how can i find his name when she wont tell me?

Question

im 17 and i recently found out on my own that my dad isnt really my dad and my mom lied abotu her age when she got pregnant. i wanna know my dads name so bad but she refuses to say anything and says that my dad is my dad. but there is soo many facts that prove it wrong, which explains why she hid my birth certificate. i need to know! please anyone outthere know of any nonprofit ways to find my father with out my mom knowing im searching? HELP PLEASE her name is melissa wright from fox island

ok so here is the deal, my dad isnt my dad and i know this, but my mom wont tell me, she has hid my birth certificate from me for 17 years and i finally found it, the father says unknown and no name given, she had told me that i had another last name because she had "forgotten" to put on my dads because they werent married yet.... >.< how can i figure out who my dad is with out any information?

Answer 1

Perhaps your dad doesn't know about the other dad? Or she could be keeping you from potential harm. Either way, once you are 18 you have every right to all aspects of your life. If you sit down and calmly and rationally speak to your mother, maybe she'll open up. You may not be ready to hear all the facts even if you think you are. Acting mature and responsibly is key here....if you ever want to find out anything. Your best bet is the Department of Vital Statistics in the state you were born. What state is fox island in?

Answer 2

Start with obtaining a copy of your birth certificate.Odds are,your fathers name is on it.If your mom won't let you see your real one,then obtain one from the state where you were born.Usually,those come from the state department of vital statistitics,and are usually less than 20 bucks a copy.

Answer 3

You might have to wait until you're 18 to get a copy of your birth certificate without your mom's signature but I would try that.

Answer 4

Try going online to research your family tree, they should have something.Also tell your mom if she didnt want you to try to find out who your bio dad is, and wanted you to act as if your step dad is your real dad from now on, she should have kept her big mouth shut, now SHE (your mom0 has opened pandora's box and will pay the penalty.

Answer 5

call the hostpital you were born at and ask them to send you a copy of yout birth certificate :)

Answer 6

call the maury show. he can help you