Family - November 2007

Is it a crime to think good for someone? My 10 yr old sis always does stupid things. I try to talk her out of it, try to make her understand that what she's doing ain't right. But she's least interested.

So what she does is (maybe unintentionally) gets me and my parents to have a tiff coz my parents always support her, no matter how wrong she might be and I always try to correct her. I know maybe she hates me for trying to correct me.

I used to same the stupid things when I was small and now, when I've grown up, I realise how fcukin stupid I was to ignore all that my parents used to say to correct me. I can't go back in time and rectify those mistakes. So my intent is that my sis doesn't repent whatever she does today later on.

But I always end up on the losing side. Today, I feel I've had enough. Let her do what she wants to its her life. Let her screw it up if she wants to. What can I do if she's just not read to listen !

Wow, Isn't it a crime to think good for someone?

2007-11-30 23:44:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

long story short today i had this big o argument with my dad... he said that he regreats having me with my mom... he said that hes ashame of me!!!..... im 18.... this is always happening.....should i just move on??? but how??....my mom doesnt want me to leave......

2007-11-30 21:09:03 · 19 answers · asked by Gilberto M 2

I don't want to sound greedy but its almost christmas but my dad said "no" to the ONE thing I wanted the most a new mp3 I got one last year but its not very good,I wanted the Samsung K3 but he says he wont buy it,how can I convince him,please don't post rude comments=D

Thanks!

2007-11-30 18:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm seventeen and i'll be going to college next year. my problem is that my family is always fighting, and my younger brother is really affected by it.

by fighting, it's not just shouting. it escalates sometimes in physical violence which affects my brother even more.

on one hand, i want to go to college as far away as possible but i'll be worrying about my brother the whole time. i know how depressed teens can self-mutilate and develop complexes, and i don't want that to happen to him.

i can't exactly suggest that my whole family goes to therapy, because they'd probably kick me out of the house for daring to suggest something like that.

the fighting is mainly between my parents and my mother and my older sister.

i don't want to stay here. i'm sick of the atmosphere and there's no good colleges around anyway.

what do i do?

2007-11-30 17:36:48 · 12 answers · asked by fire 1

Am I a bad daughter? My mom and her boyfriend has been going out for almost 2 years now. She works full time, and every night she sleeps at her boyfriend's home which is right across from ours. I only see her twice a day...when she drops me off to school and when she comes back home just to change out of her work clothes and then she goes across to her boyfriend's home. Then tonight, my mom comes home twice, once at 6PM and then she went out and came back at 8PM and asked me if I ate yet. (I starve myself...plus she has no time to grocery shop...I know how to cook but I am afraid of making food as I've almost burnt our home twice). I say yea (though I haven't), and she tells me that Ron, her boyfriend took her out to dinner, but he also asked her if I was going too. She thought I ate already...so she didn't bring me.

So I went to the bathroom, and turned on the bathtub with my clothes on...and started just sitting there with my knees together and head bent down...crying silently with

2007-11-30 16:52:37 · 11 answers · asked by Candii Rainbow 2

I need help. My husband and I are wanting to buy a house. Then tonight I mapped sex offenders in the area we would like to move to. There is a sex offender on the same street! What do I do? What would you do? Do you live near sex offenders? It said he was convicted of rape and gross something or other. Please help!

2007-11-30 16:51:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 16:18:05 · 7 answers · asked by Tanya M 2

To cut my hair? What are some good ways to convince her? She is REALLY REALLY stuborn about letting me cut it so I need to know really good ways to convince her to let me cuz I REALLY want to very much.

2007-11-30 16:11:56 · 13 answers · asked by love sucks 1

2007-11-30 15:12:24 · 5 answers · asked by Bob M 1

2007-11-30 11:45:29 · 31 answers · asked by Ax. 2

2007-11-30 10:50:40 · 3 answers · asked by christysolano2003 1

This terrible event is fast approaching in my family, and I honestly don't think I can get through it if I'm there. How can I get through it? What would you do?

2007-11-30 10:28:54 · 9 answers · asked by Love Conquers All 5

like when i got home i saw that she had been crying and i didnt think anything about it.

well just about 5 minutes ago her and rodney came out of the bedroom and she started punching him in the back and i thought they were kidding but she kept punching him all the way till they got in the kitchen and when she stopped she went back into her room and slammed the door like really hard.

what should i do?

to be honest im kinda scared that somethings gonna happen.

2007-11-30 10:22:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is a full time student and employer, my baby is 1 year, his mum lives with us, am very sensitive i don't stand judjments,and she is very judgemental. me &my husband don't have the privacy of being intemite ,not even have the time for it, our conversations always end up with a fight,i feel like he's started to feel annoyed because of me and my sensitivity, i can't help being serious,and i don't feel excited for anything ,nothing makes me feel happy whatsoever.i feel bored with everything, sometimes i feel like i need to go far far away but i have no choice to do so.is there any recipe for being happy and interested in life and how to get my husband back to me???????????

2007-11-30 10:20:39 · 6 answers · asked by sazi 1

Okay. Here's the deal. I know my mom has been having relations with men for money. And its really hurting me inside. She doesn't know that I know. And I have so much proof. Gross texts, e-mails, phone calls. Also, I know how it started. Her friend, whos a huge slu.. you know...well she brought her to it. She knows this lady who is basicly selling other women. So she told my mother about it. And since then my mom hasn't been home. She acts so weird, and she ignores me and my little sister. My little sister doesnt know, and i hope she never does. I hate my mom for doing this to me. And no i wont call the cops. what should i do. im so so hurt. i use to look up to my mother, and now i dont. and thats not the worsed of it, she even dates married men, for money of course. i love her, and i need her to stop, because shes sinning, and shes making me hate her. what should i do?

2007-11-30 10:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I am 30 and my sister(half) is well under 21 and i know she drinks and parties hard, i have 3 kids and live in a different state so techinally i have never seen her drink only seen pictures of her and her friends doing so, so my moral deliema is do i rat her out to our dad or just chalk it up to her having fun and being young. I just don't want her to get hurt or be drinking or driving, i mean i had some fun but only after i was 21 i screwed up some and made my fair share of mistakes. My only thing is she will most likely konw it was me if i do tell and i don't want her mad, just safe.

2007-11-30 09:53:16 · 5 answers · asked by life as we know it 4

2007-11-30 09:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by bornleader79 2

My oldest child will be 23 in February. She is married & lives on her own.
My middle child is 17 & a senior in high school. She will turn 18 in March & graduate in May. She already knows what she wants to be & has been getting college credit in high school. After graduation, she has a summer & one year of college left. She will go to the local JC here with a grant.

My youngest child will be 16 in Dec. & is a sophomore. Due to some poor choices she was making here, she now lives with her father & step mother. We are still very close.

My middle child has told me for literally years that as soon as she turns 18, she is moving out. I have always told her she can't move out until she graduates.

It just occured to me that for the first time, since I found out I was pregnant when I was 17, that I will have no children & can do something for myself. So I've been looking into going to culinary school. (see additional info)

2007-11-30 09:35:01 · 22 answers · asked by wondermom 6

My husband died recently and left me with a step-daughter that I love dearly. I am the only mother she has ever known and would never abandon her. I believe she has a right to know her family, I am considering moving with her to Kentucky. I would do almost anything for this child.

The problem is for whatever reason, she wants me to make a promise to "never" become involved with another man. Now, how am I suppose to make such a promise? Her father and I discussed what we would want for the other person should either of us die before the other. Both of us expressed a desire for the other person not to live out their golden year alone. It has only been 4 months since my husband died and I miss him dearly. How do I convince my girl that even if somewhere down the road someone came into my life, he would never take the place of her father? How do I convince her that should that happen, he couldn't usurp her position in my life? Why would she ask such a thing when I'm not looking?

2007-11-30 09:20:27 · 6 answers · asked by RT 66 6

Need someone's advice. MIL moved in yesterday... after being dramatic and crying that she was intruding, to which of course we convince her that she wasn't. Anyway, she slept on the guest bed last night, and by the time I woke up this morning, she (with her stuff) was gone. No note, nothing. She's apparently decided to stay with my fiance's sister in her studio apartment. What the heck is she thinking? I'm not thrilled she's moving in in the first place, but after having begged, we acquiesced; and then made accommodations (physical and mental) for her. What's the deal!?!

2007-11-30 09:05:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He was acting like an a$$ cause I shut the door and millions of times he has been told to shut the freakin door but he don't. All I said was shut the freakin door and he starts actin like an a$$. Then he starts callin me names and he even blew his stinky cigarette smoke on me.

I just want to hit him with a freakin bat!

2007-11-30 09:01:11 · 5 answers · asked by Koter Boters misses Rufus! 6

2007-11-30 07:48:38 · 35 answers · asked by jmportman 1

i have this strange problem...i have a sister who is of my age .... i m 17 yr old....but we hav been very close to each other frm the starting.....but now a days i m having sme problem....actually when ever our parents are not there in our house...we like to get nude and see each other body.....last week i even masturbated in front of her....she saw me masturbating and watched me c u m..??she also masturbated .. we watch porn together..but we dont have any physical contact betwen us....that we hav decided.....but now i m feeling little awkward..as to what i am doing... can nyone tel me how can i change these habits....???

2007-11-30 07:23:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-11-30 06:55:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I'm in my late 20's -just a note

I mean I havent spoken to them in years and I choose not to because my life was devistating where as now I know who I am and what I need to do.

I feel guilt sometimes but just because they are my parents does not mean they are the best for me....

2007-11-30 06:54:31 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6

his mom says he can call me "step" cuz "he only has one mama".....i tell him you only have one stepmama no matter what his mom says......meanwhile his dad tells him to call me mommy if he wants, i say no.......this babymama drama is driving me crazy.

2007-11-30 06:39:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 06:02:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never had this growing up. Was this common or and extreme thing? How bad did it hurt? Was it done bare or not? Did it leave marks? Did you consider it abusive? Did it work for you?

2007-11-30 05:56:06 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole n 2

2007-11-30 05:51:03 · 3 answers · asked by chu 1

I still can't get it in my head, but after taking many online tests I have all the symptoms. But how do I tell my parents I really can't if I tell them they won't care or they will yell at me, telling me to just stop being depressed...but I know I can't do that,

This isn't the family that will take you into loving arms and tell you there here for you they don't understand...I am depressed I've ceased to solcialize and my grades have dropped critically low and now matter how hard I try I can't seem to concentrate or I get really bored and my parents are making me dropout of highschool, If I tell them I'm depressed they'll just think it's an exuse

what should I do?

2007-11-30 05:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous