I got grounded for doin really bad things but ive learnt my lesson! And i will never do anything like what i did again. I asked last weekend if I could go and the answer was no, do you think it'l be different this weekend? Ive helped out all week and got involved in family stuff like i helped plant my aunties plants with my mum..i helped make dinner..i went shopping on sunday etc.. I havent seen my friends all week (my friends consist of this boy, another boy, and two girls) and theyre goin to his tonight!! im gonna be the only one and no its not just this once its been 4 weeks!! (im 16)
2007-10-26 21:43:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it dependes on how much time has past when you were grounded and your mums mood also. ask some of your friends to persuade your mum on phone. you can ask his mother to call yours and assure her that will do much good and if your friends are nice and decent people then its a huge advantage
2007-10-26 21:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Knowitall 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to make a terrific Accountant ...thinking that these things add up like sums.
You cannot 'buy' trust, you have to earn it. Can you earn it Beckiie?
How would you go about measuring your trust in someone who'd let you down?
Try being simple in that you say to your friends, 'I screwed up and I've been grounded and can't be there and I miss you all..' or whatever ~ and say the same things (sort of) to your mum too.
At some point, the chances are that you are going to be a Mum of some horrible lovely child who at the age of between 14 - 16 things they know it all, thinks they are hard done by and unfairly treated by you, and you are going to remember this ...and think, 'If only I knew then what know now.'
This may not help you NOW, but calm down, you have time on your side where your parents don't ~ until it's your turn.
Take it easy.
Sash.
2007-10-27 16:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if you have been a poster child for good behavior for the last five years. I still wouldn't allow you to spend the night at a male friend's house, nor would I allow my 20 year old daughter to do the same thing. Any parent that did would be absolutely irresponsible in doing so. On top of that you have apparently proved to your parents that you have very poor judgment, are irresponsible and cannot be trusted for a very long time. Helping out for a few days is not a sign that you have matured or that you are smarter. It just means that you know how to manipulate in an attempt to get what you want. Congratulations to your parents for their apparent wisdom.
2007-10-26 21:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing a bit of gardening with mum and auntie isn't gonna give you're mum the confidence to let you stay at a boys house at 16 - especially if you've proved to her you can't be trusted in the past.
I wouldn't push you're luck if I was you - you need to earn you're mums trust first, not just suck up to them coz you're grounded.
Don't be too eager to grow up TRUST me, you'll regret doing certain things too young - why dont you suggest you all go to the cinema together instead! If they're are really good friends of yours they won't care where you all hang out.
2007-10-26 21:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by carly s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt if she'll let you. I have a daughter (ok so she's only 14 months old) and I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want her staying at a boys house when she's 16 no matter how good she was. I can remember what boys of that age are like...randy little so and sos :-)
2007-10-26 21:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mand 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a parent counting on what relatively undesirable component you probably did. i do no longer think of i might enable my daughter flow, to a snooze over with boys. on the age of sixteen. attempting to be good in basic terms so which you would be able to get some thing isn't gonna replace your mothers and dads strategies.
2016-10-14 04:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by limson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't she would permit U so soon unless she knows the boy better. Invite your boy friend more frequently at your place. U need to exhibit more patience. You r too young to understand all this. Leave it to your mom.
2007-10-26 21:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by bkmahatma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm..hard to say .. i mean you have helped out and at least you are asking.
but don't go and stay and she says no .. don't lie coz you WILL get found out.
I suppose all you can do is ask, tell your mum how important this is to you .. and try and let her know you know she is worried about you and reasure her.
good luck and be careful!
xxx
2007-10-26 21:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY babe, no amount of persuading will make your mum change her mind and the more you ask the more she will say no
2007-10-26 22:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by sally wag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rrrright
and the queen of england is a hippe
NOT
2007-10-28 01:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋