Family - November 2007

Okay...Im pretty sure my mother is crazy. But shes been that way my whole life. After high school I swore I would never move back home. But after college I found myself right back where I swore Id never go! Ive been living at home again for about 2 weeks....Ive already had enough. My mother is overly religious. Meaning everything is the devil. Everyone is a horrible person. Everything is bad! I swear she says horrible, obsurd, awful, evil etc. a few times everyday. She will start to talk normal then all of a sudden its right back to being negative . I cant take it!!!!! But shes my mother. And I cant comfront her about this believe me. She snaps into a crazy, cussing, psycho person if I comfront her about herself. She goes crazy on me a few times a year. Shes always right and everyone is always wrong. She comes across as normal person. But I have to live with this. How do I handle having such a negative mother? Is there anything I can do without actually comfronting her about it?

2007-11-26 14:13:49 · 5 answers · asked by amtech33 2

Chilling details about Baby Grace's cause of death have been found out. The mother and step father have admitted to beating the child with leather belts, and held her head down under water in the bathtub. Then the mother said that the step father threw baby Grace (known as little Ann Riley)across the room and her head was smashed into the tile floor.
Why is it that they were not charged with Capitol Murder??? Do you think the charges will be upgraded to Capitol Murder instead of Injury to a child? If it were a minority do you think they would have been charged with capitol murder, or would it be the same outcome?

2007-11-26 14:08:40 · 4 answers · asked by Tonya 3

he is VERY sweet and gets along with every one...but makes wrong choices....his mom wants to send him to a private Christian school but he says he knows how to get kicked out and he will...he is ADD but won't take med's because it makes him feel bad. He has lots of friends but does things before he thinks...what should we do?He is really depressed and I'm afraid he will really do something stupid....I even asked his mom to let him stay with me for a while...but she said no.

2007-11-26 14:07:39 · 34 answers · asked by gina c 2

Nobody knows who god's parents were, and I want to find out. Make a guess and help me out.

2007-11-26 13:56:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend had this bf, that took his phone with him and he never paid the bill like he promised, now their phones got turned off, and he gave her his phone without the battery, what would you do? She doesnt' have money to pay it but she thinks she should still talk to him until he pays the bill and then tell him to go away??

2007-11-26 13:55:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-26 13:38:57 · 5 answers · asked by Joe 5

Ok i dont thnk my mother would really care!
Becasue we never talk .. all she does is ***** about how lazy we are(me and brothers)
We never do anything together..
Me and my father .. we r pretty far apart .. to tell the truth i can stand him!
And i dont reslly have any friends...
I'm not close to any of my family..

Soo... i dont think anyone would care..

Why should i ever wast room on the earth??

2007-11-26 13:37:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

First-born, and I've just sortof been cutting all the hairs off as they come, but it's getting a little hard.

2007-11-26 13:37:08 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My great grandma came to live with us for sixth months. And shes from a very racist place and she is very racist. And just because I'm not fully white she hates me. And i have alot of black friends, and i had them over. And she uses the term colored people and it pisses me off. One day she was like"do the dishes" so i started to do them and she yelled at me bcuz i didnt fill up the sink. then she was like " You can't do anything, your're so dumb. Your never gunna have a fmaily, or a good job" then I was crying in my room, and she got me in trouble again. THIS IS TRUE too. I was like how could my great grandma say that to me. Now im really mad and cant get over. What do I do, I feel like i should shoot my whole family. help me

2007-11-26 13:30:58 · 5 answers · asked by ipod 3

I told her that I didn't want to live with her anymore because all the stuff she puts me through.
She asked me where do I want to stay since I didn't want to live with here!
I don't know where to go though!
[Baby Daddy, Brother, Octavias, Garretts, Tamekas, Idk

2007-11-26 13:29:26 · 5 answers · asked by Jezlyn 1

my parents have always pressured me about grades (which is a good thing cause it motivates me to work really hard). i recently got a B in AP chem on my report card and i panicked and lied to my parents that the teacher made a mistake. I don't know what to do now because they're asking me to tell my chem teacher to change the grade and have him resend a new report card. should i tell them the truth? I know they won't understand that I lied because i didnt want to disappoint them... im scared

2007-11-26 13:17:01 · 2 answers · asked by Vivian H 1

Okay..... I just got my first Serious boyfriend. He is a year older then me and my mom hates him just because he like to play to many sports. She said 'He want have any time for you'. I do sports to. I asked my mom if she would takes use to the movies and if she would watch a diffrent movie. She said she has to be right beside me. How can i be with my boyfriend without my mom finding out? I have allready tried sneeking out but some of my moms frind was comeing into the house and told her. My mom hands out with her boyfriend.....Way can't I
- Natasha&Josh 4Ever

2007-11-26 13:10:59 · 2 answers · asked by Natasha S 1

ok i`m a 45 year old man i have three kids my oldest daughter vicky she has been changing since she was 9 now she 10 she been backtalking sneaking out at night not listening 2 me anymore or my wife she if really stronger then both of us and she almost hurted my wife when she walked down the stairs and now she call her little brothers and sisters name and cuss word and me and my wife
PLEASE HELP ME!!

2007-11-26 13:09:53 · 3 answers · asked by tom 1

I was just wondering if having children takes away all the sorrow from having a parent, or both parents dieing.

2007-11-26 13:08:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who has a mother who has neglected her, was very mean to her, has never helped her. What makes a mother mistreat her own child? Is it possible for a mother to hate her own daughter? If so, why?

2007-11-26 13:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

my soon to be ex husband and i have been trying to work things out for 3 yrs. and its just not working he wants to party instead of taking care of his family. and in the last 3 yrs he has come and gone in my kids life. he disappeared all the time and they r really messed up because of it. and he is now almost 8,000 dollars behind in child support. i called him the other day and asked him to help me with some diapers for our son and he told me to ask his parents. cause he wants to see the kids and isnt going to pay if he cant see thrm. but i dont want him to hurt the kids anymore. i need help and dont know what to do.....please help me!!!!!

2007-11-26 12:51:25 · 7 answers · asked by Tabitha L 2

can i convince or prove to my parents to let me go places just with my friends. how did y'all do it?

2007-11-26 12:47:28 · 6 answers · asked by Kara 2

who would come first? Your offspring or 2nd wife/husband?

2007-11-26 12:45:47 · 11 answers · asked by Newlywed 4

I've been living with my dad and grandmother my whole life. My dad works 2nd shift so he's never around when i come home from school. For the past year now, my grandmother has become very angry. She's the one providing for me and my sister and when i say providing i mean, cooking and doing the dishes and sometimes the laundry. Me and my sister are not spoiled or anything. Whenever I try to do the dishes my grandmother screams at me and tells me to leave the kitchen. Sometimes that happens when i try and do my laundry. Also, she always yells at me and my sister for the littlest things like not finishing our meal or working on homework until late at night. In all, she's always yelling at us and its making me so frustrated. I can't stand this anymore. It's been going on for a year and almost every single day. Is there something wrong with her or am I just doing all the wrong things?

2007-11-26 12:44:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He calls me nasty names, he tells me i am fat, tells me i am ******* fat, dam* lazy and then calls me sweetie and tells me i love you. I don't know what to do. Here is some background. We are jewish, we live in the upper east side of manhattan in a townhouse, my dad is a lawyer, and my mom runs law firms, and i go to a small private school.. I live a good life but i don't know what to do. Every time i tell my mom, she says i provoked him and it was my fault. But, do I or anyone deserve to be hit? Should i call child services. I don't want him to hurt my precious sister either yet, I still love him and when i need him he is always there for me. This is a behind closed doors dad so what should i do. I am writing this in tears after he threw me to the floor and broke my cell phone by throwing it. Please Help.

2007-11-26 12:42:32 · 12 answers · asked by crazymonkey79727 1

My sister is 17 and she always brags about her boyfriend and I hate it. She talks about how great her life is and how she would totally hate to be me. She says how guys rate her 10 and that guys probably rate me a 1 or 2 and that sucks. I'm not bad-looking. I hate when she brags, my parents don't care. What do I do?

2007-11-26 12:41:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-26 12:35:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 24 y/o female.. and I hate my grandmother... well she's not really my "grandmother", she's my Aunt (she took it upon herself to be called that). I hate her, she's mean, rude, inconsideraite, a lier, she thinks the world revolves around her 24-7, she always thinks that her life has been so much worse then everyone elses, honestly she's a &itch with a capital "B". When I was younger 6-11 y/o she lives F-ing 7 miles from me, I lived in a heck-hole, I had to go to school with popuri in my pockets because all my clothes smelled like dog peepee, the people I was living w/ couldn't always pay the bills on time. I hardly had any food, was never told to go to school, heck I didn't learn how to multiply till I was 15y/o. When I was 8y/o I started my period, and I called her asking for help, and she called me a lier, and hug up on me... I have all kinds of anger aginst her, and I want to express myself, and why I don't like her at all... should I write her a letter and tell her, or no???

2007-11-26 12:31:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My eight year old has developed quite a wonderful way of talking back. I am very patient with him most of the time...but, sometimes it is extremely difficult to deal with. He interupts every time you tell him something. He won't stop and listen. He decides to open his mouth and argue each time he is told something. What should my husband and I do? We are trying so hard to help....

2007-11-26 12:06:41 · 27 answers · asked by Michelle L 4

talk to your children about the experiences or do you keep that hidden?

2007-11-26 11:54:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom thinks i want to be a marine biologist because when i was younger i wanted to be one, but i don't any more, i really want to be a singer or actor. she wants to sign me up for this prgram for kids that want to be a marine biologist. how do i tell her that i don't want to be a marine biologist anymore and that i want to be a singer or actor. i don't want her to be dissapointed in me anymore then she is right now with my school grades.

2007-11-26 11:47:42 · 9 answers · asked by musicfreak564789 2

2007-11-26 11:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by Autumn L 2

My dad never cried before, and he started crying,Should i try to make him happy,or let him be sad?What should I do?

2007-11-26 11:37:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to live in a small town with all of my friends but when my sister needed a new place to train gymnastics my whole family moved about 2 hours away. I know that doesn't seem far but I hate my new school. I don't get along with my parents well and I'm very shy. I'm only 14 and my parents have given me the option to move back, but they get offended very easily and I don't want to hurt there feelings. I don't like my new school and I don't have many friends here. I also don't want to have to make my sister give up her favorite sport since she is training 7 hours a day for a scholership.

I visit where I used to live every weekend and i love it there.



How do I tell my parents with out hurting their feelings?

2007-11-26 11:37:13 · 34 answers · asked by smallishchicken 2

I live with my grandma and I never get my fair share of anything! Neither do my parents or my sister. My grandma is always on the couch watching tv or doing a project and I never get to watch what I want to on tv. Even when she is not in there I can't watch it. She eats our food when she sees it ans thinks she can eat all of it and criticizes us for stuff she did. What do I do? I really need some help! She talks to herself often and when I do get to watch tv, she talks out loud to herself and others and when she is watching tv, everyone has to be quiet as a mouse. If you talk she will turn up the tv really loud just to say you are talking too loud. It is so annoying! I really need help. By the way she has no mental illness.

2007-11-26 11:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by I♥Reba 4