Family - June 2007

cause its not only wrong, but its creepy

2007-06-30 06:25:35 · 14 answers · asked by Matthias G 1

Whom do u love most ???

Father or mother ???

2007-06-30 06:12:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

trying to save more money to move into a place. here are a list of the bills. ok me and my girl live together. here is a list of the bills. car payment- $360. insurance- $277. im with nationwide insurance. i got points on my license. student loan- $325. rent- $525. cell phone- $120. thats me and my girl on a myfaves plan for 2000 minutes. cable-$100. electric- 40. gas- $40. house phone. i think its like 30 something bucks. now that doesnt even include car gas. im spending about $100 a week on that. groceries- maybe 100 a week. im just estimating. what can we cut back on? i already know about eating out and not driving so much. i was thinking about going with the comcast triple play. for one. instead of going with the cable and house phone

2007-06-30 05:08:45 · 8 answers · asked by dgmotley 2

I've been in a lesbian relationship with my partner for nearly 4 years, since we were 19. We have a 2 year old daughter together who was conceived the natural way with me giving birth. She has always been been a good partner & brilliant with our daughter. I recently found out something from her past which made me question her as a person. We argued & split 3 weeks ago, but she comes to my house everyday punching the windows,making threats & trying to take the child etc. She has no rights over the child as we were going to wait a few years before she adopted her, and the other night she came round & called both me & my daughter horrible names & smashed up the kitchen. Now I don't want her anywhere near me or my child. My friends say that I'm wrong to stop her seeing her as she raised her, but in the eyes of the law, she has no rights. She loves my daughter dearly, but I don't want her to see her again. My sister says I should give in to stop her going crazy. Am I right to stop her?

2007-06-30 05:04:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

why does my family make me go to family events?! I don't want to and they still make me. my cousin is a total crack head. He dosen't do anything. so I get bored and wanna leave!

2007-06-30 05:02:50 · 9 answers · asked by Trust me I'm a genius. 3

worse of all she is the co-agent of my insurance company and my stepfather is my agent and yes we live with them trying to save up for a house. we had one check that bounced at of 1000 of them and it happened to go to her. All came to a broiling point say how ungrateful and spoiled we both are, she started saying why aren't you both at work when we both work 35+ hours a week and she is like you need a backbone. Then when i attempted to use a backbone, confronted her on lying about giving my fiance and i a piece of paper supposedly with the marry pastor info on it. she kept say i was trying to manipulate the conversation my direction. this morning i went to give her a hug i felt like she needed one and she is like you offend me the other day i was like where that is two of us i don't feel like i did anything wrong should i apology even through i feel like if i do i sink to her level of immaturity and she win the manipulation or not worry about it any more. you help lines out there.

2007-06-30 04:46:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-30 04:35:57 · 3 answers · asked by foxygrandma_of5 1

Okay, I am a stay at home mom. I have two kids (3 counting the boyfriend). I go to school online, take care of my 6 month olds every little whim (bless his little adorable self =), keep track of my 8 yr old running in and out of the house, when there is school that he is doing his work. I cook, do laundry and clean. The part I am most upset with is I clean one room, move on to the next, only to find the clean room is no longer clean. Think it is my children? Partially, but add into the mix my boyfriend who thinks all he has to do is work. I may not be working but if I am going to be a 24 hr a day maid that caters to him, I want pocket money. My job doesn't end at 5pm. Then he gets mad cuz I am "b**hing. Well, do I go to his job and screw up his parts and say oh well, I am done for the day, let's screw up all you worked hard at? I contribute my part, but my part gets disrespected. Time to strike? Nope, doesn't help, neithr does talking to him. Just venting, you can too!

2007-06-30 04:13:33 · 3 answers · asked by ohmom2 2

My cousin has recently started to secretly date a 14 year old boy I found out as i saw them kissing in my local shop but do you think the age gap is too much?

2007-06-30 04:13:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Out of curiosity...

2007-06-30 04:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by missesmoo236 2

im sure my step dads messing about with things but he died in august last year!!!!!

2007-06-30 04:03:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stepmom invited my brothers ex wife, her new husband and their baby to my stepsisters birthday party and she did not invite my brother because she really doesn't care for him. They have done this before and they do not tell my brother. They know how much this would hurt him. I don't know what to do. I really don't want to go, but I don't want to punish Molly for her mother's ignorance. Can you please give me advice on how to talk with my dad and his wife to help them to see how this is wrong.

2007-06-30 03:59:39 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6

I love my mom dearly. She's a great person. My little brother takes advantage of her kindness and runs over her. I used to give my mom money, in an effort to show her my love and also so she could buy herself something nice. Unfortunatly, my little brother would end up with something nice. He plays her and ends up taking my money away from her. So I stopped giving her money. I don't know what to buy her, cause she seems to have everything. I have been sending her emails, reminding her of how she has been such a positive influence on my life and to let her know that she's the best. My question is.....are the emails enough? Should I also try to buy her a gift? I don't want my brother to benefit. I love my brother dearly, as well. But my hard earned money is not meant to go to him.

2007-06-30 03:49:09 · 12 answers · asked by laid back brainstormer 2

I am getting married next year to a man who is in his middle thirties and is the only child. Just from conversations he and I have back and forth, it sounds like his mom is hard to please with the girls he dates. Basically like no one is good enough for her son. I am in my early thirties, never married but do have a daughter who is 8 years old. Her father is not in her picture and never has been. I am a great person, have a great job for never going to college and etc, but have struggle for many years on making ends meet for me and my daughter. My credit is horrible and we do are best to get by. He has no kids, has a college degree in computers and etc. I have only met his mom once and that was at this past Christmas. Going by female intution, I just have this funny feeling that she is not crazy about me. What do I do?

2007-06-30 03:42:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Brothers wife is a total ***** she won't let My Bro come out to the pub with me since the ring went on her finger her excuse is that i attract too much female attention so therefore i am a bad influence on married man she's a total fruit cake what can i do to get her to let him come out every once in a while, and get her to stop being such a *****? (we catch up about every 3-4 months so it's not an everyday thing)

2007-06-30 03:31:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recentley went through a custody battle with my ex husband.He won the case on the grounds that i wasnt in a stable relationship,hes getting re married and ive suffered depression.my son and daughter wanted to carry on seeing both of us.Everything was ok until he took me to court.We had shared care which we arranged ourselves.My solicitor said i had been too nice to their father.What im trying to get to here is what gives someone the right to choose,they only see the circumstances in a short space of time.Ive had 11 yrs of being a mother,with my history of depression do they really think taking my kids away will resolve my depression,im cut up and hurt.Ive been patranised and humiliated and i feel like ive lost my life.What do these people think they are doing to families now adays?

2007-06-30 03:20:52 · 6 answers · asked by hunniiuk 5

I believe she was born in Mt. Holly NJ 08060, on January 7th or very close to that day in 1972. Her name is Bonnie Jean Williams by birth, but I believe her name was changed due to an adoption by her stepfather. It could have possibly been Fenimore. Her mothers name was Joann Flemming. I think she grew up in the Burlington County NJ area. I would greatly appreciate any free help. Thank you!

2007-06-30 03:12:27 · 4 answers · asked by mexnirish 1

2007-06-30 00:29:02 · 16 answers · asked by goodfella 5

i stayed up all night untill this very moment, 7:10 AM, me and my cousin wanna go outside and swim....but we have to ask my dad permission first, the only problem is he is going to ask why we woke up so early (cuz its not usually..lol) so can u give us an excuse to tell him??? plz and thanx ya

2007-06-30 00:13:02 · 8 answers · asked by roderi f 2

I "hate" my father, but I do not want to feel hate anymore cause it is not good. In general I am very kind and all those good things but with him it is a big exception (not explain why here). I just ignore him and I cannot do otherwise; but sometimes feelings of hate arise.

Do you know how to cope with these feelings since I cannot move to a new house right now? Any tips? So far I found that ignoring him is the best way.

"Making friends with him is impossible" to add a bit more details.

Thanks,
Carl

2007-06-30 00:07:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-29 23:26:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I HAVE A 17 YEAR OLD STEP SON AND A 19 YEAR OLD THEY BOTH WILL DO NOTHING FOR ME AROUND THE HOUSE UNLESS THEY GET SOMETHING THEY LIVE HERE FOR FREE. I CHARGE THEM 20 DOLLARS A WEEK FOR GAS TO TAKE THEM TO AND FROM WORK . THE 17 YEAR OLD WANTS HIS DRIVERS PERMIT I TOLD HIM NO UNTIL HE CHANGES HE GOT MAD I JUST HAD KNEE SURGEY AND THEY WILL DO NOTHING SO I TOLD THEM THEY ARE GOING TO PAY RENT HERE 20 DOLLARS A WEEK AND THEY BOTH QUIT THERE JOBS SO I TOLD THEM YOU HAVE 7 DAYS TO GET A JOB OR YOU ARE OUT THIS CAUSES ALL FIGHTING WITH THE WIFE I PAY ALL THE BILLS HERE I PUT THE GAS IN THE CARS AND I OWN THE CARS PLUS I PAY THE INSURANCE, AND THE 19 YEAR OLD JUST WANTS TO SIT AROUND AND WATCH TV WITH MOMMY. AND EATS US OUT OF HOUSE AND HOME HE EATS A FULL 16" PITZA BY HIMSELF AND WASTES SODA OPENS A CAN TAKES A SIP AND LETS IT SIT SO NOW NO SODA AND NOW HE DOES THAT TO MY WATER! IAM READY TO THROW THEM ALL OUT AND GET A DIVORCE!

2007-06-29 22:54:40 · 6 answers · asked by allan l 2

2007-06-29 22:52:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband 56.i 44 married 4 years. he never admired me in anything. i am a piano teacher. this morning,he said i think your students never stay with you long. actually,i am a very popular teacher whom all kids like very much. i hate to be despised all the time. he always forces me to do things i hate,for example,you would say you put too much food in your bowl and forces me to put the food back. how embarrassing. he will say you are very fat. i am 135 pound but i have been like this all my life.i am 5 feet 4.or many times wants me to do things i dont like . if i argue,he will be very mad but i feel so painful in my heart. we have no kid,of course,i dont want kids with him at all.

2007-06-29 22:43:24 · 17 answers · asked by Carol H 3

my son has seen his dad on off since he was born.weve been apart for 5years(hes a drug addict). Recently i split from a partner of 2 yrs. i got on with life and bumped into my sons dad at his sis.he wanted to see his son and i ok'd this as long as he behaved around my son .one day i gave him a lift home and went in, it was a state , i knew he was suffering depression and cleaned up got him some food which he payed me back and did some laundry for him.just to help him out as i would anyone i knew.ive kept him at arms length as i dont want anything other than the fact he is my sons dad, but i feel by the way hes talking that he thinks something else and i want to stress i not done anything to encourage him i done for him what i do for anyone. anyway my recent x has been in touch and wants to sort things out the last time this happened my x x wanted to tell my partner wed slept together ,untrue and turned aggressive in front of my son and since my x has an issue about this and i stuck

2007-06-29 22:28:31 · 9 answers · asked by julie s 2

seriously all she does is sleep all ****** g day and nag about my lil sis still living at home at 21yrs old. but my dad cant do nothing about it cause hes affraid of her nagging now my grand mother just moved in shes 86 years old starting to loose it she goes on herself when you go to my sis room it smell foul and whos taking care of her is my sis she cant move in with me cause im only 1 year older and im in college. now she moving out with her soon to be husband and she doesnt wanna tell them because they never supported her for nothing but im afraid of whom is going to take care of granny cause i know my devil step mother will not.

2007-06-29 21:23:56 · 3 answers · asked by john c 1

A person having 60 years going to old age home with the pressure of his family for whom he sacrifice in his young age. Can you think it is fair?

2007-06-29 21:06:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

A person having 60 years going to old age home with the pressure of his family for whom he sacrifice in his young age. Can you think it is fair?

2007-06-29 21:05:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son and his ex has a daughter that has emancipated herself from her parents. she wants to go to college and now wants her father to pay for is. she is now 21 and she did this when she was 17, and her father has remain paying support to her since she is in college. Her 2 aunts said her father has to pay and it is his responsible to do this. Her mother said sorry, she emancipated herself so she is on her own. my ex gave her a car so she would stay in college. i need some answers. i say that my daughters should stay out of this and let her grow up and get a job. She has a little job and it pay 5.50 per hour.

2007-06-29 18:13:58 · 17 answers · asked by mrsangel 1

2007-06-29 18:02:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous