I have been emotionally, physically, and verbally abused by my parents. I must live through hard times, but I try to make the best out of every situation.
But I have always wondered, who's feeling my pain out there?
Share your stories with me.
2007-10-27 14:27:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Amazing. Simply amazing.
2007-10-28 10:57:28 · update #1
Have you ever read the book: A Child called,"It". Have you ever seen the movie, " Mommy Dearest" ? How about the book, "Sybil"? Well see my mother ran out of things to hurt me with, so she read those books and did to me what the mothers did in those books. I more then feel your pain. And so do all my broken bones when it gets cold outside.
2007-10-27 14:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Shawnee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and you're not alone. I'm 22 now and I'm still being emotionally and verbally abused. Thank goodness I'm not being physically abused. I'm trying to live one day at a time. Trying to make adjustment to get myself out of this situation. Every situation that you go through will make you a stronger person even if you don't feel like you are. If you ever need anyone to talk to, just send me a message.
2007-10-27 21:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom was emotionally, verbally & physically abusive, my dad was my ally, but he died right after I moved out. (she was emotionally & verbally abusive to him also) You'd think it would stop once you're an adult & have a family of your own, but it does not! It kept up no matter how hard I tried to convince her that being mean & bitter to others is no way to live, she also causes trouble between family members, is very rude to people in public, etc. To lie is her norm. Finally, & I'd be ashamed to tell how old I was when I finally had enough & broke contact with her, but now she's old & wonders what my 'problem' is that I don't see or talk to her. She's alienated nearly everyone from her life, I could not however keep beating myself up because I could not convince her, that you treat people that way, they are not going to want to be around you. Good luck, it took me entirerly too many years of misery & humiliation to take the walk I needed.
2007-10-27 16:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by okie's back 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My abusive father just left (by order of the courts). He was emotionally, verbally, physical and sexually abusive.
As an everyday occurence I would open the front door, or garage door. If I shout "hi" I get knocked unconsious for not first checking he was on the phone. I don't and I get knocked unconsious for being rude.
He poured boiling water on me and I had to go to the hospital for like a week. He poured freezing cold water and locked me out of the house.
I have so many more stories...
Do you want to talk to me? I'm only 14 and I can at least help you get some of it off your chest. My email is georgeteas@gmail.com. If you have a facebook, I'll make you a friend.
Good luck
2007-10-27 14:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always been verbally abused by my stepmom.she always tells me on a daily bases that my parents conceived me by accident and that i am worthless.with how i acted as a little kid she uses my past to get her way.she tells me there is nothing i can do about what she tells me.she tells my dad that i don't play with my younger brother and that i should.but then when he is not there she tells me she doesn't want me to.the worst part about it is that i am homeschooled and i see her everyday.can't drive because she fought so hard to keep me and my stepbrother from getting our permits and we just got them a few months ago when we could have gotten them a year ago.now i don't have anything to record what she says to me,and even if i did she would find out that i was recording her.what i would do is record your parents with a hidden video camera or a hidden tape recorder.then go to your police station(if you can walk to it of course,or if able to drive then it shouldn't be any problem)and show it to the police.or you can give it to your teacher or a friend's parent.i have also been physically abused on several occasions the one i remember most clearly is when my stepmom got drunk from a party that she went to and came back all smashed,walked into my room when i was changing,kicked my door open because it was locked,and when i told her i was changing she grabbed my head and started banging it against the wall.when i pushed her off me she ran upstairs to tell my dad that i had pushed her after she had told me to go to bed.god,i was so scared that night she was like "i am going to call the cops and get you removed" and everything.the bad thing about that incident is that my dad believed that i made up her banging my head against the wall because he would have heard it (but theres was one problem with that he was on the oustide balcony with his friend talking and my room is donstairs on the otherside of the house.also he is hard of hearing.)i was so mad i didn't know what to do.i just started leaving my house to go for walks all day,and then when i started working i made sure i had long shifts.(oh yeah,she made me and my stepbrother quit our first jobs [we worked at different places] so she wouldn't have to drive us there).theres more but to much to write about.by the way i am a 17 year old boy.
2007-10-27 19:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by California resident 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people who can help you, sweetie x/
Teachers, relatives, grandparents, friends.
You aren't alone and you CAN get help!
Please do yourself a favor && don't let this continue.
I was sexually abused when I was younger. It started when I was 6 years old and ended when I was 12. I couldn't take it anymore so I went to my best friend and cried my eyes out. She told her parents and they helped me! Now I'm living with my real mom (before I was living with my dad && step mom) and life is A WHOLE LOT BETTER. I do not regret getting help at all. I am safe and don't have a care in the world. So please listen to me and get help!
I'll keep you in my prayers, honey<3
2007-10-27 14:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom isnt
definatley not
i wouldnt even say my dad is very much
maybe emotionally, or verbally
he threatened to like hit me a couple times
but never did anything
I want to be an artist when I am older
he told me its not going to happen
..
I dont see him much anymore
i dont feel the pain of abuse like a lot of people do,
but i feel the pain of having a father
who really didnt ever care about me.
2007-10-27 14:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by Maddy G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I grew up emotionally and verbally abused... I feel your pain... You are not alone.. Do both of your parents abuse you? There are people that can help you!!!! You don't have to suffer alone....
2007-10-27 14:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by goodrad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a parent. You do not have to take this. You need to tell someone. A teacher, a friends parents, somebody. It is illegal to abuse your children. Please ask someone for help. Good luck to you.
2007-10-27 14:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hell yea! me.
my parents hit me so much.
once my dad got one of those metal/wire hanger things and opened it and beat the **** out of me with it
also one time my mom threw a glass at me full of water and ice.
also she punched me so much on my leg and back.
one time me mom burned my hand.
2007-10-27 14:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by ME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋