Family - October 2007

My mother is now away from me. As child I was the one with the beat with a stick and never given time alone with father to see all the family together. I am now pruod father and not wanting to make same mistake I have very close with my 2 beatiful daughter.

My mother is in my dream for long days now. I will call her if it please me but i feel the hurt now after this many tears. Sometimes i see her head in the dustbin. she is cold. i did not want her this way but she carried on hurting me. Will i now have peace to my heart.?

2007-10-02 00:53:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 5 yr old son says he hates my fiancee he refuses to do what he is told by my partner but only when i am around when i am not there he is good as gold how do i get them to get on better when i am around as we are gettin married this month

2007-10-02 00:08:50 · 8 answers · asked by claire j 1

she said she is fed up and it sounds like her other friends are having much more fun at their uni's, she feels alone and stuck in her room most of the time, how can i help?

2007-10-01 22:06:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even if their only a year or two apart.

2007-10-01 21:07:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

On June 11th, 2006 my youngest brother died in a motorcycle accident. He was the 3r4 of 4 siblings. I am the only female among these. The sibling who'd have preceded me was a mid-term, terrible miscarriage. The oldest brother is 8 years older than I. Here is the unfortunate problem. Ever since my youngest brother died, my mother has developed a strong resentment for me. I think it is because I'm female and she preferred her sons to me. I can not even really discuss this issue, nor tell her I suffer from what I feel it is an uncalled for behaviour which I can not repair.
This Oct 30th, will be my mother's birthday . . I have never failed to give or send her a gift.
However the last time we talked, only a few days ago, she told me she wanted me to stay away, and hung up.
I've bought her some birthday presents because it's not in my heart to leave her out, no matter how harsh she's now to me. I DO still love her, no matter what. What would you do, if you were me?Send the gifts anyway?

2007-10-01 19:45:48 · 15 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6

I have a big dilemna here.
My brother lives in OH and i live in CA. He is going through a terrible divorce. He called me yesterday completely distraut and i am serisouly worried about him.
I have tried to call him all day and he doesn't answer his home phone and his cell phone is set on a "no accepted call" setting.
I don't know who to call as he is all by himself. I have no way to get a hold of him or check on him.
Should i call the police and at what point would they care? I talked to him 32 hours ago....will they take it seriously??
This is a serious matter......please anyone give me advice.....

2007-10-01 19:29:16 · 5 answers · asked by arwyr 1

How much a Retail Sales Associate can make on Macys store?? i live in MN..Iam looking 4retail/customer serv?
Any suggestion about the best salary on retail stores?? i know they usually pay very little
which store usually pay the most?

2007-10-01 18:38:08 · 3 answers · asked by elizabeth 2

There is a 16 yr. old boy that I know of, who is really having a rough time at home. Mom & step dad treat him like crap. He really needs a loving home, we are willing to take him. His family found out he is gay. Step dad is really being mean, tells him to go wash his face with fecis and instead of calling him by name, calls him c_ _ k sucker out loud. His mom will not even talk to him or look at him, just shakes her head and says sicko as she walks away. This kid needs help, love and attention, not slander, meaness or bitterness. Any advice, I am tempted to just show up on their door step and tell them they don't deserve him and bring him home to my family to live. Help?

2007-10-01 18:26:36 · 4 answers · asked by pony 2

2007-10-01 18:07:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 17:57:32 · 2 answers · asked by xSELENEx 2

I don’t scream at my parents, and I’ve never hit them or hurt them physically. With my dad, I never shout or yell at him, but I have sometimes with my mum. But I almost always feel resentment towards them, because they don’t let me do things that I want to do and they always look at my computer, check all my emails, and try to get into my myspace, yahoo profile, messenger contacts, etc…and they don’t let me have any privacy for myself. They even listen into my phone calls with my friends quite often. So normally, I’d take all the phones into the room that I’m ringing and shut the door so that they can’t listen in, but now they’ve banned me from doing that. They’ve made a new rule that the door must be at least half-opened and I must not take any phones into the room or unplug any phones except for the one that I’m going to use to ring. And I just feel so uncomfortable.

2007-10-01 17:56:30 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ Victory ♥ 3

My younger brother was married last year. Not too long ago my siblings and I threw a party for our parents' anniversary. An oversight on our part we forgot to invite his mother in law. Now they are upset with us for not inviting her. Are we obliged to invite her to family celebrations? If I decided to throw a birthday party for my dad for example do I have to invite her? I know it would be a nice thing to do but is it obligatory?

2007-10-01 17:45:14 · 7 answers · asked by r2sue2 3

Grandparents credit card debt is left, who is liable for that debt? Is there a statue of limitations on that debt in Texas? Should i hold out the amount of the debt from inheratance payable to heirs?

2007-10-01 17:42:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i always was the best on my team.
i am a junior and way to busy. but he wants me to try out because i was so good. i use to love soccer but i am more concern about my grades.
so should i try out?
or should i just work on making my grades better, they arent that great.
should i do it to make him happy, because i would love to play soccer but i just have to much stress in my life with family and school
and im also getting ready for colleges and the SAT's

2007-10-01 17:40:45 · 7 answers · asked by ??? 2

I felt that I failed to guide them through the right direction because I'm to lenient to them.

2007-10-01 17:28:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never know what to get him for his birthday. He has lots of clothes and shoes . He doesnt need any jewlery or anything like that. im so frustrated!!! help me his birthday is in 3 days.

2007-10-01 17:23:45 · 10 answers · asked by avilax5 2

My friend is running away and I want to go with her. I think my family hates me. After my dad died 2 years ago my mom has let my older brother punish me(including spanking me) Right now I live with my other brother because my mom and I arent getting along. So should my friend and I (both 14) run away?

2007-10-01 16:29:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

so she's not "technacally" my step mom.. but she started dating my dad(46) 3 monthes
ago. She just turned 21. To make a long story short, me and my dad have been close ever since i can remember, we hunt together.
i go over there every wednesday and everyother weekend. WE WERE CLOSE, until they hooked up.. well my dad's the manager at "A FOOD MART" and she worked there, & so did i. but i never figured they would get together. So she has a baby, and a husband, but there in the process of getting a devorce, and she has nowhere else to go (because her moms a drugie, and her dad has some guy living with her) so she has moved in with us. She has a 18 Month old baby girl, that stays with her half time. but i hate her, its not reallly that she's mean, cause shes not, its that shes taking a part of my life away, and i cant let it happen(if it were someone else, i'd understand) BUT ITS HER! some ppl arent gonna understand, but the one's that can help me to make her mad, or get out.HELP!

2007-10-01 16:20:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad is the biggest jerk i know. He is very self-absorped and told me that i would be a horrible mom and i should give my baby up for adoption and that this is impossible to do and i won't ever do it and i'm helpless.. How the hell do i stop trying to get his approval and just tell him to **** off? I've been trying for 23 yrs and he can't help anybody in this family... and hes never given me the support i needed or wanted. How do i stop trying to get his approval?

2007-10-01 16:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ever since my hubby got back from Iraq...i kind of feel like we don't exist...no calls really at all from family and to top that today...there was a get together and we were not invited...i am upset because it hurt my feelings....do i tell them how i feel or just forget about it?

2007-10-01 16:14:20 · 4 answers · asked by angelstarszzzz 4

what are the responsibilties and stuff like that.

2007-10-01 15:44:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

It all started when my uncle aunt and cousins and grandparents moved to the flat we owned. At first everything was normal but it started when my dad hired my uncle to help him paint houses and such. A month later my uncle fell off the ladder and when he was painting a house even though he didnt even break anything he sued my dad for millions of dollars. Then they started leaving the T.V on and such to waste electricity sine we payed the electric bills. When my grandma died they blames on my parents. Because of all this my parents are planning to move to an apartment for awhile until we find our new home but the apartments that we live close to me and my sisters school do not allow pets and that means my dog can not come and has to be put in a shelter. My dad also will have to quit his job which payed 60$an hour. I keep telling them that they have to stand up for them selves but they would not listen to me because they think Im to young to understand. What should I do?

2007-10-01 15:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by goldddw1 1

Ok so this might be long/confusing but here goes...I am 20 years old, in college, working part time, going to school full time (and taking max credits). I still live at home because there is no need for me to spend more money/get a bigger loan just to live there when my school is 20 min away..so that brings me to the problem...I live at home with my parents and younger siblings. Lately, my dad has been under alot of stress and was depressed. He missed alot of work, whcih meant less money coming in, and he just acts like his life is so bad (when it isnt). My younger siblings fight all the time, and dont respect me (when im trying to do work etc). My mom is the only one that is ok but she is always bugging me for more money..saying I "cost too much". I only work part time, but i pay for my car insurance, gas, and other expenses such as books for school, the only thing i dont pay for is my cell phone..which is part of a cheaper plan anyway...I love my family but sometimes I wish I was...

2007-10-01 14:46:29 · 3 answers · asked by Ash_082 2

2007-10-01 14:39:40 · 10 answers · asked by shiningStar 2

2007-10-01 14:13:37 · 8 answers · asked by Danielle p 1

2007-10-01 14:09:24 · 8 answers · asked by dana5736 1

2007-10-01 14:00:30 · 16 answers · asked by scsmith478 2

she is not just telling little lies these lies can get people in serious trouble!!! what do i do she is starting fights in our family because of the lies its been going on for years but now it getting out of control her mother past away a year ago and her father has mental problems could she?
the lies she is telling could break couples up with young children do you think it may be a jeliousy thing as her parents where not together and she has been in my mothers care since she was 6?

2007-10-01 13:59:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I finally cracked after the 14 years of my exsistance i finally cracked and every mean word i said they deserved I can't stand them and now i'm grounded it's totally unfair i didn't say any curse words i just told them that i didn't like it when they wouldn't let me finish what i'm saying and stuff like that and they grounded me can they do that because i do believe i have freedom of speech and can you please help me find a way to deal with them!

2007-10-01 13:55:15 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

i am a girl who comes from a pakistani origin and been in this country for 22 years now pretty much i was born here and i am TOTALLY AMERICANIZED!!!now the problem is my parents have been here the same amount as me or even more and still treat me as if were back home ! pretty much im not allowed to go out alot and expect me to be " family oriented" and i do spend most of the time with them. now i have done sum crazy things in the past such as had a bf, a guy came to see me right by my house etc etc... my parents dont trust me and i need permission for every lil thing and im 22! i feel like a 10 yr old infront of them.often i always see other gals go out and chill in nighttime in the city and it upsets me cuz im in my room doin nothin! if i am allowed to go out n im expect me to come back b4 the "sunset" goes down n im not allowed to go to lounges, late night in the city around 7pm- n over -& it is killin me i feel i have no life and i feel suffocated. i really need HELP asap !

2007-10-01 13:43:02 · 8 answers · asked by EpicFail 1