can i convince or prove to my parents to let me go places just with my friends. how did y'all do it?
2007-11-26 12:47:28 · 6 answers · asked by Kara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't. You have good parents. They should keep up the good work.
2007-11-26 12:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In most cases, mums and pops want the best for the kids. You don't instantly know how to be a good parent. It is a hard job, because you have to temper discipline with leniency. Perhaps you have disobeyed your mum and pops rules. If so, you deserve the situation you are in. You can only work hard to show them you have learned from not doing as they have asked. You haven't said how old you are, or where you are going, and how long you are going out. Could it be your friends are not the type that would be a positive influence on you?
Talk calmly with them about this, dont be a whinney little brat about it. Project yourself as a young adult, and you might get more freedom. Best of luck!!
2007-11-26 13:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank your lucky stars that your parents love you and are concerned about you. I just answered a question as to why to mothers hate their children. There are a lot of mothers out there that do hate their own children. They wouldn't care what that child did, or where she went, or who she went with.
They would let them do whatever they want. Why, because they couldn't care less.
You young lady, are lucky, whether you believe it now or not.
You will grow up knowing that you are loved, and you will have good self esteem. Look around you and you will see for yourself, those that are happy and those that are hurting.
Freedom to do what you want, is not a loving gesture, it is a gesture that means, I don't care, do whatever you want. No love and no caring.
2007-11-26 13:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring your friends by first to meet your parents. If parents know and trust the people their kids are hanging out with, they tend to be more lax about letting you go places with those people.
Once you do start gaining your parents' trust, do NOT do anything to lose it -it's way harder to gain back. So be honest about where you are going and who with, and be home when you are told to be home.
2007-11-26 13:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by annihilator1078 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prove yourself. Gain their trust and don't outgoing so frequent.
You must have GOOD friends to hang out too so then your parents will believe u when you're out! :))
2007-11-26 13:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them that you're responsible.
Just..prove it somehow.
Do well in school, etc.
2007-11-26 12:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋