hey im married to a man from india im from american/native/ when me & my husband got married in 2003- my familey hated it my grandmother said that man will take my grand daughter away from me?. then my aunt and grandmother are really close! they talk about me all the time about how my husbands a san -ni) how mean is that! then when i got pregant with my daughter they was all like i woundering how she will look? what the helz? then when i gave birth they got so mad i did not tell them the day. i did not want any shi; started ! now they are more mad 2 years ive not really talked to them my brother has a little girl who is 2 same as my daughter and they will buy her stuff but not my daughter? and they will say i bet stephanies so mad i did not get her baby nothing haha they said.. so i dont call them are anything...then my grandmother wanted my daughter easter pic but i told her ur not getting one cuz you said her daddys a san ni what is she then? they got all pised off.
2007-06-01 16:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by mommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i feel better when i dont talk to them when i talk to them they get on my nerves so bad! i tryed getting alone with them last week and they started agian whats wrong with them?
2007-06-01 16:35:15 · update #1
my husband owns 2 gas staion and there always saying im not buying there baby nothing cuz nothing will be good for them..what the helz? that..i never told them anything like that the just start makeing up stuff. on her 1st birthday they said im not getting her anything cuz they want like wal-mart toys. and my aunts poor and she gets so mad cuz i drive a nice car house etc. thats messed up my own familey?
2007-06-01 16:39:46 · update #2
im 6 weeks pregant and im not telling them cuz they was upset when i told them when i was with my 1st and that hurt my feeling..i never talk to them but like 2 times a year a see them maybe 2 times a year for 1 min..i guess they will know i had my baby when they run in too me..they live 5 mins from me my aunt and grandmother
2007-06-01 16:47:35 · update #3
Yes, sounds like you are right, your family is crazy.
What's wrong with them? >> They are ignorant and unschooled and have no Faith in their lives. They never learned to love and be decent people, to treat each person equally, and to be kind and forgiving.
Unfortunately, People like this never change,. All you can do is to leave them be, you can't never change them, just pray and hope that a miracle may happen in their lives. You can be the Miracle in the lives, by not hating them, forgiving them even if you stay away from them.
I would not worry what they think or say. Just forgive them and do not become like them by hating them back.
Be bigger than them.. If you are going to stay away from them, that's alright, because even though they are your family, eventually they would end up poisoning your life with their hate, bitterness and jealousies. Just know that they know no better and do not want to know better, they are ignorant and wish to remain ignorant all their lives. You can aim for much more, not just financially but spiritually emotionally and educationally. Your have a new family to care for, make them the most important part of your new married life and you will be a very happy wife and mother.
God Bless you on your new Baby. Good luck to you and your Hubby and Babies
2007-06-01 17:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the life of a racist family. **** like that happens and everytihng. You either deal or have nothing to do with the one's who put you and the family you blessed with down. IF I were you I'd prolly be doing the same as you but worse...
Not talking to them or anything. Sometimes it's for the better
2007-06-01 17:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... they are messed up. Best thing, stay way until they can behave themselves. And if they don't... no loss cause your daughter won't be exposed to that hate.
2007-06-01 16:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by nasar5@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend that they're not there anymore! Mourn their Deaths if need be!
After a while, If they're "real" Family; they'll beg to see your child! If not; good riddens to waste!!!!!
2007-06-01 16:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,it might seem like they're crazy,but they really did care for you..They just dont like the guy you are with...But someday they will get use to it
2007-06-01 16:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by coolchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are crazy. Crazy, mean, gossipy, bigoted, biased, annoying, bitchy (the aunt and grandma), snobby, etc.
2007-06-01 17:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, they're f'ed up. wudafxup with calling your husband that? EVERYONE'S ALIKE!!!
2007-06-01 16:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by BOOP! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they are just different on their reactions but its all right.
2007-06-01 17:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋