now shes hanging out with other people and it makes me realllly sad. what shold i do??
2007-08-31 18:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
......tell her shes a ***** and move on...
2007-08-31 18:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry sweetie. That is always hard.
I have a few questions for you. Did something happen between you? If so, talk to her and see if you can sort it out?
Have you just been busy and haven't spent as much time with her as usual? She may be feeling like you are not available, and has found other people to spend her time with? I used to lose touch with my friends when one of us got a boyfriend.
Is she hanging around a new group of people that is popular and she's blown you off? If so, contact her when she is alone and act normal. Compliment a few members of the group she hangs out with. This will indicate that you are interested in hanging out with them too. If nothing else, the compliments you made will likely get back to the girls that the compliments were about, and the girls will feel positively towards you, and may include you. Not much affects people more than hearing good things about themselves. If you think that your friendship is truly over, then maybe you should consider finding other friends as well. But at least try and let her know how you feel. Good luck!
2007-09-01 01:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lawgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Cut her loose.
She was either only your best friend in your own head... or she was your best friend for a while and then decided that she had out-grown you. She may have just decided to change her social identity by hanging out with other people.
People who had been best-friends to me back in middle school became stuck-up social-climbers in high school... and then would only talk to me when they wanted something.
All I can suggest is that you expand your own network and socialize with a wider circle. Find people who are interested in the things you like, whether it is a sport, crafts, literature, or whatever. Your next best friend will be somewhere out there. a lot of us go through several "best friends" as we go through various stages in our lives.
Don't be afraid to evaluate your "friends" every now and then, because they are mirrors for where you are developmentally... it will show you where you need to make changes in your life.
Look at each person and say, "What does this person bring to the table?" Are they always dragging you into stuff you don't want to have anything to do with? A drama-queen? A mooch? A time-waster? Or do they offer laughter or wisdom or insight? You know where to spend your time based on that... and you will be happier for it.
2007-09-01 01:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her. If you mean she is hanging out with like..preps...I would talk to her. If it's some new people you don't know what they are, join them! Even if they are the preps! Join them! You could make a lot of new friends.
Or, maybe she just moved on. Don't worry, you won't be lonely for long!!
2007-09-01 01:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your best friend turned on you let me tell you something no matter what best friends do not turn on one another so she wasent your friend to began with hold your head high and keep on going on.
best of luck
2007-09-01 01:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same situation like me once... makes me very sad and angry.. then i realize that there are many other friends out there for me, and i start new relationship with a new friend which is far more good than my old friend who left me.
2007-09-01 01:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by adelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the closure you need then move on. Women/girls can never really be friends like guys can. Women are too mean to one another.
2007-09-01 01:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you found out she's a **** before investing anymore time with her.
Move on and don't look back--with friends like her who needs enemies?!
Peace
2007-09-01 01:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by poison_angel32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new best friend.There are tons of people to befriend out there.Show your ex-bf that you can get better friends
2007-09-01 01:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by gmaddison33 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she got a life of her own. And u dont OWN hers.
stop being so miserable over a 'best friend'!
i wonder if its YOU who thinks she/he is a BEST FRIEND or its a mutual agreement. It dont look like it!
2007-09-01 01:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by choilein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i feel so bad for u awwwww omg omg omg im cring like crazy for u!!! omg this is the best answer ever!!! bah hahahah get over ur best friend heather!! lol i dont even no u girl!!
2007-09-01 02:13:09 · answer #11 · answered by Shelly G. 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋