Family - November 2007

is it an Ahole if my 40 year old brother is staying with my mom, and I called and he said " call her back " all rude and hung up on me?

2007-11-29 18:10:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm the first born in a family of three children,my daddy doesn't trust me,doesn't give me priorities,in short we live miserable as if he's not my daddy,but my mum knows me very well,she trust me,she listens me as well as trusting me,so what can i do with this type of a father????

2007-11-29 18:07:41 · 10 answers · asked by Domino 2

We are 14 years difference in age, me being older. My brother is an alcoholic, and he lies to our 78 almost 79 year old Dad and my dad believes him and not me. It dosen't help that we have two sisters a year apart in age which makes one 7 years younger than me, and one 8 yrs., younger putting my brother and I, a 14 year difference in ages. My question is............how do I get my brother to stop lying and my younger sisters to stop defending him, and listen to me ????

2007-11-29 17:49:44 · 12 answers · asked by Cindy A 2

Im a female by the way!

2007-11-29 17:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

6 years ago in our town they was a fire in a stable.
A horse was killed and another one put to sleep the stable was destroyed and a motor home too.
At the time i liked playing with matches and was blamed for it.
I got sent away for two years,that summer my father died and the family said it was the stress i put on him and in effect i had as good has killed him.
I never lit that fire no one believed me.

My sister a week ago admitted to me it was her.
She did it because i was more popular then her with out nan this was the reason she gave and she knew i would be blamed.

My family still are not right with me i still get funny looks in the street 6 years on i lost 2 years off my life and my father died thinking i was a fire bug.

i do not know what to do and i feel numb.
my sister was 12 at the time and says she did not thing all what went on to me would of,like that makes it ok.

i feel nothing it is weird about her and what she told me is this right?

2007-11-29 17:25:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 3 sisters
1.26
2.21
3.18
26 year old one lives right next door to me.
My 21 year old one lives a block away from me
18 year old one live in NC. with her ******' husband (i dont like him,but i learning too.):)
My 18 year old dosen't call me and it hurts me soo much..!
My 21 year old one won't even spend a cupole of mins. with me which really sucks
26 year old barely spends time with me.
My parents they just yell and scream at me well they tell not to be like my sisters and i'm acting like the worst one which is the 18 year old,which i'm not. But it seem they're just hurting me every single dam day..!

2007-11-29 17:23:09 · 5 answers · asked by ~*i'm a lover not a hater*~ 2

2007-11-29 16:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He said that he doesn't want to pay child support and that he probably isn't going to sign the birth certificate for that reason... He also said that he isn't ready to be a father... But then again when its just me and him he acts like he wants to be there and help raise the child... He told me just the other day that he was afraid of getting attached to the baby...

2007-11-29 16:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by mrcuddles_4life 1

Basically, my mom tells me that she knows that she will never have any relationship with me. that i hate talking to her and don't want to be around her. that she doesn't understand why i get along better with my dad and that she's not going to try to continue to talk to me or basically acknowledge my presence around her anymore.

This all kinda took me off guard. she was pretty much putting words in my mouth and when i tried to explain myself she refused to see things from my point of view.
what i was trying to tell her when she was yelling at me about this stuff is that when she does talk to me it is always in a nagging way (doing homework, college apps, and that stuff). so when she does this i usually get upset and leave because she basically yells at me when i come out of my room for not working harder.

My dad on the other hand treats me like a person and not like some sort of child prodigy (which i am far from but ya you get the point).

2007-11-29 16:17:24 · 13 answers · asked by ColorfulFireflies 2

2007-11-29 15:44:16 · 18 answers · asked by 4wheeler nut 4

I am at home allot and been gettin to no the nehbors allot better becous I started the nehborhood watch program. So now we are all buddy buddy and the lady next door (TRISH) has a doughter who is 13. She has been running WILD ever sinse I moved out here at a young age. The girls name is Cassiy. She is REALLY pretty and looks ilke she is aighteen. Shes really is getting wild and there is nothing her mom can do about it. Men pick her up at night time and she dosnt get back till the morning/afternoon/next day and she holds it to her mom sayin "YOU HAD ME WHEN YOU WERE 12 SO YOU SHOULDNT BE TALKING" She came to me caus I am understanding and not judjmental at all wich is one really good thing about me. She told me the other day that she has an STD and her private is burning. She was crying and now I think she feels bad for her reactions? Why is she rebelling like this???? Plus she says she has ben with allot of men that are over 18 and she dosnt remember the last time she had a period.

2007-11-29 15:31:23 · 4 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

My sister-in-law’s family insisted my brother become Catholic before marrying. She did not attend church whereas my brother did. She insisted that being the wife, it was more important to appease her parents. Our parents did not want to add stress and therefore said nothing.
Now their son is marrying and his fiancée’s parents want him to follow their religion. My sister-in-law in livid and feels this is not right.
I cannot imagine she sees no connection or twist of fate here (she is very well educated), so how can someone be such a hypocrite and have the nerve to complain to the very people he/she did the same thing to previously?

2007-11-29 15:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by Traveler 4

2007-11-29 15:21:59 · 3 answers · asked by A 2

the day after to a week after thanksgiving.
ya that's my birthday.
i have never had a party ,
even when i was young
it falls to close to holiday trips
people are always out of town
or it is just not a good time.
so to you out there that lose your special day
to the holiday sprite
how do you recapture your day?

2007-11-29 15:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by mkst 3

eversince I was 13 I have liked to wear my moms and sisters thongs. When I wear them I fell sexy / horny I like the way they feel and look sometimes I masterbate in them because they make me so horny does this make gay or wierd I have event stolen some of them to keep

2007-11-29 14:51:45 · 87 answers · asked by Blue 1

ok so my dad is living with this girl who is going to be my step mom but she hates and i mean HATES kids. BUT MY DAD HAS TWO! i dont want my dad to get hurt i mean they get in alot of fights!
what should i do Chatham_gurlz

2007-11-29 14:44:38 · 18 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥ 1

I love my dad very much...But I dont think he loves me.

He recently moved to San Antonio Texas where he is living with his current girlfriend. I dont like her.

I think he is going to marry her...

But...My parents have been divorced since I was 7. It was very difficult. But it is more so now that I am older because I understand it all now.

He left. He didnt want the responsibilty of having children or a wife. So he cheated on my mom and left.

I know that he doesnt love me...what kind of father lives 1,463 miles away from his children and family?

He calls everyday...and tells me he loves me. But I dont believe him.

Because of him, I dont have a regular life. No daddy to cry on. No daddy for my little brother...

Do I need like a theripist or something?

What did I do wrong?

2007-11-29 14:32:08 · 13 answers · asked by Summer 2

2007-11-29 14:11:18 · 12 answers · asked by gena518 1

2007-11-29 13:31:50 · 13 answers · asked by catiebeans 1

he was a drunk a stupid drunk that didnt even want to know his own daughter he sat there in drunk his way in died of cancer in had a tuma in his head in didnt even care

2007-11-29 13:28:27 · 6 answers · asked by precious 1

ok i'm planning 2 sneak out to see katie. here are sum problems though.
1) My window's screen doesn't open
2) I can't drive but i plan to anyways (i got a permit)
3) I'm sneaking out on friday (i have siblings that stay up)
so yeah can u help me w/ those problems? also is this a good plan? i plan to stay the night.

2007-11-29 13:24:27 · 4 answers · asked by Mike 2

for all of you that said something funny that stupid but most of it a lie i am old enough 27 i getting my master in i just need it i already have job offers but i needed comfort cause my long lost father that didnt care **** about me just die and i wish i could have got to know that story was 3 months ago that i told but my dad just died in i never got to meet him

2007-11-29 13:19:05 · 4 answers · asked by precious 1

for the last 5 years my brother has been making me feel like crap. he puts me down and hes always telling me that he is smarter than me. i try and try to get along with him but he just
keeps treating me like dirt. i even caught him telling my parents
that im dumb , and i dress different.... = [

2007-11-29 13:13:45 · 9 answers · asked by free 2

my mom and dad are divorced and im moving in w/ my dad next year. my mom said she dosnt want me to go. i wan tot go becuz shes never home and there for me and my brother ( although she says she is) shes always at at a bar or sumthing. i tell her how i feel she just dusnt listen she keeps doing it. she dosnt realizehow much of a bad mom she is. even my dad agrees. i hate her for doing this..but of course i love her in my hart. idk why. i want her to get it tht i hate how she does this. and she does it every day when were w/ her not my dad. she sliek i hav ea life to you know your nto the only one and she freaks outg and calls me a dumbshit and stuff. what kind of mom is that?!?! what can i do to get thorugh to her. ive told her ive hated her. i wanna prove it so from now im im not goign out and so i wont get stuck at my friends hosue when my mom says she picking me up at a certan tome and does 3 hours later. what can i do i wana prove sumthing.

2007-11-29 13:05:30 · 6 answers · asked by koolgurl678 2

My father and I have not had a very good relationship over the past many years, but I have tried to let him have a relationship with my children. However, this past spring my son argued with me, and my father intervened by shoving him, putting his hands around his neck, and screaming in his face. I told him he must apologize for that ridiculous behavior that was less mature than my teenager's. He refuses, therefore I refuse to let him visit my house. He says he was defending me and has nothing to apologize for. Do you think this is something I should backdown on or should he grow up and own up to his mean behavior?

2007-11-29 12:53:26 · 10 answers · asked by wawawebis 6

2007-11-29 12:52:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found it in my daughter's purse.
She's grounded but I'm wondering how long this would have lasted if she had kept it.

2007-11-29 12:50:17 · 12 answers · asked by misslindsay 2

I went 2 the doctor a few months ago because I had been feeling horrible for a few months and i have gained a lot of weight it turned out I was 14 weeks pregnant. we had a family meeting today and told my 3 step children and my only daughter there would soon b a new baby girl in the family and she would be named Rebecka Rose and my step kids seemed extremely excited but my daughter started to cry and she screamed at me saying she had already sacrificed so much for me and that now I was betraying her. She said she wished her father had gotten custody even though he's a horrible man and hes staying in town for a while. My new daughter is supposed to born next month! Now I'm think that this baby was a mistake. I'm now torn and sad. What should I do?

2007-11-29 12:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by Eliana 2

The spoilt kid is my aunt's, she lives with me in the day and afternoon, and during the night she goes back to her own home. She's 7 years old this year, and her parents always quarrel at home(verbal abuse each other). Parents are getting a divorce when child gets older, and i think the kid is going through some hurts. Recently she cry alot, when she cannot get her own way, and she will throw things. Her father, her grannie(that lives with us) have been saying very negative things to her, like"It would be better off if you die (in chinese dialect)" etc. personally i've been a spoilt kid, and i had some misunderstandings and hurts from the aunt that lives with us, hence i tend to treat the kid the same way as how i percieve my aunt to treat me. Are there any ways to solve this situation?? How to handle her?? Thanks alot.

2007-11-29 12:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3

If your daugther told you that a man raped her or violated her in any kind of way, do you think you could swallow your hurt and pain and wait for the law to take over? What if the law did nothing except put the violator in jail for a few months and now they're free to do it again? Would you be so angry you could kill? Would that be wrong? What if you confront the person and he acts as if there was nothing of it? Would rage overcome you? What if it was your son? Do you believe in violence caused by rage and revenge? After all, we're here to protect our children... right?

2007-11-29 12:23:10 · 8 answers · asked by Y.a.S.L 3