should i inform my dad?

Question

I live in a small town and my family owns a funeral home..just recently my father hired a new guy to drive our hearse..hes not very sensitive when it comes to the deceased recently i noticed him dropping the casket out of the hearse and the women sort of slipped out..he then very angrily shoved her back in..then i noticed him stealing money from one of the deceased..he took the jewerly off of the elderly woman and put it in his pocket.then he slapped her across her face.laughed and did it again.this time even harder.. it seemed unreal.i tried to tell my mom to watch him but she thinks im dreaming it all up.i mean those are just a few things ive saw.who knows what i havent seen..i would hate for him to do something worse nextime.how could he be such a coward.these are innocent people hes harming..should i tell my dad so he can be fired.

Answer 1

You have to tell your dad. If not, a family member will sue him and your dad could lose everything.

Answer 2

YES...this man is not only insensitive to the deceased, but to the living as well...your father! If other people see that and word gets around about how your father's business is run (whether it is by him or his employees) it could potentially ruin him. By default your father is responsible for the actions of his employees, and if you want to keep your father from harm you would have told him the minute you saw this. Regardless of what your mother says, if you saw it you saw it. Once you tell your father, it is up to him to make the call, but get it off your chest and do it.

Answer 3

YES! That is just plain mean what's he's doing! Get some pictures of him doing it if you can. Carry around a camera, a guy like that shouldn't be working in a funeral home or anywhere at all!

Answer 4

YES. You should tell your dad. Immediately. The behavior of this man could ruin your father's business. This is scandalous. People want their deceased to be treated with love and care when they are being put to rest, not robbed and man - handled.

Answer 5

Yes and do it quickly. Your Dad could be sued because of missing property for the dead. I also would hate to think what else he could be doing to the deceased. You need to be up front and frank with your Dad and tell him what you saw.

Answer 6

YES!!
Of course... that is abuse of a corpse...How do you think their families or your father would feel if something were to happen and an outsider were to see this action and report your father's co because of him... Protect your father and the families that come in contact with your business

Answer 7

Yes, tell your dad... You wouldn't be able to take pics or to videotape these things? ... This is your dad's business and if one of the clients finds out that the body of their loved ones is going through these mistreatments, your father will get in trouble. I think you should tell h im.. Good luck!

Answer 8

Yes you should tell right away this is a very sick thing and might just be a preview of things to come. Your dad needs to know so he can protect his business and clients and his family.

Answer 9

.Yes, stand up and tell your Dad, what reason would you have to lie?That guy is a skunk, if they ever had to resume the body and money or jewellery is missing your Dad will be the one facing a judge in a court of law.
Make sure you're o.k., if I saw something like that I'd need counselling.
God bless.

Answer 10

I think this is indicative of a more troubling relationship that you have with your father - that you need to ask complete strangers advice on talking to the man that's brought you up, fed and clothed you all your life - sort your own problems out with your parents before looking at the problems of others.