I'm the first born in a family of three children,my daddy doesn't trust me,doesn't give me priorities,in short we live miserable as if he's not my daddy,but my mum knows me very well,she trust me,she listens me as well as trusting me,so what can i do with this type of a father????
2007-11-29 18:07:41 · 10 answers · asked by Domino 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-11-29 18:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Butters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a family meeting and discuss it like a family should to resolve your problem or at least so you can have more insight and opinions from everyone else. It would probably spiral downwards if you don't address the problem, after all he is your father and you don't want to end up with a sour relationship in the future. Although no one or any families are perfect so the least you could do is talk about. Or talk with your mother about it first.
2007-11-30 02:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by curtis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have been shortchanged in the father department, but your mom sounds like a good one. You cannot solve your dad's problems for him. Try to understand that he may have come from a background where he wasn't understood. Maybe that's why he lacks understanding of you. Communicate with your mother and ask for her support. You will probably have to practice patience and forgiveness with your father, but it will build your character.
2007-11-30 02:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best to become the best adult you can be.
Go to school, stay out of trouble, and help your mom as best you can.
Ignore any guff from your dad... you may have to keep a low profile around him, but don't listen to him. He and his crappy attitude is just the first set of obstacles you have to overcome in life.
Move forward with your own life and be a good example to your siblings.
2007-11-30 02:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it, and prove you're better than he expects, or you can try to have a grown one on one talk with him and tell him hpw you really feel, if that doesn't work then keep doing the first advice, don't let other people drag you down and make you feel like ****, even of its your family, keep living your life-happy.
2007-11-30 02:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Dearenemy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your father loves you. He probly has done something wrong in his past, and doesn't want you to wind up in some bad situation (I'm not saying your that your father did do something bad, thats just what happens most of the time.) Maybe you should ask him or something.
2007-11-30 02:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try talking with him and seeing if that helps the situation your in,tell him his behavior hurts you.If that doesn't change atleast you tried,some people can just be stubborn or mean at times.But atleast you have a good mother on your side that knows the real you.
2007-11-30 03:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times the oldest child gets skrewed....good luck to you.
You may have to prove yourself trustworthy and worth something!
2007-11-30 02:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he doesn't trust you.
You may find that you're not as grown-up as you think.
2007-11-30 02:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could talk to him about it. my parent use to be like that, but i talked to them about it, and it is improving.
ask ur mum to talk to him too.
2007-11-30 02:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by ~~Lacey* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋