help me plz...?

Question

Okay my parents are getting divorcid.....me and my dad had a really good relationship....until he started drinking.....all he dose is passout on the couch and i have to watch my littel sis.....My mom she is a clean freak........alll this stuff has split my family apart......ever since they have got divorced just one littel thing to make me upset would make me yell and cry and just go carzy...It's like i am getting angry and the nezt thing i now i have hit my sis in the face.....My mom thanks there is something wronge with me and I should do something....I don't no who to trust....wat do you think.....i am relly woried one day someone might end up dead plz help

I'm not relly hitting my sis i have once but i since my parents got divorced we had to move.... no one likes me at my new school.... i am the girl sitting alone..... no frinds no one to talk to.....everone points and laughs..... no one ever said hello.

Answer 1

I am not sure this is the right place to be asking questions, if your worried someone might end up dead you need to speak to a school counselor, teacher, law enforcement, CPS, DCFS.....I hope all works out for you.

Answer 2

I am sorry this is happening to you. You shouldn't talk to a counselor cause you could get taken away from your family. It just takes one phone call. Talk to your parents about the way you feel. If that doesn't help talk to a grandparent or an aunt,uncle or other trusted family member. Just be open about it. If you are worried that someone might die, then you need to talk to that person about it. It is important you do this. I hope I helped you and I hope everything will turn out okay. =)

Answer 3

you are just probably depressed about your parents getting divorced and you shouldn't take it out on your sister especially if shes younger than you you need help from a therapist or try talking to your school counselor and see if they can do something about your family and hopefully this mite be the wake up call that your family needs! if not the counselor than maybe a friend or teacher and if you have any relatives you can move in with, they mite be able to help!
good luck and hope everything works out for you!

Answer 4

First off,tell your parents what is going on with you.Then ask them to get you counseling.If they say they can't afford it,check into a/a.They offer a program called alateen that will help you not only deal with your dads drinking,but it will also help you cope through the divorce.Another perk?You meet kids who are your age going through the same thing.They have chapters nationwide,and even have state and regional meetings that usually are sponsored by the chapter.If nothing else,encourage your mom and sister to go too.It will be beneficial for the three of you,as you will learn to understand your father's addiction.

Answer 5

I think it is a great place to ask!! Better than not asking at all!!
But I do think talking to your counselor, a close teacher, or ideally your parents is completely necessary.
It may be a good idea to admit your feelings of anger (which you did), accept that you have a right to be angry, but try not to let that anger dictate your life. You sound like a very strong person. When we let anger take over...we give up our choice of how we want to handle things. We lose control of OURSELVES.
It has taken me 42 years to learn this...I think you are smarter than I was!
Obviously you don't want to hurt anyone, don't let anger do that TO YOU!
Get the one on one advice you deserve. Look around again, you are smart, you will know who to trust. You may not like everything they say but take a deep breath, listen and try to stay positive.

Answer 6

I would agree,go to a school counsler or a teacher you trust,and talk to them.Maybe they can get you some ideas.Otherwise,I'd try to stay away from family whenyour upset,and help your dad to drink less :)

Answer 7

Your family needs counseling because your parents are screwed up and it is screwing you kids up.
Talk to your school counselor and see if they can set something with you and the parents.

Answer 8

i think that at your school you should go talk to your gudiance councler and tell her/him what your problem is and why it proably happening
i think it's stress from having to see your dad like that and your parents getting divorced and you hitting your sis has proably given you tons of stess