Family - June 2007

my mom has several mental problmes which are up for dibs as to diagnosis. she has been diagnosed bi polar depressed drug addict etc.. in the past but i dont think theyve hit the nail on the head. one thing she IS is insanely jealous/ crazy about her husband. she gets in these moods where if he does not answer his phone she blows up and goes completley nuts calls up her adult children ( me included) and starts complaining and screaming that she just ' Knows" he is out screwing whores behind her back. i treid to tell her there could be any reason he didnt asnwer and not to jump to conclusions shes being paranoid and she blew up at me. how do i deal with her when shes liek this without me having to get abused too? ( like todya she screamed at me , and none of her kids like to tlak to her when she is in one of these moods )

2007-06-27 19:15:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

BE A MAN AND GET TOO KNOW YOUR SUN
I HAVE ALWAY WANT TO KNOW YOU
THE HELL WITH MY MOM IT'S ABOUT ME
DO THE RIGHT THING AND SEE ME

2007-06-27 18:54:08 · 2 answers · asked by RANDY W 1

I asked my little bro for help w/ a chore, he did it w/out a problem and then when i`m just about to go to sleep he comes smashing through my door and starts making demands. so i try to take it up w/ dad he comes up w/ something that i did wrong to cover up for what eric did and get me in trouble. (it happens all the time) he is always saying im doing something wrong it seems. I know he loves me and just wants me to be a better man... but now i dnt feel like i can talk to him about anything...

2007-06-27 18:50:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-27 18:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by shygirl 2

Do people always love their parents no matter how their partner treat them? Do you think your parents did a good job to raise you up?

2007-06-27 18:46:08 · 19 answers · asked by Lebron Yao 1

WHEN I WAS YOUNG MY MOTHER GOT ME LOADED AND LET MY FATHER ABUSE ME. SHE IGNORES ME NOW BECAUSE SHE SAYS SHE FEELS GUILTY. I AM A WRECK, DESPONDENT AND FEEL AS THOUGH I SUFFERED THE WORST ABUSE AND ALOT OF IT IS HER FAULT. ITS AS THOUGH SHE HAS NO APATHY OR CONCERN. MY BROTHER AND SHE JET SET AND PRETEND THAT I DO NOT EXIST. I FEEL LIKE MY BROTHER HAS BRAIN WASHED HER SO HE CAN HAVE ALL OF HER MONEY.
CAN I SUE HER AND HOW?

2007-06-27 18:42:04 · 6 answers · asked by MOTHER ALWAYS GAVE ME DRUGS 1

2007-06-27 18:38:01 · 8 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

if you read my other questions you will be a little more informed about this matter.but here is a little info, my brother and sister in law kicked their teen daughter out because she is two months pregnant they want nothing to do with her the baby or anyone who is supporting her in this time of her life. mainly my family, she is my GODdaughter so when my wife and i heard they kicked her out we moved her in with us and our six kids. its been a while since my bro and i talked so it surprised me when i sow his car parked in my drive way. my first thought was i hope he isn't starting **** with my anyone in MY house. i walk in the door and i see him yelling at my wife. right there that pissed me off, then i see my GOD daughter crying. in my house he walked in and starting telling my wife **** and then telling my GODdaughter that she was a slut and a worthless piece of life.i asked him to please leave and not come back he wasn't welcome anymore.he didn't want to hear that.

2007-06-27 17:41:00 · 9 answers · asked by adrik c 3

I am a single mom of 4 beautiful children. The father of the 3 youngest and I are no longer together. It keeps threatening to try to take my kids from me. I am scared that he is going to get his dad to help him get an attorney and try to do it. I don't have the money for an attorney right now, but I have heard of organizations that will help single moms. Does anyone know about this stuff? I live in Texas. I really need some help.

2007-06-27 17:24:36 · 11 answers · asked by jessica c 2

please, serious answers ONLY. i'm desperate. thank you.

2007-06-27 17:06:36 · 12 answers · asked by Kath 1

heres the thing im 23 and grew up with 2 brothers and like alot of boy cousins! the closest girl cousin is like 10 years younger than me! so when the family gets together (which is a lot) sometimes i like to go over where my brothers and cousins are hanging out (they are like around 15-20 by the way) so my husband get mad b/c he thinks i dont belong with them! he says that i should be with the ladys ( my mom and aunts) and it pisses me off cuz its not like i hang all day with them! i know they are sometimes inmature and say stupind stuff but l love them so much and i like talking to them and they really look up to me! but i think my husband is jelous or something! what should i do? am i wrong?

2007-06-27 15:59:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a way I can legally divorce one of my parents? I have been wanting to do this for most of my adult life. I need to do this for my sanity. What steps do I need to take to divorce this parent? And lastly, how much does it cost to have this done? Thanks everone....

2007-06-27 15:35:16 · 12 answers · asked by redcapgirl 1

i think i just found out my brother does drugs and when he has parties some tmes his freinds bring alcahal and he doesnt drink it but they do and one time they asked me if i wanted some and my brother said for me to go upstares and stay up there and i thnk they mite of been doing drugs to when he has parties so i told my oldest brother a few minates ago and he doesnt think its a big problam and doesnt belve me and so im gona tel my parents tomrow but my oldest brother told my brother who i think does drugs that i said some thing and now my other brother is like dont tell anyone cuz i dont and you would be lieing and that isnta good thing sowhat do i do?

2007-06-27 14:39:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, so my mother in law hates me. I took her baby boy and we got pregnant. Then we got married and had another. This women will not stop. I feel so uncomfortable around them it makes me sick to my stomach. When we were dating they both told me to my face that they would never except me into there life, but then I got pregnant and they are acting nice. I don't get it. My hubby and I have tried talking to them but they think I seduced there son and made him get with me, Any advice?

2007-06-27 14:22:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay.

Let me give you some background on my family. My parents have been divorced ever since I was three, but have lived in the same house until i was twelve. It made my two siblings and I walk on eggshells constantly. My father moved out about three years ago and all three of us kids went with him. That's when we came out of denial of my mother being an alcoholic. About six months (maybe eight) she went into rehab. I resent her more than my siblings because she disliked me for not being the first born gilr or boy andleaned on me when i was growing up. I missed out on my child hood because of her. Now that she is out of rehab my father has her over to take care of us, some times (most of the time) she sleeps over and he retreats to his girlfriend (of about 14 years). Recently I have wanted nothing but to leave. I feel as if my territory has been invaded. I told my father this but he told me "to chill out". I am at my ends wit, and now so are my siblings.

Advice?

2007-06-27 14:04:13 · 2 answers · asked by Liar. 3

i let my sister, her husband, and their 3 kids move in with me and my family, until they could get on their feet. after about a month, her husband up and leaves her and the kids for a drug binge, and some girl, too.did i mention that he is very physically and mentally abusive? anyway, after a week, he finally calls, and she decides to go back with him. they get a motel for a week, and within that time, he takes all her money, and leaves her and the kids with no food, and no car, he got away with 460 dollars, so you can imagine what hes going to do.. after she decided to go back with him, i told her she couldnt come back, but being the nice sister i am, am letting her, mostly because of the kids. is there any help here for single mothers, like for shelter, or housing?

2007-06-27 13:31:05 · 3 answers · asked by sweetwhitegirl28 1

I have a 21 year old sister who still lived at home with mom and dad she pays rent ok then they told her that she has to share a job with my 12 year old sister but still paid rent and she has to be home every night by 10 well to make a long stroy short she has to catch two buses to go to work and she didnt get off till 11pm one night and the buses stop running at 9 here so she called them and told them that she was going to spend the night with her boyfriend who lives nexts door from where she works so the next day she calls me crying cuz they threw all her stuff on the front pounch and told her that she had to move out now she has already paid them rent for next month and they are refuseing to give her the money back what should she do

2007-06-27 12:22:18 · 2 answers · asked by sara24 2

so far ive tried local sports centres but nothing, so yahoo ur my last hope of making my 7yr old son happy please make him happy again thank u a father

2007-06-27 11:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by longintheshower 1

When you see a parent spank or yell at a kid in public?

2007-06-27 11:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

iF YoU COuLd cHooSE YouR OWn NaMe WhaT WOuld It bE?

2007-06-27 11:32:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My in-laws hinted yesterday that they have not seen one of their grandchildren being born, due to the other kids living far away.
I am 26 weeks along and am due in Oct.
I have a old fashion sense and do NOT wish for anyone to be in the delivery room but my hubby who helped to create this little baby.
They however want to come in and take pictures or record it, I am opposed to my in-laws being in there because it is quite truthfully DISGUSTING AND REPULSIVE!
I do not want them looking at my nether regions, that is private, between man and wife! I am appauled that they would even suggest that both of them be in the room looking at my >ss! Also, they have never taken an interest in our older child! When we left him in their care as a small child they never once changed his diapers (We were gone 12 hours!) and when he was 5 and diagnosed with asthma....they NEVER gave him his medicine!
What do you think and what would you tell them

2007-06-27 11:27:06 · 26 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4

Ok... so I havent evr seen my biological dad and he lives somewhere in Idaho and I want to see him, but when my mom was dating him he was really abusive and now he does drugs, and i dont mean just po or cigs, i mean heroine,crack,pot,meth, coke, every drug u can think of he does, I also have a sister from the same dad shes the same age as me but my mom and ehr mom dont get along but i want to meet her. How do I tell my mom I want to meet my dad and sis?

2007-06-27 11:15:11 · 5 answers · asked by iluvu 1

Hi, I hate to burden you guys, but I really need prayer, for everything. Please pray for me, let me tell you what happened tonight.
Tonight my dad got mad at me because I told him to go to bed. He fell asleep at the kitchen table, because of his emphasima, and it is not good for him to sleep like that I told him to go to bed. So I said "daddy go to bed" like 3 times. He jumped on me, told me to get the f... out of his face, house, sight. He told me that I was hateful and disrespectful and talked to him like a dog. He told me to go to bed, he counted to five I think, and when I did not move he jumped up, came over to me and began to push me, telling me to get the gd out of his house, face, life and so on. He said I was in his face being so hateful and rude talking to him like a dog and so on.

2007-06-27 10:30:53 · 17 answers · asked by teenhelp911 2

Would that person (you) at 4 years old, understand where you are now?

2007-06-27 08:50:55 · 35 answers · asked by wonkyfella 5

This maybe an age-old question, if a parent is just opposed to the daughter's boyfriend for whatever reason (most commonly that she can do better), how would you talk to her about it.

2007-06-27 08:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by ckaadev 2

It happened to me . I was just wondering if anyone else experienced the same.

2007-06-27 07:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by ScorpionOfLove 2

He is the only one employed at the moment but he makes enough money to do it. I can't get along with his mother and younger brother. What is worst of all is his brother is never asked to pay rent. I feel trapped.

2007-06-27 07:03:08 · 8 answers · asked by Daizy 1

have 3 children. After my mothers body was removed from her hospital bed, my sisters daughter took my mothers wedding ring (after asking my grieving and devastated father for it...he was in no state to make that decision so just told her ok). Anyway, later when I realized it was missing I contacted my sister who said her daughter took it and planned to keep it. I immediatly told her that it was too soon to start passing things out (only a few days since her death) and that I would like it placed back at my mothers home. My sister completley understood and said she would get the ring back immediatly from her daughter. A few weeks later I found out that my niece not only had the ring resized for her finger but also added her children's birthstones, changing my mothers ring around completly within a few weeks of her death. I was devastated and not sure how to handle this. My niece and sister feel as though neither did anything wrong....any advice for me would be appreciated! Thanks!

2007-06-27 06:48:48 · 16 answers · asked by Pluto 1

There is this guy that lives in one of the dorm rooms across our hallway and ˙he is gay. Some of the guys who live in my hallway pound on his door during the night at times between 10:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m. to wake up him up and then run off leaving him with no clue who did it. Is this a funny prank to pull?

2007-06-27 06:24:31 · 19 answers · asked by Scott 1

What can I do to stop this?

2007-06-27 05:54:56 · 9 answers · asked by worldsojourner 2