Family - October 2007

Was it abuse? Was is mere divorce? Was it anger? Was it rejection of a gay parent? How long has it been? What do you want now? to reunite or not see them again? I'm just curious about such stories.

2007-10-27 12:55:04 · 9 answers · asked by whitetop94538 2

My mum is very ill. We will be lucky if she survives until Christmas. I honestly cannot bear the thought of life without her and would rather die myself if it wasn't for the fact that I have a 10 week old baby.

How is it possible to go on living after your mum dies? I don't think I can live without her. As it is I have a 10 week old son so I have to be healthy and strong for him but if it wasn't for him then I would rather be dead than face this.

How to live after losing your mum? I can't bear it. I want to think that it won't happen but I'm reluctantly realising that it's true and we really are going to lose her. I can't bear it. I literally cannot bear it. I feel like I could die right now just from the pain of this. I don't know how to cope. I just don't know.

2007-10-27 12:53:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

which is the right way to go? crying or what?

2007-10-27 11:56:50 · 15 answers · asked by Five Feet Of Fury 2

Look, my parents fight all the time, sometimes things break. My mom gets drunk and my father hits my mom. The cops came over a few times and its just really sad for me. Please I need advice, my grades are falling as well. Im only 12.

2007-10-27 11:47:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 11:17:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do i need to do, or who do i need to talk to to make this happen. how old do i have to be?

2007-10-27 11:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 09:38:57 · 6 answers · asked by babyplease 1

This morning I went downstairs to get something to eat. My dad was also downstairs on a business call. My grandmother stood there just staring. I knew she wanted to say something but I didn't know it would be this bad. She basically accused my dad and I for "being too close". Closer than a father and daughter normally would. And I thought to myself, that is some bullshit. If you take all the minutes that I speak to my dad out of the day and add them all up, you'd get about 10 minutes out of 24 hours. She was saying stuff like I wear skimpy clothes around the house (pajama shorts which aren't even that short) and when I go to sit on the couch, I "pass my father to go sit on the couch." Then she was saying things like "People tell me I should have been a police officer because I am very observant." I was like thinking to myself again who the f*** cares? Then she tried to give me money. She hasn't apologized at all either. I told her I wasn't taking the money because I was mad at her.

2007-10-27 09:20:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents do not know i have a boyfriend we have been going out for 1 month and if my boyfriend buys me a BIG gift (like a puppy) for x-mas and i bring it home..would parents like my boyfriend if he bought things for their daughter?
or would they say something bad..and hate my boyfriend?

2007-10-27 08:52:21 · 10 answers · asked by rubberduckie 1

I absolutely cannot stand my family. I don't love them in any sense. My father makes me feel ahsamed, grinning at me when I try to discuss serious things I care about with him and giving saracastic, sometimes piggish replies. My grandmother pays, I'll say, weird attention to me in subtle ways, and whenever I say how something makes me uncomfortable that they do, they keep doing it more, and then smile and walk away looking pleased. And my sister is overbearing. From what I've read this is emotional abuse. They guilt me when I say I don't want them in my life when I move out, but is it so bad of me to not tell them where I go, at least for 2 years?

note that it's all subtle what they do, if I were to try telling a teacher it'd sound ridiculous, but they're skilled mental terrorists.

help? I'm not obligated to love those who treat me with disrespect am I?

2007-10-27 08:51:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter has just bought a cuddly dog soft toy. It is a yellow colour and she can't decide whether to call it Mustard, or Custard? What do you think please? Any other ideas maybe. Please give me child-friendly answers thanks

2007-10-27 08:45:51 · 10 answers · asked by Helen H 2

I moved to a place where I didn't want my family to know because we have a big history of not getting along. My brother surprisingly moved into town from another state & he's trying to leech off of people for free. He terrorized my twin sister's house & now he plans to do it to me. He talks about me like I'm the scum of the earth but wants to live underneath me for free & tag his meddlesome girlfriend along.

Well, yesterday I found out he was in town & I ended up giving him my address, not knowing he was planning to take advantage of me & then my twin sister told me about the dirt he did her & plans to do me 10 times worse. I'm afraid he's gonna do me like he did me before by putting his stuff in my house & claiming my address & messing up my SSI benefits & living with someone else.

I was so afraid yesterday I had an anxiety attack. When he knocks @ my door, what should I do? My friend told me to ignore him.

2007-10-27 08:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do not knoe what to do i dont really trust him and it makes me mad because he has tryed to change and he start ti drink again and i dont know what to do i dont know if to trust him or not or if i am going to get hurt agin i want him to be here for my family and to see his grandchildern but i dont know what to do

2007-10-27 07:57:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's 7years old and he moved here with his dad and step mom and sister and his family lives in cali. so how can i help them with out bugging them and be their?!!? please help me out .

2007-10-27 07:51:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has shoulder length hair...but it's probably coz he's into heavy metal lol

2007-10-27 07:34:41 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

slash / went to college? Did they try to get you to stay home / close to home?

2007-10-27 06:13:49 · 14 answers · asked by Rick 4

I'm really worried. Okay, I'll try to explain: There's me, and there's my two best friends. Let's just call them E and S.
Since we were 6, me and S were molestered by E's dad. Which E still has no clue about. I'm 13, and recently told my parents, and they told S's mum. But me and S REALLY don't want to tell E's mum about her dad abusing us because her family is so close mine. E is my best friend and I would hate to hurt her by telling her about her dad. And I would hate to hurt the rest of the family. But then, she could be getting abused by her dad, because she absolutely hates her dad. So my parents want to tell. I've asked E why she hates her dad, and she said she doesn't know, it's just everything he does. But she's also said she wouldn't like it if he died, whereas, after being molestered by him, me and S wouldn't mind if he died (I know it sounds SO horrible, but I feel that way, I suppose it's different since it's E's dad tho) ...(2 b continued)

2007-10-27 04:23:58 · 15 answers · asked by *DAMAGED --x 3

I was asleep on the basement couch, with a sheet and a blanket. Then, I opened one eye under my hair and I thought I saw my dad standing over me, pulling away the top cover, then he left. I heard him going up the stairs, and shutting the door. I know it wasn't a dream, because the top cover was off me, and the clothes I saw him wearing are what he was wearing when I went upstairs and saw him. When I asked why the hell he woke me up, he said that he was never down there. I'm confused.. -_-

2007-10-27 03:04:31 · 8 answers · asked by Millie 3

I felt so belittled. now, i don't want to have anything to do with her. however, I fear my daughter will suffer if I keep her away from her.

2007-10-27 02:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by TERESA W 2

i'm a 13 years old girl... last year i found out that my dad cheating on my mom ..and now my mom is cheating on him ... what can i do?

2007-10-27 02:16:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom told me she wants nothing to do with me and said i'm a worthless worm...
this is because my xbox 360 and 2 bikes got stolen and she thinks i sold them for drugs, when in reality i put a guy in jail for stealing this stuff
when i say leave i mean come back every night, but i don't want to deal with my mom hurting me emotionally
i have tried to talk to her a number of times

2007-10-27 02:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 02:10:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boss whos the restarount manager and he as been of this week and last week he got sent home at night because he was not well. The shift manager sed hes been very ill. Now hes the type of guy who dashes about all the time and he slides his feet about and as to be on the go all the time. hes been working at the firm for a long time. dose any one think hes done to much and could of had a break down?

2007-10-27 01:02:54 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

okay so my mom and dad were planning to go out for lunch with someone and WITH ME AND MY BROTHER. WE said NO cuz we have homeworks and WE're really tired but SHE is FORCING us TO GO WITH THEM and still WE said NO!
and then she told my dad that WE"VE sort it out and that WE"RE GOING but honestly WE never said that ...AT ALL

Then she went to my brother and start yelling at him and ME!
i didn't even do anything, I didn't said anything wrong and she told me to "SHUT UP!"

helooooo is the word "No I can't,I'm busy..." so WRONG to SAY ???
Is she just letting her anger out all on ME?
or....WHAT,why is she acting like THISS??
She would never ever tell me to shut up =[
I didn't even DO anything WRONG.

2007-10-27 00:18:55 · 5 answers · asked by ★Star Girl★™ 6

2007-10-26 22:51:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got grounded for doin really bad things but ive learnt my lesson! And i will never do anything like what i did again. I asked last weekend if I could go and the answer was no, do you think it'l be different this weekend? Ive helped out all week and got involved in family stuff like i helped plant my aunties plants with my mum..i helped make dinner..i went shopping on sunday etc.. I havent seen my friends all week (my friends consist of this boy, another boy, and two girls) and theyre goin to his tonight!! im gonna be the only one and no its not just this once its been 4 weeks!! (im 16)

2007-10-26 21:43:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

A bit of background info: My dad died two years ago and at least once a week my mom lectures me about not loving her or my siblings. This lectures last about an hour and I NEVER can say exactly what SHE wants. What do I say to her. I want to scratch my face out after being lectured to. I hate that I look the slightest bit like her.

2007-10-26 20:14:25 · 14 answers · asked by Treefaerie 2

6 Months ago i gave birth to my daughter and moved in w/ my now ex boyfriend and who still lives w/ parents. 2 1/2 months later he kicked me out and put all my belongings outside of his house, so I had to move back home w/ my parents. He kept our daughter and would not let me take her. there was nothing i could do b/c there was no custody order! A few days later he filed for sole custody and would not allow me see my baby except at his house when he is there. I had been the one caring for her everyday while he was at work and even home. I have been the one to get up w/ her in the middle of the night several time a night and everything else! His mom turned on me and basically thinks my daughter is her baby! We have gone to court only for the status hearing , he agreed for me to have our baby during the day while he is working and every other weekend until the trial. He always stays home from work those days does not allow me to see my daughter.

2007-10-26 18:41:28 · 6 answers · asked by hello 1

My Dad is 60s and I am 30s and I have a family. I grew up with all of my relatives including him using racist names for other races. I always new it was wrong, but chimed in with them in my youth as I was lead to believe it was ok by the people I was supposed to respect.
I am white and married a black woman and we have a beautiful child. My father stopped using bad names for blacks a year or 2 after I was married. He's visiting our area from out of state and he started using words for other races like Julio's for hispanics, and towel heads for arabic people, around my 3 year old daughter and me. I told him he needs to stop that and never do it again around my daughter. But he insists they are not racists names just "funny" names and refuses, and has walked out or hung up on me 3 times now. I told him that I am sorry but he is not welcome to spend time with my family until he can give me a commitment to not use those words around us any more. I willnot let it slide anymore b/c mychild

2007-10-26 18:33:40 · 13 answers · asked by mjefferson96 5

I don't trust my parents . they have been abusive since childhood. I pressed charges against my father for trying to stab me with a knife . Now he's going to court.
But something happened before that
I lost my wallet . Then i gets it back a few weeks later .( My licence and Green card were both missing ) It seemed as if I lost it myself. But yesterday when I was in my parents room looking for some change to go across the bridge to pick up a paycheck , I found my lose "DRIVERS LICENCE" inside her purse !!!! I was so fuc@@in furious
But right now i am at a stage where i have to be calm or else I won't have a place to stay . ! It's very hard for me to find a job since i graduated with a degree That was forced on to me . But i am trying ( full throttle ) .

But I want to keep my passport and my social security card somewhere safely , because i don't want that bi## to take my stuff again !
Is there a place like in the bank or something where I can keep this stuff safely ? ?

2007-10-26 18:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by sum142121 1