He is the only one employed at the moment but he makes enough money to do it. I can't get along with his mother and younger brother. What is worst of all is his brother is never asked to pay rent. I feel trapped.
2007-06-27 07:03:08 · 8 answers · asked by Daizy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Asking your husband for help in moving out is the right thing to do, I just hope he is willing to comply with your request.
2007-06-27 07:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl.. Being pregnant you need as little stress as possible and if you and her dont get along then make the move. Plus with a baby coming in the picture there will be to many ppl and too much going on in one house.
2007-06-27 14:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong! its scary to be somewhere you hate being and then be expected to bring a baby into it! You need to discuss it with your husband, but word of caution...........plan your conversation in advance!!! Ask yourself "what do i want for our life?" and make a list of your hopes and dreams for your family(meaning you, hubby and baby to be)
Then once you have that, think about your current situation and why it will not fit into that "plan". Once you have that rationally and calmly planned out....its time to present your case to your hubby. Even the bible says when a man marries he cleaves to his wife and new family. He has to place you and the baby first.
But make it look like its his idea/choice.
Build him up about how proud you are of him that he is sucessful at his job, he will be a great daddy, and that you are anxious to start a quiet intimate life in a home with just the two/three of you.
2007-06-27 14:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by imaschroeder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the perfect opportunity to cut the apron strings and move out. If you got a job yourself, the chances would be even better.
2007-06-27 14:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong for him not to want to move out! What in the world is he thinking. You are your own family now, you shouldn't be living with another family. No, you aren't wrong.
2007-06-27 14:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by luv2help 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not wrong at all, it your right, talk to him again but if his mom has no income & there no one else to help her then that a problem
2007-06-27 14:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, he needs to take care of his own immediate family now (you and the baby).
2007-06-27 14:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong and why didn't you do this before getting pregnant?
2007-06-27 14:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by sugarcarat 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋