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I don't trust my parents . they have been abusive since childhood. I pressed charges against my father for trying to stab me with a knife . Now he's going to court.
But something happened before that
I lost my wallet . Then i gets it back a few weeks later .( My licence and Green card were both missing ) It seemed as if I lost it myself. But yesterday when I was in my parents room looking for some change to go across the bridge to pick up a paycheck , I found my lose "DRIVERS LICENCE" inside her purse !!!! I was so fuc@@in furious
But right now i am at a stage where i have to be calm or else I won't have a place to stay . ! It's very hard for me to find a job since i graduated with a degree That was forced on to me . But i am trying ( full throttle ) .

But I want to keep my passport and my social security card somewhere safely , because i don't want that bi## to take my stuff again !
Is there a place like in the bank or something where I can keep this stuff safely ? ?

2007-10-26 18:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by sum142121 1 in Family & Relationships Family

One day , when I become financially secure , I want to leave these Pathological lying , Emotionally unbalanced people and create a generation free of emotional problems , starting with me . Please help me.
Thanks.


p.s : I haven't fond my green card yet. I am waiting for a chance for them to leave the home one day , so i can find where she hid it .

2007-10-26 18:13:27 · update #1

a safe deposit ? how does it work ?

2007-10-26 18:20:35 · update #2

8 answers

go to a bank of your choice and ask them for a small safe deposit box rental.....our Bank charges about 9.00. Put all valuables inside. Do NOT mention anything to your parents about it. Hide the key, or keep it with you always. I don't know you but, I can say that I am proud of you.... Getting away and staying away from harmful parents is a hard thing to do. But it sounds like you have a great head on your shoulders. Please take care, and keep up the great work!!! GOOD LUCK AND PRAYERS TO YOU!!!!!


EDIT:

Missingo---- Did you not read that her own father tried to stab her with a knife??? How could you speak to her this way? And also would you keep your own money around this house?? After all they did steal her Id's! And by the way, read the question, it was her green card and license, not her social security card!!

2007-10-26 18:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by greenrose1922 4 · 0 1

I have a safe deposit box for my important papers. They have them at banks in different sizes and you pay for them once a year. the boxes take two keys. They keep one and you have one. They make you sign a paper each time you want to get into the box. You can have just your name on it or another persons name you can trust. They are not expensive so go sign up for one. You would have to be sure not to lose your key though. I would keep it close at hand so they would not steal it too. Wear it around your neck if you have to!

2007-10-26 18:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by craft painter 5 · 0 0

With a friend you can trust or at a bank safe deposit box which you pay for.

2007-10-26 18:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0 0

Just go to your bank and they will help get you set up with a safe deposit box that only you can access.

2007-10-26 18:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Otto 7 · 0 0

The first place I would go to hide your personal identification is to your bank and buy a safe deposit box. Or you can go to your post office and buy a post office box. They don't cost much, and you have the key.

2007-10-26 18:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Safety deposit box at the bank

2007-10-26 18:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by JV 2 · 1 0

Get a safe deposit box at your bank.

2007-10-26 18:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Faerie_Queene3 5 · 1 0

The way you talk about your parents doesn't sound like you learned much with your education and degree. I imagine your mother took your social security card because you were too immature and careless to take proper care of it. And what's with getting change out of your parents' room? If you're doing so well, you might get a place of your own, buy your own groceries and pay your own bills. I'm sure your parents would be relieved to not have to take care of you any more. JERK!

2007-10-26 18:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 0 3

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