my mom and dad are divorced and im moving in w/ my dad next year. my mom said she dosnt want me to go. i wan tot go becuz shes never home and there for me and my brother ( although she says she is) shes always at at a bar or sumthing. i tell her how i feel she just dusnt listen she keeps doing it. she dosnt realizehow much of a bad mom she is. even my dad agrees. i hate her for doing this..but of course i love her in my hart. idk why. i want her to get it tht i hate how she does this. and she does it every day when were w/ her not my dad. she sliek i hav ea life to you know your nto the only one and she freaks outg and calls me a dumbshit and stuff. what kind of mom is that?!?! what can i do to get thorugh to her. ive told her ive hated her. i wanna prove it so from now im im not goign out and so i wont get stuck at my friends hosue when my mom says she picking me up at a certan tome and does 3 hours later. what can i do i wana prove sumthing.
2007-11-29 13:05:30 · 6 answers · asked by koolgurl678 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You've already told her how you feel, there's nothing to "prove." Telling her she's a bad mom is not making her any better. She sounds like she has a lot of problems. See if you can move in with your dad now.
2007-11-29 13:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by R H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you really want to be with your dad. Don't just say you do just to hurt your mom. You don't have to prove anything. Some parents are not good at parenting. You are lucky you can choose who to live with. Your mom may never get it. Of course you love her she's your mom and always will be. If living with your dad gives you a more stable home life and less stress and worry, than that's the place for you. If you have problems with your mom that you need to deal with, ask your school counseler for help. Parents should not call kids names no matter how aggravating they are. It is the behavior that is annoying, not the kid. Of course all kids have a talent for knowing what will cause their parents to freak out and sometimes a parent will let something slip. Not an excuse, but we all know it happens, just as kid's sometimes say hurtful things to parents. She does have a life and a right to adult friends, but being a parent is her first responsibility.
2007-11-29 21:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by teleduster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your dad and tell him to come and pick you and your brother up. Pack your bags with everything you want to claim and say good bye to mommy's home. Dad will have to go to court and get custody, LATER. You and your brother will have a court appointed attorney who will speak in YOUR behave. You do not have to put up with this another day. Call him and get out.
FYI, your mom is unhealthy. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you, nor does it mean you don't love her. It means you would be better off living on your dad's sofa than living with mom.
2007-11-29 21:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by rustyoldma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU do what is right and set an example for your mom, she needs help.Pray for her.Move in with your dad though ,write her a letter explaning why you did and maybe she will seek help.
2007-11-29 21:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report her to child protective services and this way you and your brother can move in with your dad.
2007-11-29 21:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my mum and dad are divorced to and i always fight with my mum. my mother never listens to me either only when shes done watching her stupid tv shows. so i guess the only way i can tihnk of to do is to get you and your mum alone and then try and talk to her and if that doesnt work then purposly get her attention then try and talk to her.
2007-11-29 21:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Random Person 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋