How would you feel if your 12 year old dauhter killed her self??

Question

Ok i dont thnk my mother would really care!
Becasue we never talk .. all she does is ***** about how lazy we are(me and brothers)
We never do anything together..
Me and my father .. we r pretty far apart .. to tell the truth i can stand him!
And i dont reslly have any friends...
I'm not close to any of my family..

Soo... i dont think anyone would care..

Why should i ever wast room on the earth??

AND SAYING I NEED HELP DOES NOT HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

Maybe you need to find someone who you are close to and talk to them about how you are feeling. Talk to anyone if you have to, but talk to someone. I am sure anyone reading this post would be honored to answer any questions you may have. Life is too precious to waste.

Answer 2

Being a mother of almost a 12 yr old little girl...she gets on my nerves with her attitude, complaining every time I ask her to do something, such as clean up the living room, make her bed, clean up her room...and I complain alot when her and her brothers don't do anything around the house. BUT NOT BECAUSE I DON'T LOVE THEM!! It is very frustrating to put in a long day of work and come home to a messy house that nobody wants to help keep clean. It's stressful. But, just the THOUGHT of my daughter ever having those words come out of her mouth or even just to think them, shreds me to pieces. Your mother may ***** alot, but it's not because she doesn't love you. How could you even think about suicide? Suicide is the cowards way out of situations. Why don't you sit down with your Mom and tell her how you feel. I bet she would be so hurt to know you had these thoughts. Alot of emotional issues could be resolved, just by talking them out. You don't need help from a psychiatrist...what you need is to have a heart to heart with your mother. Honey, please don't think that suicide is the answer. Because you can never take that mistake back.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Don't talk like that!!! Your life is just beginning. Mother's *****. That's what we do! Sit down and talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. Help her out, if she needs it with chores and things. Get involved in school activities if possible to make new friends.

I know the world feels on your shoulders at your age, but let me tell you, it gets better. Trust me.

If you would like to talk, my messenger ID is listed.

Take care and DON'T for goodness sakes do what your thinking about doing!!!

Answer 5

Aww.... Baby please dont talk like that. My mother is not always the best mom..... but she loves me. And so does yours. And I'll be your friend. Don't think like that. Your life could be so much worse, and its never bad enough to take your life. Besides, you dont have to much time left until your out on your own. And then you can move out and make your own choices. If a stranger such as myself cares... then I KNOW your family, and your mother, would care even more.
Love

Answer 6

Ok....

Sounds like this is making you feel worthless and unloved and unappreciated. You feel your mom sees you two as lazy bums. You hardly see your father and even when you do, he makes you sick.

Suicide will not solve the problem.

I suggest when you go to school tell a trusted ADULT or if you go to church talk to a trusted ADULT about what is going on.

Also document what is happening.

Try to talk to your parents about how you feel. If they have none of it, at least you can tell the cops that you TRIED to talk to them.

Answer 7

What about your school counselor hon? Have you tried that route?

Sometimes parents are so self-involved, they forget that their kids have real needs and feelings too.

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I'm sending hugs! I care... xo

Answer 8

let me tell u about my best friends mom..... she moved my friend and her sisters all over the us depending on what guy she was dating. sometimes they would live in one state for like a month move to another for like 3 months and be in another one. it resulted in her girls droppin out of school.
she would always choose her bfs over her daughters and not only men but her dogs over her own children.
she favors one of her kids and doesnt even acknowledge two of them bc one is dating a black guy and is pregnant and the other is gay. she said she will never take the mixed baby out in public.
but these girls dont care about their mother they have moved on with their lives and are happy.
what im tryin to say is either talk to ur mom or really just try to stay away from her. i know 17 seems far away but at that age u can move out on ur own u dont have to be 18.
im not gonna sit here and say u need help and **** but really just think things through like ALOT bc you have soooooo much to live for. your so young and who knows with a little talk with your mom things could be perfect.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

your only 12.. you're life hasn't even started yet... you're going to have boyfriends, get married, have kids, this is a phase and you'll get over it.. cheer up kiddo! My mom complains about me all the time.. even to other people in front of me! it sucks! but i know she only complains because she loves me and expects me to do better.. trust me, your family LOVES you.