I am hated cause I am half white. My dad side is hispanic. He hasn't seen me in forever like 12yrs. I'm 22 now. Why do people act like that?
2007-08-27 11:41:05 · 8 answers · asked by marissadesiree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Because he's shallow, stupid and doesn't have clue what he's missing out on in his life. It hurts you, but it's his loss.
2007-08-27 11:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by LAL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's messed up... but you can't do anything about it... they are all adults & you are an adult too. You know what though, sometimes things are not what you think they are. Now that you are 22 you can look for him & ask him what went on with the relationship your mom & he had. You can ask him why he didn't look for you or keep in contact with you. Sometimes our mothers don't tell us the complete story, or they are so hurt about the man leaving them that they talk bad about them to their children (you). It might not be an issue about you beign half white... it might be something else. My bother in law had the same thing happen to him. He left the relationship & newly born daughter (she's half white) because he met another woman ( yes sometimes men are dogs). Years later (23 yrs later) she found him... they talked & cleared a lot things. Turns out that he was already engaged in Mexico with his (now) wife when he met her mom, she got pregnant and was stuck between two situations. Why didn't he just stay with the one was already pregnant? Because he was already married 'legally' in Mexico and the family had a lot to say with what he did/didn't do. That's just how hispanic families are... they butt in too much (I'm Mexican). Good luck and try to get to the bottom of things just so you can be at peace with yourself.And once again... it's nothing you did.
2007-08-27 20:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by iwish4love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just really sad that people have to be so closed-minded. Why on earth did he think it would be okay to sleep with a white woman if he wasn't prepared to take responsibility for the possibility that she could get pregnant! Talk about discrimination!
I'm sorry for your situation, but it's truly their loss to not be involved in your life. And of course it's easier said than done, but you really are better off not having that kind of negativity in your life. They will regret their small-mindedness some day.
2007-08-27 19:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry to hear this,, but you should not hate that you half white, are,Hispanic, first you did not ask to be born,, but i sure you not all white are like this, my self i half Irish, half indain,,, an some time it hard to find where i fit in,
2007-08-27 19:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
White people are not the only people who can be prejudiced.
2007-08-27 20:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry,Sometimes people do that because something happened to them when they were young. Im sure Its him and nat you. Just try to get over it and move on.
2007-08-27 18:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by lyndatish 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are like that. You're better off without them and their racist ways.
2007-08-27 19:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by j_pedid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's really terrible
2007-08-27 18:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋