My great grandma came to live with us for sixth months. And shes from a very racist place and she is very racist. And just because I'm not fully white she hates me. And i have alot of black friends, and i had them over. And she uses the term colored people and it pisses me off. One day she was like"do the dishes" so i started to do them and she yelled at me bcuz i didnt fill up the sink. then she was like " You can't do anything, your're so dumb. Your never gunna have a fmaily, or a good job" then I was crying in my room, and she got me in trouble again. THIS IS TRUE too. I was like how could my great grandma say that to me. Now im really mad and cant get over. What do I do, I feel like i should shoot my whole family. help me
2007-11-26 13:30:58 · 5 answers · asked by ipod 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't bother getting violent, sit down and have a conversation with her. Tell her that she offends you and she makes you feel bad. If you don't tell her she might not realize it. If that doesn't help, have a conversation with your parents. They must realize what's going on and love you enough to support you, maybe they could have a conversation with Great Grandma supporting you and telling her that it is innapropriate to say racist things and to treat you differently because you are not fully white. Good luck, hang in there!
2007-11-26 13:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your racist witch of a grandma to never get a blood tranfusion, because a black guy developed the way to store blood and plasma. Never use a pencil sharpener because a black guy invented that too. Invite all your black friends over. Make the witch miserable. Shooting them will end up with you being in jail, and in hell. Walk around the house saying black power. That will get the old broads goat.
Your granny is a manipulator. When she pis&&you off, laugh in her face. Was your dad black? If so say its your mums fault, and she shoulda kept her legs together. If she is religious, she had better hope God is white. She will be in a heap a trouble. Best of luck luv
2007-11-26 13:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to stay strong and fight through it.
there are gonna be alot more difficult times in life
as hard as this struggle might be, in order to move forward in life you got to overcome the past.
i understand it would hurt for a family member to hurt you like that. i've been through it too. not necessarily because of my race. it's more of destroying my dreams.
i guess it shows how much we care about other people's opinions when really all that matters is what we think and how we feel (and God, in my case).
but then again, it's hard NOT to think of other people's thoughts about you.
i guess when it comes to your great grandma all you can do is ignore her or try to find a day where you can pull her aside and have a heart-to-heart talk with her.
tell her you care for her and that you wish she could just respect you. i mean, it's not your fault you were born the way you were. we were all created beautifully.
so, yeah... lol, i don't know
this might not help as much.
but i just wanted to let you know you're not alone. : )
2007-11-26 13:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by taking chances 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you want to spend the rest of your life locked in a cell because your great grandma is a retarded idiot. Call these people and ask them how to deal with this.
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2007-11-26 13:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, hon... saying you feel like shooting people is a very bad thing... maybe you would do well to talk with your school counselor about these issues?
Please understand, older people are set in their ways. They are not going to change for you. Let's face it, they can be IGNORANT!
Your grandmother has no right to call you names.. Again, she's old, that is how she LEARNED to behave many years ago, and you can't change her... We both know it's wrong to say hurtful things.. YOU ARE NOT DUMB!!!! And please, do not believe it!
The reason your great grandma says mean things to you, is because when she was a kid, people said mean things to HER... abuse is a cycle and our behaviors are learned.
The best thing you can do (besides talking to your school counselor) is to try and look at this as a lesson learned -- calling people names is very hurtful. Remember it, and you probably won't do it to others.
sending HUGS! You deserve them! xo
2007-11-26 13:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋