Family - November 2007

My cousin spends all this money on clothes like designer brands and she cant even pay her rent!!! i want to tell her to stop but she never listens what should i do??

2007-11-27 10:57:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have one bro and one sis!-Ashley:D

2007-11-27 10:55:29 · 18 answers · asked by ᶊטȵᶊḥ׀ηԑ☼ 3

Ok my mother passed away almost a year and a half ago. Since then my daddy been being stupid hes retarted and im serious hes slow im not just saying that as an insult. Anyways i dont wanna stay here at my house no more. I seriously hate it and yea i have my faults he yells at me alot for no reason. He doesnt trust me everybody is always ******* compareing me to my damn sister cause shes in college a sophmore. I am a sophmore in highschool shes never had sex or a boyfriend i have im like the pit of the **** and i get tired of the bull. I lost my virginity and made mistakes but i dont have sex anymore well i havent had it for 2 months and im proud it may not be long but it is a step at it. Is there anyway i can leave my house like from my father. I cant take it sometimes i think of suicide and stuff like that and i dont know what do cause its tearing me apart. Im 15 years old

2007-11-27 10:51:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know more people probably have a father like this than I realize, but my dad is really one of those put-downers, never ever congratulating people (or even his kids) for their achievements, always making them feel dumb, like losers, even when they accelerate and the general public admires and is in awe, no, it's always "who cares" or "do you think you're good now cause you accomplished so and so?", and it's really disheartening.

For so long I did my best to ignore it and my mom is much more balanced and she helped a bit, but recently he came to visit after I hadn't seen him in months and at the end it became nasty and he put me down a lot. Shortly after he left he sent me an email asking me why I needed "so much" money to pay bills and college expenses which is pretty ironic considering he made over 400k a year last year and never provided more than food/shelter/water/basics.

2007-11-27 10:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by sarah 4

I really need help cause i don't know what to do from here. I live with my grandparents and aunt and she hit me, kicked me, and shoved me over a stupid phone and is just plain rude to me whenever she is around me. It might stress out my grandma to have another heart attack and i don't want that to happen so i called my mom and asked if i could move back with her. She said yes but after soon afterwards said no cause she said I lied about everything and need to grow up. My Aunt accuses me of going into her room and leaves stuff in there and says i do it. I cannot stay here with my grandma cause i will seriously go insane, and my own mom dosen't believe me. I have no other family who will take me in, where should i go. I am 17 so i could move out but i have no idea where to begin, and i know i will struggle alot if i do that but it is the only option for me.

2007-11-27 10:38:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 17 & my 8 yr old sister is being influenced in bad ways from my cousins. they talk about drugs infront of her they talk about girls asses infront of her and these cousins of mine are 18 and 17 boys.they are the worst role models who ucan possibly find.they are sooooo bad aand i cant believe im related to them suriously. they talk about gurlfriends infront and her.and my older sisters watch shows mtv shows like i love new york with her and tila t shows.shes learning all this bad stuff.shes smart in school and shes tough.but theres bad ppl around her who are making her bad i found out shes curses so i screamed at her and told her if i hear her curse 1 more time im going to NOT let her play my video games ever again so she listened.if u kno me im vary mature for my age i dont know how because i was the baddest kid wen i was younger but ichanged maybe a marcle thing i dunno.anyway my sisters are great and all but they let her watch things that are so not good for her.but thats not a bad

2007-11-27 10:35:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am missing a monkey I had when I was a kid. This monkey means the world to me and I would love to see him again. All I have are pictures... if anyone knows of where he came from or has one like him I would buy him from you.


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2007-11-27 10:33:02 · 2 answers · asked by Missing Monkey 1

doesn't work anymore and she is miserable she doesn't work she is on disability sense she doesn't work she wonders wat she can do in her spare time like sumthin fun that she can do don't tell me shop that;s basic stuff i told her to play bingo She's running out of ideas and growning bored by the minute give her some ideas...........plz

2007-11-27 10:25:13 · 8 answers · asked by keron s 2

Me and my coach got in a semi argument and she kicked me out how do I tell my parents

2007-11-27 10:22:17 · 3 answers · asked by rofl 3

I am in an interracial marriage and my dad and I have been writing back and forth trying to talk things out. Today, this is the email I got. (attached below along with the more details b/c it's long)..so what's your opinion of this? How would you react?? It hurt me and I haven't and can't share it w/ my husband for fear of his reaction.


Perhaps during the 18 or so years that we lived under the same roof,that I didnt make myself perfectly clear.Dont bring and ******* or zebras into my life.I dont need that.Over the years i have worked and been around many of black men.Everyone of them have the same goals in life.Marry a white woman,milk her of all they can get,leave broke PG and head on down the road,to another victum.all the while they have several other women that they are having an affair with,and getting as many as they can PG they dont care who,or if the bills get paid,nor do they pay any support to any of them.they keep moving on to one place or another,so no law

2007-11-27 10:12:26 · 7 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4

yesturday an agent came 2 our house, i asked my mom wat she waz doing and she said we r going to sell it. i asked where we would move and she said somewhere out of state.my parents divorces when i was 4 ans my moms side is fortunate and has alot of money. she married my stepdad.They put me in private school) i dont want to go away from my dad and family because i will miss him(who will only pay 4 public school and colage in state not out of state) my mom said she moving bc she is tired of my father and my step siblings. (step-dads children) and their mother. my step sister is 14 and i am 12 and we are so close i cant leave her at all. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to leave my friends at all. my whole life revolves around where i live. my father probally wont give me proper care (late 4 school) and i am just so scared. any advice? should i stay with dad or move with mom?

2007-11-27 10:01:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, so last July my brother (who was 18) decided to take a trip to New York and be with his 15 year old girlfriend...the relationship lasted 3 months and after running out of money, having to pay for a McDonalds door because he broke it and getting into many fights he decided to return back home (as of October). To say the least I was depressed and angry. The problem I have is that he does absolutely nothing. He's 19 and all he does all day is go on myspace and talk to girls he doesn't even know...he has no job, no car, he has no money, no personality (except this anger he has towards everyone) and he has NO intentions at all of changing that...he wants to live off from mom and whilst in NY he was hit by a car so he's getting $50,000 dollars for a broken wrist....he already has plans with that...plasma TV, expensive car etc.
Oh, and all he does is yell at my mom (she is kinda like a push over...she will Not say “change or get out” or something like that. This just makes him take everything for granted. Last thing…almost every night he stays up until one either wandering around in the streets or he’s up in his room (right next to mine) making these gross noises with girls and banging his bed like everywhere…it’s gotten so bad that there is a crack in the dining room ceiling:- (.

How can he change and what can I do that will help me…like make me as happy as I was when he wasn’t here and help me concentrate to maintain my straight A’s in school…which have been slipping from the lack of sleep.

Thanks!

2007-11-27 10:00:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

like every time I get a boyfriend I lose him because my dad says (no dating til your married) and i'm like that does'nt make since and he's like it does in his world.

2007-11-27 09:58:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So ive messed up a few times and my parents think im some idiot. I hate seeing them upset at me and hate it when theyd ont trust me but im not even as close to as bad as they think...how do I jus ttalk to them instead of just having them yelling at me?

2007-11-27 09:57:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anybody? 1

Every holiday I leave in tears & so angry, asking myself where did I go wrong? I raised 3 girls each one different as night & day. One of them (30 yrs old) always w/o fail says something hurtful & insulting to me, naturally in front of everyone of course in hopes of getting a laugh. This Thanksgiving her zinger not only hurt me but an innocent by-stander as well and was totally uncalled for! Apparently that wasn't enough so she started in on her younger sister! When I called her on it the next day (I didn't want to upset everyone by getting into it with her then) she said she did nothing out of line to either of us! Yet everyone asks me why I let her get by with that stuff she's just to old to take out back to the wood shed and even when she wasn't it would have done no good. I now refuse to go to Christmas because of her, it should be me Christmas is about the children and my grandchildren shouldn't miss out. My fear is if I'm not there she'll do it to someone else. What do I do?

2007-11-27 09:35:37 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3

I needed a car because I am 17 years old and he's getting the Audi Q7/Q5 (not sure yet) because he's convinced that it's the best SUV on the market (and trust me, it drives WAY better than the Cayenne.) Anyways, my mother starting yelling at him because she says its "inapropriate" for a teen girl to drive a car like that and that he should buy me a Nissan SUV instead. Would a father who would make a normal decision of handing down his old car be crazy?

2007-11-27 09:28:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wrote a question a couple weeks ago about how I should dill with the fact that my kids where going crazy and taking me with them this is not an everyday thing so I was stressed and asked how other dill with it. Well I got responses like your a bad mother etc. Well I have been at home from the day they were born I get up at the crack of dawn to make breakfast everyday take my boys to school so they don't have to ride the bus go to all school functions and volunteer I have my 2 yr old at home that I spend all day with I feed,bath,dress and love everyone of my kids have never pawned them off on anyone. So how come It makes me a bad mother because I got stressed one day and asked if any one else has the same problem if so how they dealt with it? It's funny I see questions involving ppl doing drugs around their kids and have sex with stranger and kids catching them and they don't get as many your a bad mother as I did for my I'm going crazy question I find this sad don't you?

2007-11-27 09:25:51 · 6 answers · asked by mommym00n 3

hurt everyone in a family? Its a drug isn't it?

2007-11-27 09:24:08 · 9 answers · asked by janjaley 2

im 17 and i recently found out on my own that my dad isnt really my dad and my mom lied abotu her age when she got pregnant. i wanna know my dads name so bad but she refuses to say anything and says that my dad is my dad. but there is soo many facts that prove it wrong, which explains why she hid my birth certificate. i need to know! please anyone outthere know of any nonprofit ways to find my father with out my mom knowing im searching? HELP PLEASE her name is melissa wright from fox island

2007-11-27 09:08:46 · 6 answers · asked by megan 1

after 20 years you discover that your parents are not your real parents .
i cant imagine ...

2007-11-27 09:04:23 · 34 answers · asked by ink 2

Okay my parents are getting divorcid.....me and my dad had a really good relationship....until he started drinking.....all he dose is passout on the couch and i have to watch my littel sis.....My mom she is a clean freak........alll this stuff has split my family apart......ever since they have got divorced just one littel thing to make me upset would make me yell and cry and just go carzy...It's like i am getting angry and the nezt thing i now i have hit my sis in the face.....My mom thanks there is something wronge with me and I should do something....I don't no who to trust....wat do you think.....i am relly woried one day someone might end up dead plz help

2007-11-27 09:00:49 · 8 answers · asked by Natasha S 1

When was the last time your parents saw you naked? How old were you and had you started puberty ???? My cousin showed his mom and dad his pubic hair when he first started growing it, and he showed my parents as well!!! (his aunt and uncle) just wondering if anyone else wasn't shy about this.....its kinda strange

2007-11-27 09:00:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's been very critical,verbally abusive, and emotionally, always sided with her husbands. Sent me to mental hospitals, ex i came home drunk one day she called the cops about 5 cops were in my house. She's never believed in me said i would be a looser like my dad. But i have proved her wrong ..but she still treats me like im a step child. Tells me that my(half) lil sister will never be like me. She treats my sister totally different. but on the other hand when i have been in really bad sistuations like when i ran away with an abusive boyfriend she picked me up. And she still is very negative with me...always but doubts in my head about my fiance etc.

She's hurt me so much pple...but i still talk to her because she also has helped me when i've needed her the most & b/c my grandma lives with her. What do ya'll think of this? I'm now a mother of a 3 month old and i can't ever imagine doing this to my son.

2007-11-27 08:59:48 · 7 answers · asked by Tica 2

Father use to do drugs now he's clean for two years how do u get along with a father like that he's bipolar he takes pills that control his mood he stopped taking them & he flares @ the whole family for no reason so what do i do?

2007-11-27 07:32:00 · 18 answers · asked by Libra86 1

My daughter (15) has shaved her ARMS. Is there any significance in this? I think it's weird, but thought maybe this is a current trend. She has been a cutter in the past - any correlation you know of?? Help.

2007-11-27 07:27:00 · 11 answers · asked by sunybuni 6

2007-11-27 07:24:05 · 7 answers · asked by girlofatwin 1

I don't want to do family photos or picture frames, I don't want to give her lotions or bath and body, absolutely no giftcards (she gets them all the time), no pampering at the spa (she's not into that)...I'm stuck! She's the last person to buy for and I have no clue.

2007-11-27 07:00:47 · 26 answers · asked by Gretchen M 2

things have chaged since a few years ago, in my mums generation people want to be out at 16 fending for themselfs.

i'm 25 (nearly 26) and still @ home with my parents, its like i'm on my own though cos i have the house to myself most times, but yeah with UK house prices sky-high at the moment at what age would you say is the right time to move?

am i sad *beeeeep* or what?

2007-11-27 05:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by nutnut12342002 1

My live-in boyfriend of 2 years has had an extremely bad relationship with his father all of his life. His father is a clinically diagnosed narcissist who abuses everyone that comes within reach. I have been a victim of his verbal assaults and his sexual advances. His mother enables his father to the extreme and their family has suffered beyond words for almost 40 years. I got caught up in the mess and now my boyfriend is defending his father. Should I just walk away?

His father has gone so far as to say that he isn’t his real son. My boyfriend recalls being a young boy and hearing this. A few months ago his father said the same thing again. Recently, I found literature about coping with dysfunctional families and my boyfriend really showed his willingness to finally get some help. He read everything he could get his hands on and I totally supported whatever he wanted to do. I never meddled or forced anything upon him. He was so grateful that I was there for him. I spent hours researching and went so far as to buy him books with my own money. He decided to confront his father in a letter and basically cut off ties with his parents until they get some intensive therapy. They are emotionally draining and they call constantly to harass us. Last night my boyfriend and I were in a little argument and I said “What’s wrong with you?” And he got so upset and he said “Nothing, DAD!” I felt really insulted to be called that so, in response I replied with calling him my ex-husband’s name. Yes, all very immature! Well, what happened next shocked me. My boyfriend told me off and told me how much he cares about his dad and he doesn’t like me badmouthing his father and he doesn’t want me saying anything about him because he cares for him and loves him. I felt like the biggest fool. I felt like I put my neck out there and I did everything to support his quest for a life as an adult and as a survivor is his father’s abuse. Then, he turned on me. I am going to mind my own business. Am I wrong to now walk away and let him fend for himself?

2007-11-27 05:34:14 · 8 answers · asked by K H 1

she seems to think that if me or my brother ask for something, she has to give it to us....

like, simply casualy mention that i'd like to do something, she'll get it for me most of the time.

you'd think this is a good hting.its not

my parents fight about money alot. it took a month of my mom's pestering to get $150 a week to feed 5 people. she'll mention things like "i've written more checks this month than i have in the last year" like its a bad thing...always fighting. and the bills of course. apparntly we use too much electric even tho our bulbs are floressent and we always turn stuff out.


Serious question here....plz help out

2007-11-27 04:25:58 · 21 answers · asked by OMGWHO?? 6