Family - June 2007

to make the trip from CA to TX to go and visit her.. But some of my close family members don't think it's a good idea.. What should I do?? How can I convince them that I WANT to do this, and that I'm NOT going to get hurt!?!?!? I mean, I'm 21, so I CAN do whatever I want, but I'd PREFER to not make everyone upset by going anyway!!!! I just want them to see my point of view.. Plus I don't want to waste my whole summer and not even get to meet her!!

2007-06-01 22:26:58 · 14 answers · asked by la creme de la creme 1

2007-06-01 19:27:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Grandma has been my joy since i was little and now she isn't doing so well. She is about to start dialisis and im afraid she is going to pass away. If she passes away i don't know what i would do. i couldn't go on living without her. She has been there for me for 12 years (im 12 years old) I pray every night and then icry myself asleep thinking about her Wonderful face and what it is going to be like without her.Do you know any suggestions on what i should do in a situation like this one. ( im not thinking about killing myself if thats what you think. i would never do that)

2007-06-01 17:05:49 · 8 answers · asked by Robert Rox!!! 2

My second cousins trial is on June 6th and the closer it gets the more i become a depressed wreck! Most of you know that 6 months ago she shot and killed my cousin, her dad, and she will only get like 3 years for it. I really miss him and this is bringing back a flood of memories to me. I just need support and people to talk to. Please help....any suggestions on how to deal with it?


p.s. you guys can email me at anytime if you want



Thanks for your support. I apprectiate how you guys just let me get everything off my chest. It helps to know that you all listen.

2007-06-01 16:40:38 · 7 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3

hey im married to a man from india im from american/native/ when me & my husband got married in 2003- my familey hated it my grandmother said that man will take my grand daughter away from me?. then my aunt and grandmother are really close! they talk about me all the time about how my husbands a san -ni) how mean is that! then when i got pregant with my daughter they was all like i woundering how she will look? what the helz? then when i gave birth they got so mad i did not tell them the day. i did not want any shi; started ! now they are more mad 2 years ive not really talked to them my brother has a little girl who is 2 same as my daughter and they will buy her stuff but not my daughter? and they will say i bet stephanies so mad i did not get her baby nothing haha they said.. so i dont call them are anything...then my grandmother wanted my daughter easter pic but i told her ur not getting one cuz you said her daddys a san ni what is she then? they got all pised off.

2007-06-01 16:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by mommy 3

Today is my mother's Birthday and my sister is 27 years old and took forteen hundred dollars out of her purse. My mom called me upset and wanted to hurt her if she finds her. What should my mom do? My mom wants to press charges.

2007-06-01 16:03:16 · 29 answers · asked by jnnfchar 3

Me and my mom are SOOOOOO different and I feel that everything I do in her eyes is wrong. She just doesn't understand me. I love my makeup, hair, shopping, all fun girl stuff and she is more of the sporty kind. She thinks that I am getting a "plastic" look because of the black around my eyes. I like the way I look and I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Any suggestions to keep peace with her and have a better relationship??

2007-06-01 15:59:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who would you buy a gift for and what would it be.

2007-06-01 15:48:33 · 29 answers · asked by 80 3

2007-06-01 15:27:16 · 11 answers · asked by had438 3

He has been like that a couple of months after we got married. I have been asking him respect and talk our marriage problems in the room where nobody can't hear but he just don't care and keep shouting and shouting. I do not want this for my baby, and i am a catholic woman i don't know if i should get divorced or not. Our communication and intimacy are not good, and I am at the point where I just let the days past because he does not show any interest in solving this situation. when he is mad, I stay quite, to avoid him shouting but I don't like it either.

2007-06-01 15:03:50 · 9 answers · asked by Koranay 1

My mom and dad are divorced, and my mom doesnt want any of my dads family to be there or him! Should i just have My moms family and friends and then do something with my dad and his side of the family?

2007-06-01 14:57:30 · 18 answers · asked by starburstjellybean 2

My mom died on April 1, 2007 and my bday was April 21st...she was 65 and Im now 37. I already lost 20 pds since mom died. I am married..but I feel like Im not a good wife right now being so depressed its hard to get household chores done. I work part time, we live out in the country, and my husband works full time. I dont see him til 10:30 at nite. What does a person do when they are by themselves all day after I come home from working 3 hours and living out in the country and cant go anywhere?? Ive discussed moving to live by my dad which is 20 miles away, but we cant afford it right now. Im by myself alone all day from 1pm to 10:30pm when he gets home. Sometimes I want to climb the walls!!! She died two months ago today and still hard, just have my dad and my brother left, but my brother lives an hr away & we arent really close, and I visit my dad 3 times a week for lunch then I come home & be more depressed. I just wish I was closer to dad besides visiting him. Im stuck!

2007-06-01 14:52:57 · 13 answers · asked by Brat 1

erm....not that i have one...just wondering if i had a hot stepsister would it be ok to make out with her?..... not to mention other things... (sex)

2007-06-01 14:36:34 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a call from my daughter Haley's b/f mom, i was shocked to hear this because my daughter never act out to get attention or anything. She is always a pretty little princess, i dont know how i am going to tell my husband, he will be mad.

Haleys boyfriend mom called me and told me all of the stuff haley is doing. I was shocked on what she was doing with her b/f. She is attractive but she is suppose to be my princess, she is 17 and in high school and so is her b/f. here is some of the stuff she is doing

- Acting wild in school with her b/f terry
- Acting like a sl*t around her b/f according to his mom
- goes joyriding with her b/f and takes her shirt off exposing her bra(victoria serect)
-her b/f mom found a pair of her pantys in his room
-her b/f defends her when someone hit on her or call her a wh*ore or ****.
-Grabs her b/f private area while in her b/f house and grabs his butt
- his mom thinks they are having sex alot
- looking at her buff b/f in boxers
-goes to partys with him

2007-06-01 14:01:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother is a wonderful mother, but a terrible grandmother. I hate to say it, but she really is. But she wants to spend time alone with my daughter and I just can not think of how to tell her I just don't trust her with my daughter. When I walk into her house I can find knives at knee level, they smoke in the house, there is not one room in her house that is toddler friendly, and there are no activities for little kids. Don't most grandparents stock up on little kid stuff? My grandparents always had loads of stuff to do and their houses were always clean and safe. So how do I tell my mother that I do not trust her with my daughter?

2007-06-01 12:56:09 · 16 answers · asked by jo 2

If that statement is worth anything, doesn't that mean that my parents should have aborted me?

I had a really lousy homelife growing up. My mother (alcoholic) would beat on me everyday and occasionally torture me with boiling water and my father (a worse alcoholic) would beat me over the head with beer bottles if I didn't do a chore "perfectly". When I was only twelve years old he almost cut off my right arm with a saw because I looked at my friends' hustler magazine. They never wanted me. The only reason why they didn't abort me was because it was basically unheard of back then and they were pretending to be "good Christians", even though we didn't own a single Bible, just to fit in with the community and be accepted.

Well, you know what, 60 years later I'm happy to be born. I have a great life and I hardly ever think about my past. "**** happens" I tell myself and I move on. I have even lived my missed childhood.

Does that count for anything or should I be dead?

2007-06-01 12:47:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like johnny depp alot and i like to use some quote he says but sometimes i don't even relized i said some. some of my familly is mad at me cuz they say he is a Liberal and they don't like liberals. and i'm still learning about lilberal and all that. i'm coffused. i don't know what to do. i mean do i try my best not to like him as much as i do to make some of my familly stop being mad at me. or do i just put up with what they say and keep likeing him. my familly thinks i chose to be a liberal but i have not chose what to be. like i said i'm still learning about this. plz help me.

2007-06-01 12:38:19 · 4 answers · asked by Guardian Angel 3

My 4 siblings have turned into pit bulls. All these years they have supported all I have done for him. Verbally. Not one helped pay any of the costs. I am now "persona non gratis". They tell me I've had a "free ride" & I don't deserve the home I live in (it's mine when Dad goes to heaven), and they are going to contest the will when he leaves us.
Oldest brother has Power of Attorney and has pretty much emptied out the 2 accounts that are in Dad & my names & now wants to sell this house. My heart is breaking. He took most of my funds, so a lawyer is pretty much out of the question.
I live in SW Washington state.

2007-06-01 12:30:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

advanced medicines and technologies can prelong a person's life to 90 or even 100 these days, even their qualtiy of life is nil, people in the past dies from natual causes, but these days they can just live like a vegetable for many many more years, its the children or caregiver's whose life will suffer, just wondering anybody else agrees with me?

2007-06-01 12:16:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there anything you parents don't know about you?
for example, have you been sexually molested, rape, had an abortion, etc.

and if you , would you ever tell them?

In my case, I was sexually abused when I was like 4yrs old and then a guy rape me when I was like 13 but nobody knows in my family! ..I believe the guy is dead now. should I tell my mom about it? she is like 84 years old now.

2007-06-01 12:08:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance comes from a very wealthy family that travels frequently (always to luxurious locations). He is going on a trip with them for 3 weeks this summer on a cruise thru the Mediterranean and not bringing me along. I am feeling very resentful and jealous. I trust him completely and don't worry about him being unfaithful.

My resentment comes from a few factors: my family doesn't have a lot of money and we couldn't ever do something like that, I work 60+ hours a week at a stressful job and won't have the time or money for a vacation until next summer, I have never been overseas and have always wanted to, and he has been able to travel to every part of the world all of his life (yet I have had NONE of those opportunities). I have always carried my own weight and paid my own way, yet he has everything (including this) just handed to him. I feel like if anyone deserves this chance, it should be ME.

How can I deal with this and not let it eat away at me?

2007-06-01 11:47:52 · 21 answers · asked by CaliGirl92648 1

and what can happen to them later on in life?

2007-06-01 10:08:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance paid off his debt(10k) with the bonus(13K) he got from work.Now this makes sence and leaves him with 3k.We have been engaged 2yrs waiting for his money situation to get better so we can get married.He talked about having a cheap wedding/honeymoon(like 5k total) and i told him i would pay for half of everything(which is only fair) so he would not get in debt again.Well instead of saving the 3k for the wedding/honeymoon he went out and spent 2k on a gun(he all rdy has 2) and i feel the other 1k will disapear too.How can he tell me he wants a cheap w/h then go out and spend that kind of money on gun?When we get married we want to get a house/new furniture too.now i have some money but i don't feel i should be the only one paying for everything(wedding/honeymoon/house)I have talked to him about putting money away together for these things but he does not want to.

2007-06-01 10:00:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband will have custody of his son in the next month.....they have reach an agreement to stop child support in their california case....however, his ex is saying she doesnt know where to go to stop the case.....???????? wouldnt it be where she opened it in the first place

2007-06-01 09:48:19 · 3 answers · asked by Adeja 1

I just found out that my niece is having a baby boy! I went online to research to see exactly what his "title" in the family is but I am having a hard time doing so. I have a son also and they are going to be second cousins ... but from an aunt to a niece and now to her son ... ???

2007-06-01 09:43:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, so lately she's been mad at me for no apparent reason. I have no idea what to do.

When I do too much around the house, and to help her. I get in trouble. (Because she thinks I'm "Hovering" over her and "following" her constantly, which is completely and utter crap.)

When I do to little, I get in trouble. - For obvious reasons.

When I do everything, I get in trouble for the reason stated at first.

And when I do nothing at all, I get in trouble for being lazy.

I'm usually always doing a lot around the house, cleaning and such. which normally gets me a compliment and then I find out by my dad(She talks behind my back, telling him stuff that I do wrong or what she doesnt like about me.) that I obviously did something wrong.

What do I do? when I do stuff around the house I get a compliment which turns out to be a lie
When I don't do much around the house she throws her "silent fits" in which I feel bad afterwards.

Please help.

2007-06-01 09:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-01 08:48:20 · 30 answers · asked by dyer4dolphins 1

family and friends are invited to my baby shower and i'm really excited about it. the only thing is that, my sister-in law ( who is invited) has a two year old child who is incredibly misbehaved and can't even make it through a family dinner without causing a lot of drama ( i, e. throwing things, screaming, etc.)

my problem is, i can't not invite my sister-in law but i'm afraid she will take it upon herself to haul along her kid. I don't want my shower to be ruined because he is there and acting out of control. how do i politely tell her that I would prefer him not attend this special event?

2007-06-01 08:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by eternity_22@sbcglobal.net 1

I'm an adult, & he asked me to move in with him, only so he can use someone to pay all his bills while he's hardly ever here. Also, I'm beginning to see patterns of his abuse again. When I was a toddler, he used to beat me with metal clothes hangers, lock me up in a hot laundry room in the summer time with the clothes dryer running, & he used to shake me a lot. That might be why I'm partially brain damaged.

I thought that over the years he would've changed. I've done nothing disrespectful to him & he yells at me & he's starting to beat on me again. He steals from me & invades my privacy, as well.

I talk to my counselor, & she sees nothing that he's doing wrong, & she blames me for this problem & expects me to ALLOW him to continuously dog over me, just because it's HIS house. I want to move out, but I don't have the money & nowhere else to go. By people keep blaming me for being innocent, should I get a little naughty & stand up for myself, JUST for an excuse to get him to

2007-06-01 08:08:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now and I work with his step-mother.
His older brother's wife has been expecting and had her baby today, a little girl. His brother called his dad, his dad called his step-mom, his step-mom told me and I was very excited for them because they really wanted a girl as they already have a little boy. After a while, I sent a text to my boyfriend congratulating him for getting a niece and he sent one back saying "that's f'ed up". I said "what is?" and he said "that you found out before I did". How was I supposed to know he hadn't found out yet? Now, he's upset and I don't know what to do. Can you help?

2007-06-01 07:53:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous