she is not just telling little lies these lies can get people in serious trouble!!! what do i do she is starting fights in our family because of the lies its been going on for years but now it getting out of control her mother past away a year ago and her father has mental problems could she?
the lies she is telling could break couples up with young children do you think it may be a jeliousy thing as her parents where not together and she has been in my mothers care since she was 6?
2007-10-01 13:59:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
its not easy to talk with her when she is saying thing lke i sleept with you husband and i know its not true but when i say to her stop lying she sent a msg saying ill make him go to jail then ill make you loose your kids so there dont have any parents i have 2 little girls 3 and2 what do i do????
2007-10-02 11:27:01 · update #1
sounds like she absolutely has some emotional problems.. the worst thing about this is she seems to have no conscience...no limits... I'd totally disassociate myself with her, but make sure your whole family knows exactly why.
2007-10-01 14:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by maccrew6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is starved for attention. Most of the time when kids lie like that they are seeking attention. Judging by what you're saying, it sounds like the lies that she's telling are very serious. Maybe you should sit down with her and have a long chat with her about the seriousness of lying. If that doesn't work then you should see about getting some counselling for her. If her father has mental problems it's possible she might have some as well.
Good luck!
2007-10-01 14:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by JenJen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way to work with what you got.. meaning if she acts like that find a way to deal with her appropiatly so she wont feel the need to lie.. maybe she feels a loss of trust and security.. sometimes people lie because there scared if they tell the truth it may back fire... or sometimes there a lack of trust in that person.. whom they feel the need to confide in.. no one lies for no reason.. so maybe tryin to figure out the reason to why she lies, instead of judging her and giving up on her is the best outcome for all this.. cause to me shes been through alot the last thing she needs is to be amitted ot the mental insitution.. or being judge just because her father is and havin ppl assume she is one... and u said it yourself.. her mother died her dad has a mental illness.. what she needs is support and someone who she can feel comfortable trusting and having that support.. dont let her tell you things and then use them agains her when you get into arguments.. maybe there was some history of that.. and thats why.. who knows.. all im sayin is dont give up on her.. everyone wants to be loved.. even her!
god bless,
kesha!
2007-10-01 14:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your niece need some counseling right NOW Can you make a family reunion without her and warn your family that your niece has some serious issues with lying and if they choose to beleive her they will get in serious troubles just because of a lie Be carefull of her because liars are very manipulative to
2007-10-01 14:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by lala 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its time to take her into your arms and tell her straight that it has got to stop because the lies will come back and hurt her someday. If nothing changes its time to take her to a pschyactrist because somthing bad may happen! It also could turn out to be a link to her father and or mother. best of luck!
2007-10-01 14:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you bought is great. How bout tiger-sh earrings (don't have to be tigger), fruity lip gloss, chocolate, a little stuffed toy, bookmarks (you could paint/draw/get drawn tigger on these), a gift voucher from the disney store?
2016-05-18 07:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying and contemplating is not appropriate. Keep it basic and set boundaries. The rest of it is all drama.
"that is false"
"stop being manipulative"
2007-10-02 01:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's just looking for attention, probably spend some time with her take her to do some positive things.
2007-10-01 14:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by loveshyromantic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋