I never had this growing up. Was this common or and extreme thing? How bad did it hurt? Was it done bare or not? Did it leave marks? Did you consider it abusive? Did it work for you?
2007-11-30 05:56:06 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No, but my friend was spanked with a belt in front of me while I was at his house. He was spanked in just his underwear for a long time, and then, he had to stay in his underwear for the rest of the day. He was hit in the butt and legs too. He cried a lot.
2007-11-30 16:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be spanked personally. When I was a kid I would get grounded for the longest times and well when I got spanked I was usually able to go play an hour later so spanked. Plus I think I hated getting spanked so I thought long and hard about what I was about to do and if I would get a spanking. Most kids do, grounding doesnt always work.
2016-05-27 00:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by dorothy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I got spankings with a belt from my dad growing up. It hurt like Hell. He did other abusive things to me too and to this day, he says he did nothing wrong and that I deserved every bit of it. I have a disability, am a manic depressant, and have relationship issues and am scared to death of sex. I believe my dad caused not my disability, but the other issues, it was like he was trying to beat the disability out of me. Now my parents are divorced and I rarely talk to my dad unless he's driving me somewhere since I can't drive. My mom has never spanked or whipped me but has slapped me across the face once and she cried and appologolized afterwards. My dad is mean, hard headed man. I work in retail and seeing leather belts scare the Hell out of me. I make another coworker deal with them. I never wear leather belts either. Spanking with hand or object is wrong. It hurts, it scares the kid, teaches them to lie, teaches them hitting is the way to solve problems. Only mean hypocrites spank.
2016-11-17 13:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by chloef 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grandma raised me,never spanked me,now then we had a lady principal in school who had a paddle made out of wood with holes drilled into it,she would say bend over and grab your ankles,and we would get seven or eight good smacks,no.1 it hurt,no.2 when I got it I done something to deserve it,no.3 It worked and I do not consider it abusive,I had a redish butt for a few days,big deal,I still consider to this day that lady one of my best teachers, ( I'm now 61 yrs old ).
2007-11-30 09:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Butch46 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A belt spanking was the last resort, just the motion to go for the belt scared you straight, It does get the attention, for you to not do anything that would be a belt for punishment.
a slap on the rear was quick learning- Not excessive though- that causes Other problems
2007-11-30 06:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by t m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I got it once in a while from my dad. It stung alot more than a regular spanking. It got it over my jeans, but I had a friend who got it on her bare butt. No marks for me and it wasn't excessive. It worked for me, I never did what ever to to get whipped again.
2007-11-30 06:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I got spanked many many years ago... was not considered abusive... lefty marks a couple times.no big deal.. was not done bare....it worked for me!!
2007-11-30 05:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by trop 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
for the extreme things, I got the belt. anything else, it was the dreaded wooden spoon.
2007-12-02 04:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by tm41170 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yea i did! lol
but it never worked for me :P i always do it again and again, then when i grow up my dad stopped lol like when i was in the 5th he stopped, i remember when he ever want to hold his belt, me nd my sister nd bro go outside the house running and laughing! oh happy memories!!! lol
2007-11-30 08:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Slayer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did every day. And I liked it.
2007-11-30 06:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋