Okay. Here's the deal. I know my mom has been having relations with men for money. And its really hurting me inside. She doesn't know that I know. And I have so much proof. Gross texts, e-mails, phone calls. Also, I know how it started. Her friend, whos a huge slu.. you know...well she brought her to it. She knows this lady who is basicly selling other women. So she told my mother about it. And since then my mom hasn't been home. She acts so weird, and she ignores me and my little sister. My little sister doesnt know, and i hope she never does. I hate my mom for doing this to me. And no i wont call the cops. what should i do. im so so hurt. i use to look up to my mother, and now i dont. and thats not the worsed of it, she even dates married men, for money of course. i love her, and i need her to stop, because shes sinning, and shes making me hate her. what should i do?
2007-11-30 10:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We dont need the money, I know it.
Shes just awful
2007-11-30 10:30:14 · update #1
OK. Listen her I have never had a close relationship wit my mom due to her actions.Ya,I've had many people tell a school counselor and all it does is make matters worse so I sorta know wat ur goin through.You need 2 tlk 2 ur mom first. Then if she still does it just keep tlkin' 2 her eventually she'll get the idea.If that doesn't work after tryin' it for at least 4 months u could try a counselor or tell a close friend. It really helps when u have someone else besides an adult figure 2 tlk 2.
If u would like 2 tlk more about this or any future problems wit ur family or anything else e-mail me at hotrod_50@yahoo.com Good Luck
2007-11-30 10:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha") 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister does the same thing. It's a HUGE disappointment, but I'm not responsible for her, just like you are not responsible for your mother. She's an adult and can make her own decisions. If I were you, I would continue to voice my concerns and pray that she changes her ways. I would also stop looking at her e-mails and texts- if you already know, then you don't need to know anymore. Sorry you have to go through this! Good luck!
2007-11-30 10:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jesse James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like some of the women who have answered this question could have done the same thing and that's why they are getting all defensive about this. Ladies...it's not ok for your mother to do that, it's disrespectful to the family, degrading and demoralizing, so stop making excuses for wht she is doing. She's a S(lut) bag and thats the end of it.
Sorry you have to go throuth this buddy. You should talk to your mom and let her know how you feel.
2007-11-30 10:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your school counselor so they can help her to get help.
One other thing you can try though is writing her a letter for her to find while you are at school telling her you know about what she is doing and how you feel and the danger she is putting herself and you and your sister in.
Prostitutes get murdered and sometimes if they bring their men home they rape the daughters if they get a chance.
See if you can get in touch with your dad or a relative.
2007-11-30 10:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she won't understand the hazards, so tell her all of them. she could desire to get assualted or abducted or murdered, get a std, meet some quite creepy men (that's hurting mentally), and he or she gets into some quite messy stuff. that's risky, its risking her existence, and for my area not nicely surely worth the money. tell her to pursue something else to make funds, perhaps an common interest. perhaps end her training and circulate to college? or circulate to a school the place she will learns qualifications for jobs like dental assitants or something. i mean those jobs could be greater advantageous than advertising herself. consult along with her mum and dad if she would not hear to you, they are going to understand what to do greater advantageous. desire i helped and good luck!
2016-10-09 23:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by clam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not doing it to you, she's doing it to herself. Stop invading her privacy (texts and emails). That is wrong. Insulate yourself from it. Create your own goals, objectives, and happiness. I think you'll find that children who come from stressful living circumstances such as your own do much better in life if they focus on what they want and need and learn how to get it. Keep your morals and ethics intact and keep up your studies and relationship with your sister. If strange men come to your home or you feel threatened or that your sister is threatened, call the police. Full stop.
2007-11-30 10:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that your mother is doing what she is doing because your family isn't doing so well financially? Either way, there are other options for bringing in money instead of having to go that route. You gotta have the courage to talk to her about it how you disapprove and how it is making you feel, especially you feeling negative towards her.
2007-11-30 10:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you even know why your mom started besides the friend thing maybe she needed the money and had no other wayy at the time you can't just go and judge when you only know half of the story you don't know the reason so before you come disrespecting your moms and sayin you hate her you should tell her you know and ask her why she did it
2007-11-30 10:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by goodies make the boys jump on it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you my friend. There is nothing you can really do except tell your mom how much it hurts you and that you wish she would consider not only you, but how it must look to your little sister. Prayin for you dude!!
2007-11-30 10:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mr uknowwho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you know what she is doing and how it makes you feel
2007-11-30 10:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by jon s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋