i think i just found out my brother does drugs and when he has parties some tmes his freinds bring alcahal and he doesnt drink it but they do and one time they asked me if i wanted some and my brother said for me to go upstares and stay up there and i thnk they mite of been doing drugs to when he has parties so i told my oldest brother a few minates ago and he doesnt think its a big problam and doesnt belve me and so im gona tel my parents tomrow but my oldest brother told my brother who i think does drugs that i said some thing and now my other brother is like dont tell anyone cuz i dont and you would be lieing and that isnta good thing sowhat do i do?
2007-06-27 14:39:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
TELL your parents as soon as you see them TONIGHT ... and that is FOR SURE ... Drug Abuse is something that will NOT go away, and can NOT Be denied ...
As a Long Term Single Parent ... I definitely watched CAREFULLY -- and banned some so-called 'friends' from MY HOME Because I DID know and observe their questionable behaviors .. and that they were either alcoholics or addicts or under the influence of some kind of substance(s) ... and DID inform the other parents (when I could).
BETTER to make sure that your sibling gets into TREATMENT and your parents are aware INSTEAD of the kid killing himself, his future, and endangering you/your parents and the rest of the family now!
2007-06-27 15:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should tell your parents. The longer you wait the more traumatic it will be for your brother and your family. You would be hurting him by not telling your parents. Your brother will be thankful in the long run. God Bless<3
2007-06-27 22:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell your parents. Your brother needs help now. It is a big problem and will become even bigger. I urge you to tell your parents. You don't need to harbor this secret. Your brother will be mad and probably call you a narc, but so what. Do you want to see him on TV, on Intervention?
2007-06-27 22:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by suespie471 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell,tell,tell, you may save your brother's life and brain. Let your parents know that you are telling them this in confidence, so that, they do not drag your name through the mud.
Tell them how to break the news" I have heard from very confidential and loving sources that you have begun doing drugs ---is this so?" ...then your parents are on their own..
2007-06-27 21:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by EarthRover 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. The longer you wait, the more of a problem it can become. My son is an addict and I wish I knew about it when he first began experimenting with drugs. Good luck.
2007-06-27 21:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what he's doing. You have to be WAY more specific than just "drugs". If he's smoking crack or doing heroin, yes you should tell your parents. If he's smoking weed and drinking....well what teenager hasn't??? It's part of life.
2007-06-28 15:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are responsible for the welfare of the children....they can't be responsible if things are going on they don't know about.
You love your brother? You tell your parents.
2007-06-27 22:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be upset at you at first but in the end he will be thankful. Do Tell!
2007-06-27 21:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by steracrudy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents.
you will be doing him a favor.
if he gets addicted, he is screwed.
2007-06-27 22:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by florida 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell parents
2007-06-27 21:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by daniel j 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋