do what they want to do, there is nothing you can do to fix their problems. Dont even waste your time trying. Be there for them as you have been and if your not getting what you feel you deserve from them then distance yourself from them for awhile. Your 25 so live your life to the fullest and dont worry so much about them. If you are having suicidal thoughts, seriously you should get help for yourself. GOOD LUCK TO YA.....
2007-08-26 11:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Skilow... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur parents became so worldly and forgot d real meaning of hapiness. Happy r those people who knows how how to be contented of what they have. Blessed r those people who knows d real meaning of love. Love should be AGAPE, giving w/o expecting in return. Meaning to say, u have to know first our God and learn about Him (Jesus). Finally u will come out of ur burden and will be happy forever. Its hard, but its true also, take it from me, I have a hapi family. If u need more advices, pls. don't hesitate to write me, I'll be honored to help u... don't 4get, Jesus loves u!!!
2007-08-26 11:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Cez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been misunderstood by your mom
2007-08-26 11:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋