I felt so belittled. now, i don't want to have anything to do with her. however, I fear my daughter will suffer if I keep her away from her.
2007-10-27 02:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by TERESA W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you need to put this person in perspective. This is the mother that raised the man who thinks its ok to bring a child into the world and not be responsible for it. That's the message this woman's son learned from her. That's why he isn't a man at all.
Why are you listening to her make excuses for the loser she raised? She failed at being a mother, why should you?
Your daughter seeing her grandmother(like it or not) has nothing to do with child support.
I would simply keep up the relationship as long as its not detrimental to your daughter and your daughter wants it.
And tell that poor excuse for a mother that a real woman raises her sons to be honorable men and to do what is right. Enough said.
2007-10-27 02:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess Grandma's loyalties lie with her son, and not the welfare of her grandchildren.
Whether or not you're a "real woman" has nothing to do with parental support.
A real woman looks out for the best interests of her dependent children. A real man makes sure those best interests are met. The end.
2007-10-27 02:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would have to call g-ma out! If she has something she wants me to hear- she better tell it to me directly!
Obviously, she does not have her grand-daughters best interest at heart. I would have to talk to her, and find out if she truly believes that her son is not responsible for parenting and caring for his daughter. (what is he a mama's boy?)
I would also need to ask her if she is wanting to end her relationship with her granddaughter. It has to make you daughter uncomfortable, and could result in her not wanting to spend time with his mom.
Remember, a real man would not need to be asked for money to help support his child- only a looser man, who hides behind mama's apron.
2007-10-27 02:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rev. Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to shame you into not taking money from him. Tell her a real man would want to give money for his kids, and a real grandmother would not be such an idiot.
2007-10-27 02:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
assuming you are divorced and asking for child support you should never have to talk to the woman-it would be up to him to take your daughter to visit-assuming you are still married tell him what she said and let him deal with her- again he can take your daughter to visit her you don't have to see her if you don't want to
2007-10-27 02:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by suan b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋