My parents abuse me for no reason. I try to get help, but everyone just ignores me. What should I do??????????

Answer 1

I went back and reread your other questions. I tend to do this to determine if its a serious question or not.

You are in a competitive sport that someone is paying for. I don't think its you. So since you also indicate you are in middle school, I'm going to assume its your parents. You also seem to be impatient.

I think people are ignoring you because you are whining and expecting everyone else to do it for you. You need to go to your school counselor, and talk about what you mean by abuse. I'm having a problem equating someone who's been practicing karate for long enough to think she can teach and has a brown belt with someone who's parents are abusing her.

My guess is that you are using the wrong word and are frustrated because they want you to do the things you are supposed to be doing and you aren't without alot of complaining and drama. That pretty well makes you a typical teen. It also makes people not want to take you seriously.

There is more to karate than just the physical actions, and you need that discipline in your life. I think you need to take responsibility for your part in your drama with your parents and clean up your act. While you are probably not completely at fault, the only person you can address is yourself.

Congrats on being a brown belt, that takes guts.

Answer 2

Hey, no parents should abuse their kids, period. Call child protective services and get your family some help. I will give you some good numbers below. Also, in your local phone book, there should be some numbers under the community pages or in the social and human services of the yellow pages. Get yourself some help at school, with a good counselor and protect yourself. If anyone lays a hand on you, you can call the police, get an order of protection and force the whole situation to change. I am so sorry you are going through this. Look up your states child abuse hotline on the net.

Answer 3

if you mean abuse, like a spanking or disclipine then that is not abuse. However if you are telling the truth, then you should not be telling strangers your problems. Instead you should tell your teacher or your counsillor. Frankly, I kind of don't believe you because all kids and teachers know if they are getting abuse by their parents they have to tell someone before it is to late. go to this website http://www.childabuse.org/ . And if you are telling the truth, then you would have to show them evidence. So don't think by reporting your parents just to get back at them, will do you any good, because it won't.

Answer 4

What type of abuse do you mean? Also, your age would be of help in perhaps arriving at an answer.

Answer 5

what do u mean by abuse? discipline and spanking is not abuse. if they are beating u or sex abuse u need to tell a teacher or some older person you can trust

Answer 6

Become independant. Live with someone you can trust- you can do it!

Answer 7

Define Abuse .............

Answer 8

go to your school counselor they have to report it to authorities

Answer 9

?? abuse....