help my mom is getting married and i hate that im getting 2 new step sisters! i already have 1. what sould i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-31 13:30:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Theres not much you CAN do about it. Youll just have to deal with it. If this is what your mom wants, its her life.
2007-08-31 13:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Gram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say your age or birth order.
Blending families is never easy. About all you can do is try to form allegiances with the new ones, and establish a pecking order. The key thing will be to get everyone on the same page... the parents should not show favoritism toward their own kid(s)... everyone needs to do their own appointed chores and everyone needs to maintain their own space. If each person in the household can hold up their own end it can be relatively smooth.
You can also do what you can to maintain a small amount of privacy, like getting a locking box (like a cash box)or locker to stow anything important in.
Where is your father in all of this? Is it possible you could spend some time with him if it gets too hectic?
The best you can do is try to get through to age 18 as smoothly as you can. You can study with friends in the afternoons. Stay active in school activities to build your references for college. You can find a part-time job (or invent one) in the afternoons to get yourself away from the mongrel hordes.
Take it all one day at a time.
2007-08-31 14:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom and be open to the fact. Your getting new ppl to share your life with!
2007-08-31 13:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by aggiesweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you will really like them once they are in the family.Hey let your mom be happy.I know she would want you to.
2007-08-31 13:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by lady bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all good luck
2nd next thing you know you are going to get along with them
2007-08-31 13:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by ~ *? * ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. We have a similar problem Except I have more siblings and it was my dad.
2007-08-31 13:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait and get to know them maybey their not so bad and who knows maybey youlle make a new friend
2007-08-31 14:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.froggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up. Before you know it you'll be out of the house and on your own.
2007-08-31 13:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by IRONFIST-X2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋