Family - October 2007

I have this phone that is a pay as you go phone and it is really tiny and annoying. My grandma told me she would buy me a brand new phone, but now shes saying that she'll just activate my pay as you go phone so it not a pay as you go any more. I absolutly HATE that phone, and she already told me that she would buy me a new one. I am way beyond mad, and i need some yahoo answers.

Thanks

Courtney,

2007-10-28 08:32:28 · 22 answers · asked by Courtney 1

i've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and he has a little girl thats 4 years old and im ok with that but two weeks ago he found out that he has another little girl thats 5 years old. i dont want to leave him but i dont know if i can stay with him. i had to play the mother role for his 4 year old but i dont know if i can do that with the 5 year old. i want to be with him but what if i want a kid with him. it wont be anything special to him it'll only be special to me. now im third in his life because of his new little girl i dont know if i can handle it. what should i do? should i stay with him or break up with him?

2007-10-28 08:11:02 · 15 answers · asked by coolgurl 1

everything seem okay but the basement isn't done yet...
so my mom got her friends to come over and fix the basement
when they was tearing the walls down in the bathroom on top of the ceiling about 100 or more razors blades came falling outta of nowhere and we found a ring and a 1970's newpaper.

Does anyone know what is up with that?
talkin bout it gives me chill....

2007-10-28 08:07:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible to have blue eyes if both your parents have brown eyes? My parents both have brown eyes so does my brother but not me, I have blue eyes. I read somewhere that in order to have blue eyes, one parent must have 2 blue eye genes so their eyes are blue, and another parent's eyes can be any color, but they must have at least a blue eye gene in them, they just don't have enough to have blue eyes. If both my parents have brown genes, how do I have blue eyes? 2 of my grandparents have brown eyes, 1 grandparent had blue eyes and 1 had green eyes.

2007-10-28 07:12:33 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i'm a citizan of th usa, but my parents brought me to armenia, but i hate it here, and i wanna go back to america, but they dont let me so i desided to run away to new york and stay with my cousin!!!!! am i doing the right thing??? please help me someone!!!!!!!

2007-10-28 07:10:12 · 5 answers · asked by mike_555me 1

my wife always want to do stuff during the week and the weekends . she always wants to be out with the kids . I myself just want to get home and work around the house and then rest. she is making me feel guilty by saying that i never want to go out. I do go out but not as much as she wants to. am i wrong for not wanting to go out all the time or do i need to give in to her always being out ?

2007-10-28 05:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ray 2

well i moved from my mother in texas to live with my father, stepmother, and little brother in minnesota. im a freshman in highschool and have very few friends since i moved. i really miss my home in texas because all my family and friends are there. i think i made the worst choice i couldve made. i really feel guilty about wanting to move back with my mom after a year because my dad and stepmom went through alot of trouble and shelled out alot of money to get me here. also i am scared to tell my dad that i want to move. im afraid that my stepmom and dad will be ashamed of me and never look at me the same. i just dont know what to do. i really miss texas and ive been like this for months and it hasnt gone away. please i really need advice. what should i do????

2007-10-28 05:38:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I am going on a trip to Ecuador for 4 weeks. It's a college planned trip. I am a mother of one and I am 19. My son will be 3 at the time of the trip and I will be 20. My mom said to me that she thinks "I am going on a 4 week vacation and mothers don't do that stuff after they have a child. You don't think he will miss you." I do not think that this is considered a vacation I am going to volunteer and get expeirence from the outside world. I understand a mother has her duties but this is not like I am leaving him for a year. Or trying to live in india or something. Besides have you ever felt like there was a calling for you to go some where. That being there will teach you a lot about your self? That is how I feel. I also know that taking care of my self will also benifit my son. I am one of those people that are always looking to learn. And I am not planning on doing this every year. This will probably be the only time in a long time. Your opinion, thanks.

2007-10-28 04:49:25 · 29 answers · asked by Random 3

I constantly feel sad when I look at my 15 year old daughter's life.

She has not had a good childhood. When she lived with her father, he basically ignored her and did not help her with her schoolwork or give her rides to different places easily.

He moved and now sent her to me in a different state. She does not have many friends and has had to adjust to living with me and dealing with my parents. She is used to her dad and grandmother and has been brought up by them.

I feel bad because she has not had a life like her peers and friends with a stable family and good social life. She has had to struggle and really raise herself.

I am doing as much as I can now, but it is not enough and may be too late.

I constantly feel like crying when I see how she is doing. Its not how I envisioned her or my life.

I wish I could have given her a better life with stability and more happiness.

2007-10-28 03:21:23 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

i need to know how to show it to them so that they don't get soo angry and what should i say.....=s

2007-10-28 01:29:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 23 yr old brother who lives in Colorado Springs with ten other male friends including 2 half brothers of mine in one big household. we all were born in the Philippines with an American Father and an Asian Mother but all of us are U.S. Citizens. I just found out recently that he has been having problems with the lady that owns and runs the house. According to him that she has a Rule in the house that if anyone does not abide by her rules as far as curfew and the rest. She will confiscate their personal Cellphone and grounded for a month. I was in shock and being that I'm here in New york and he is in Colorado, I don't know what to say. This lady is straight up Asian and I'm furious as far as her stupid rules in her house. One time my brother came home late cause he was waiting for his co-worker and as soon as he got home, this lady questioned him and punished him and took his personal cellphone and grounded him for a month and this. He just had to listen cause no place to go.

2007-10-28 01:14:04 · 10 answers · asked by Corine 1

a birth mother who can't be there but care or a step mother whos's there but not fair.

2007-10-28 00:04:23 · 9 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7

2007-10-27 20:34:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

For as long as we've been alive, my brother is the impatient, hot-headed one that doesn't know the worth of a dollar. I, on the other hand, am the calm, patient and wise one.

He acts before he thinks. I think before I act.

Anyways, he's always disrespected everyone. He believes he is, if not higher, at least equal to everyone. My father fought with him because of this and now they're not father and son anymore. My brother talks often to my mother about him not being able to care less if my father dies or not.

He just doesn't respect anyone. Even when he's mad at my mom, he will yell at her as loud as he can. Can you believe that crap? I'm not saying it happens often, but when it does, yeah. I feel one day I will snap and end up fighting him just like my father did.

2007-10-27 20:23:19 · 17 answers · asked by Line 7

My aunt (maternal) and I have a very strained (that's putting it lightly) relationship. For the sake of brevity, I will just say that she raised me from the time I was 10 years old until I turned 16. She basically hated my mother (her own sister) and never failed to remind me that the only reason she took care of me was because it was my grandfather's dying wish. She was never emotionally "there" for me. Granted, I did crazy things growing up, typical adolescent/teenager things, and I understand that it's hard for someone who never wanted children to deal with kids' antics. She used to beat the hell out of me, and she also said a lot of hurtful things to me. I moved in with my mom when I was 16, but she died when I was 18. This aunt is the only blood family I have left (except for my sister), and it really hurts me that she still has not forgiven me for the things I did when I was younger (I'm 26 now). My uncle says I should talk to her, and I have tried, but I can't. Please help!

2007-10-27 20:11:02 · 7 answers · asked by The Voice of Reason Is Silenced 5

My horrible mother kicked me out of "her" house and now I don't have any where to go! A good friend said I could stay with her but for only 3 days. Is there any gov assistance I can get? I don't know where my baby and I will be in 3 days.........

P.S.
She kicked me out to make room for her sister and her sister's family.........

2007-10-27 18:01:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me start off by saying that i'm 22 married and have a 5 month old baby.(i moved in with my parents to help take care of my mom who just passed away October 6th of this year)

Ok so i found my dads stash of weed (which i knew he did already no big deal to me) but i also so a baggy that had syringes, cotton swabs, and a spoon in it. but nothing else so i was thinking maybe he is shooting up...but then today i went and checked again and there was a rubber glove with little bags of white powder in each finger. so now i don't know if he is shooting up or doing coke...both bad i know. but i'm not sure if he is even doing them at all...he might be sealing it...doubtful but maybe. so i don't know if i should move out or what...i'm so confused! please someone help me!

2007-10-27 17:54:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 17:43:07 · 3 answers · asked by Emily O 1

My daugther's birthday was on October 24 and I totally forgot about it, I remembered it three days later and I cried when I called her to tell her so. She lives with her mom and I work 6 days a week, most of my time is consumed by my work but I love my daugther very much and I would like to make it up to her.What do you people recommend?

2007-10-27 17:30:29 · 9 answers · asked by C. J 2

Ok, this happened really fast(i'm really surpised), their saying that she's probably going to go to the sioux falls mental hospital. Does anybody know about it? Their saying me and my girlfriend should go and stay in sioux falls until she get's admissioned out. But yea, if anybody knows about this hospital, please tell me.

2007-10-27 17:26:03 · 2 answers · asked by Eric W 1

shes approx 36 years old,graduated from red bank h.s.. she lived in union beach,n.j. she is a long lost friend. ive tried myspace,facebook.i even tried calling 411.her parents, eileen and peter are not listed.my goodness,its fustrating.if this sounds freaky,my name is brian hickman.shell know who i am

2007-10-27 16:38:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so here's the deal...my mother treats me like a little kid, and not in the way where she'll do everything for me, its like she wont let me out for anything, and if i want to go somewhere i have to beg her constantly until she says yes! i always ask her why and she says its because im lazy, and i ask her what does that have anything to do with it, and she says that until im not lazy i cant go out. i dont get it, my job is usually to clean the living room, i have it clean most of the time along with my own room, i do what she says but she always gets mad at me b/c when there are dirty dishes and stuff i just look at them and dont clean them..i tell her its not my job and she gets mad! And then she gets mad whenever i do clean up, she says that it upsets her whenever i clean up only because i want to go somewhere! shouldnt she be grateful anyways? i mean i understand raising me and three other kids by herself, but why doesnt she ever give me a break?

2007-10-27 15:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by Violet 2

how often do you spend time with your father

2007-10-27 15:15:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 43 year old older sister has all the old family home movies from the 1970s in her attic- I have a family of my own, and want copies- I could easily burn copies on dvd, for my family, her family and other relatives.....
I have been asking her for access to the films for 10 years- she keeps saying 'someday' she'll do something with the films- this is really starting to enrage me- my sister and i have never been really close- but those reels have footage of me with my late parents, i want copies for myself and my kids- The films clearly are not important to my sister- yet she refuses to send them to me, and refuses to lend them to me to copy...WHAT should i do?

2007-10-27 15:03:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my uncle's wife gets on my last nerve. Well, she gets on everybody she lived with's nerves.

My uncle and her are separated, not divorce. uncle lives in another state while she moved here to our state.

Anyways, today, he's wife called me and said that he sent her movies and she wanted me to check it out.

I text message my uncle and asked him if he sent something, he said he sent a whole box full of movies and gifts for me

She lied to me and said that box was sent to her. Should I tell my uncle Or just leave it because she's lonely and don't have nobody?

2007-10-27 14:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK heres the thing, on november 5 and 6 i there is a charity launch concert for GLOBAL ANGELS im wanting to go and its in times square at the hard rock cafe well my mum was considering me letting me go alone but one problem
there is a bar and my mum(being so OVER-PROTECTIVE) said no how can i still convince them back into letting me go by myself its not like im gonna get drunk and party i mean it's a CHARITY EVENT! so what are the right things to say and the write way to convince them into going to the concert for a good benefit without making worried about the bar Its a concert for providing for the children and im wanting them to understand that so please HELP!

2007-10-27 14:35:38 · 11 answers · asked by christina bedingfield 2

I have been emotionally, physically, and verbally abused by my parents. I must live through hard times, but I try to make the best out of every situation.

But I have always wondered, who's feeling my pain out there?

Share your stories with me.

2007-10-27 14:27:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 21. i have a bro that is 15, a sis that is 12 and another sis that is 3 . MY mom had me really young. It is weird telling people that i have a 3 year old sister. Is anyone in a situation like me? I mean it is cool having young parents and such cute siblings but...kinda weird

2007-10-27 14:10:31 · 6 answers · asked by SLA 3

I feel that my whole life my mom has neglected me. When I was a toddler, she would bring me and my brother to a babysitter so she could gamble. Then when I started Kindergarten my uncle and cousin moved in with us and she had them take care of us while she went out on weekends. I moved in 7th grade, and she would leave me and my bro home on weekends while she socialize with friends. She leaves Sat morning and comes home Sunday night but she leaves some food if we are hungry. Her behavior has continued until now and I am now 20. Now I am an adult but I felt ever since I was little I was neglected. Was it neglect that my mom left me and my bro home every weekend while she hangs out with her friends? I feel she was never there when I had problems especially during high school years. In our whole lives, she took us out once or twice. And even then, she would leave to her friends afterwards. Is thsi wrong? What should I do about it? She never changes.

2007-10-27 13:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I first met my husband, my in-laws were wonderful. You couldn't ask for nicer people. They welcomed me with open arms and I always felt like they cared about me. Well, I got pregnant with our daughter (a year ago) and still, they were wonderful. Well, once I gave birth, things started to change. My mother-in-law became back-biting, mean, and just downright unbearable. It's so hard to explain how her moods swing. I think she's "obsessed" with my daughter. She makes lots of unacceptable and inappropriate comments, but just acts as if she's joking. It's scary sometimes. She's usually fine around my husband, but when she gets me alone, she doesn't hold back. She talks down to my poor father-in-law and he just sits there and takes it. I've discussed this with my man, and he's wonderful about supporting me and has even talked with her, but still it's all at the point where I don't want to see her anymore. They live a half mile away. Now what?

2007-10-27 13:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by MetalMama 4