my wife always want to do stuff during the week and the weekends . she always wants to be out with the kids . I myself just want to get home and work around the house and then rest. she is making me feel guilty by saying that i never want to go out. I do go out but not as much as she wants to. am i wrong for not wanting to go out all the time or do i need to give in to her always being out ?
2007-10-28 05:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ray 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you should do it a couple times. my dad never takes us out. barelyyy. since he has too much work...and it kind of drifts me away from him. you should take ur kids out and talk to them a lot:]
2007-10-28 05:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by dreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a compromise. You dont want to be a stick in the mud but I understand that you are tired after your day at work. The best time to do things would be on the weekend. If your wife does not work it might be that she wants your company and that she's bored with being at home. There may be things that she could do to help you around the house so that you have more time to be with your family. Children grow up very quickly so you dont want to miss out on all the fun you can have with them.
2007-10-28 05:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Diane M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I ( and probably most married couples)have this problem from time to time. And what makes the greatest difference to me is when he does something special that just i wanted to do. not always just something once in a while like shopping in junk stores , i love that and especially when he goes with me, like my buddy.
And i also notice i have to go more when i'm not feeling good about myself and life in general. it helps to go sometimes.
If you find that you don't ever want to go out maybe you need to find out why. There is nothing wrongwith enjoying being at home except when it causes problems between you and your family. Let her know how much you care and love her. that usually helps. oh yeah cook dinner.
2007-10-28 05:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go outside with her for a while, more than usualy then after a few times tell her lets seddle down and clean up around the house, but we can start going out again in about a week or two, dont feel guilty just tell her your not much of outdoor person but you'll go out with her if she really really needs it
2007-10-28 05:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is about compromise. Work it out so you go out one day and stay home one day or something like that. Neither of you gets exactly what you want, but both of you get something. And I promise you, outings with your children will be remembered all of their lives.
2007-10-28 05:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rebeckah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is about compromise!! She needs to respect you and you need to respect her! Maybe you should set up a date night each week and that way she gets what she wants and so do you! I hope this helped! Remember communication goes a long way.
2007-10-28 09:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
compromise. do three days a week out, four in, then the next week vice versa or something. and don't do the days out in a row, you'll get exhausted faster.
2007-10-28 05:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Becca R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋