My father is extremely hypocritical! He gets mad so easily and complains that i'm too technical and that everything has to be persice with me. I can't tell him or my mom anything, although I can tell my mom more stuff. I don't exactly trust my dad with anything. Everyime he is near me and is using a knive for whatever reason, I always think he is going to use it on me. Same thing with walking across the front of a car while it's on and he is in the drivers seat...What should I do?!?!?!? I seriously can not stand him anymore...
2007-08-26 13:47:17 · 4 answers · asked by Jon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry, I was in a hurry, I'm 14, almost 15. I can't really tell my mom anything either...it's a big trust issue. And I would have to get money somehow for councelors...which i dont have
2007-08-26 14:13:31 · update #1
How old are you? Is he your biological father? Is there any more to this story that you're not telling me? Does he have reason for his actions?
Do you have family you could stay with for a while? Or even a friend or church member? Don't spread it around that he's a murderer or anything, just say you're not getting along.
If your instincts are telling you that you are in danger with your dad, you need to get out. If you're an adult, that's fairly easy. If not, you're going to have to talk to your mom while dad's not home. Tell her how you feel. You know that she doesn't feel that way, but you do, and you feel the need to get out. Ask for her help. If you can't then it's time to go to the school counselor. This will be really big, though. You may be moved to a foster home, your parents will be investigated up one side and down the other, and your father may never forgive you. It would be a lot easier if your mom would help.
TX Mom
Not a counselor
2007-08-26 14:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah c'mon man, you gotta grow some balls and act like you gotta pair. You didn't say how old you are so it's a little hard to picture your situation, but I doubt seriously he plans to stab you or run over you with a car. Don't react to his critical attitude as if you care, blow his stupid *** off and make sure he knows you find his opinion worthless.
2007-08-26 14:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a counsellor to help you...in school, online, doctor's referral, yellow pages, social services. They can lead you in the right direction.
2007-08-26 14:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Veevee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... talk to your counselor... ask for help... tell her/him that this is affecting you a lot
ask the counselor for help
just do it!
a father is supposed to make you feel safe... not the way you feel... no, that isn't normal at all
2007-08-26 14:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋