i'm a 13 years old girl... last year i found out that my dad cheating on my mom ..and now my mom is cheating on him ... what can i do?
2007-10-27 02:16:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
nothing
this is something your mom and dad have to work out on their own
2007-10-27 02:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing you can do. Unless if they are still together, then yes maybe you can do something. Why won't you try to get your mom and dad together in a vacant room. Have them remind each other all the wonderful, happy, and cherishable moments they had spent together. Also, when ther're done doing that, have them explain to each other, why are they doing what they are doing and how they can have a more closer relationship.
2007-10-27 02:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep away yrself from their business.Concentrate yr self on yr studies and carriar.Try to be self sufficient. Keep minimum contact with them to meet yr requirement. Never try to be middleperson between them.Definitely in long run of such affairs,yr family will suffer and kids will be the most sufferer.If u have youngers to u, try to keep them away from knowing all this.and help them.Let it to turn off at their own.Definitely such things affects the whole family but u are very young to handle this.contecting relatives for help will further enlarge the problem and yr entire family will get a badname in the society.
2007-10-27 04:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, this is none of your business. Your parents are adults and their lives are their responsibility. I'm sorry they are being so selfish, but alot of adults are. What they are doing is wrong, its hurtful and its immature. The best you can do is learn from their mistakes and not make them later in life when you are married. If its interfering with your life, you can tell them that you don't want to hear about it, and you can talk to someone you trust, your school counselor, your minister or priest, or another relative.
2007-10-27 02:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The second person answering this questions said to be careful not to be the reason your parents get a divorce and I'm here to tell you that if your parents get a divorce it could never be your fault. don't listen to that. many children feel that their parents relationship didn't work out because of them. that is a lie. don't buy it. Please understand that EVERYONE, including adults, makes mistakes and you don't have to follow in your parents footsteps in this type of behavior.
2007-10-27 02:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by TERESA W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is really sad for you, your mum and your dad.
I bet you feel so confused!
well you must be cross with your parents for doing this. if i was you I would write a note and put it on the fridge and write something like, I love my mum and dad so much, I wish they could love each other again.
put it there and then go to school.
good luck.
i hope they see sense.
2007-10-27 02:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Poppys 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better, be careful. You don't want to be the cause of them getting a divorcement. You must be sure of what you are saying. I feel you should talk to both of your parents seprately and tell them that you know what they are doing and it is wrong.
2007-10-27 02:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy O 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋