Family - June 2007

I will not let my mom or brothers in my house if i am not there because they steal stuff ive caught my own mom steal stuff from my house and so if she wants 2 see kylie she can come over as i am there....she makes excuses up to try 2 be alone in my house and i wont let her and now my family hates me cause i dont trust my own mom or brothers 2 be in my house.....what do i do? i dont want my family hating me but i dont want 2 let everybodycome in my house and steal whatever they want?

2007-06-02 14:50:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ight here the thing when i found out i was pregnant and told my parents they were fine about it because i am old enough etc
but i noticed they started acting different like they were newly married(all cuddly n all that stuff) they were not really like that as much before and feels like i am having 2 be the parent in the house because they are always doing stuff like blarring music and things that people my age would do. n tbh its startin 2 make me feel out of place.
is that just there way of reacting 2 be grandparents?
this is there first grandchild they are in there early 40s

2007-06-02 13:21:52 · 7 answers · asked by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3

my cousin killed herself last year. of course im not over it and never will be. sometimes i wanna cry but i dont. i dont like to cry cause my nose gets all stuffy plus my mom makes a big deal about it. if im gonna cry i dont want people to feel bad for me. it doesnt bother me when some people ask but when my friends and family make a big deal over me crying i hate it. how do i deal with it? should i let myself cry even if i dont want to?

2007-06-02 12:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by ~redneck~sweetheart~ 2

Everytime I think about this i break into tears. i've tryed get help from counselors but they never help. so i need your help.

my father severly abuses me =[

he recently started drinking and ever since my mom died i have no one to go to and talk to when i really need them. my dad comes home at 2 or 3 in the morning, wasted. I've tried getting help for him but he threatens to kick me out and beat me. It hurts me so much to look at all my cuts and bruises... I cry myself to sleep every night.. if only i can have a normal father! when i talk to him he slaps me across my face. we used to be so close but now i feel like he doesn't know me. im 17 and i dont want to do anything bad to him.. i love him... i mean hes my father.... i just need some help to straighten him out. I would love it if i had my father again! please help me i would greatly appreaciate it. =/

2007-06-02 12:51:49 · 16 answers · asked by AmAnDa K 1

I'm a 23-year-old lady & all I've ever known is fear, loneliness & emotional pain. Over the years, it has become worse. I'm the youngest in my family. My older brother is married & has his own place, leaving my older sister, myself & our parents. My family are ruining my life & my sister drove my brother away. My sister has a severe personality problem, is very paranoid and suffers from depression. She is a workaholic & constantly invades my bedroom & goes through my stuff. I have tried to ask her nicely to stay out of my room & even lock my door every time I go in & out but she always breaks in. My father will never let me have freedom of speech & I feel limited in the usage of words to express my feelings (swearing, etc). He's also trying to stop me from leaving home. As for my mother, she's always loved my sister more than me & it really hurts. I DESPERATELY need to escape & get my freedom but I have nowhere to go and I have no friends to turn to. Please help me!!!

2007-06-02 12:43:44 · 10 answers · asked by Mel B 1

I heard from a hand full when I ask about Mom's Day. Now I'm curious about your plans for your dad on his special day. I like to compare notes for special events. I would also like to hear from people whose dads has passed on. My dad passed on 3 years ago. So far, I always take my mom to his resting site to put fresh flowers on his grave. But, if any one has any good ideas on how to make this a more joyous occasion with family members I would love to hear your input. I thought about having a memorial in dads honor at a pot luck family gathering. But I don't know. What do you think?

2007-06-02 12:05:32 · 6 answers · asked by Vida 6

she only cares about what she wants. she makes promises she can't keep.

2007-06-02 11:37:13 · 4 answers · asked by KiWiMeLoN 2

I want to keep them busy and happy all the way!!

2007-06-02 10:51:57 · 12 answers · asked by Aphrodite G 1

2007-06-02 10:45:07 · 11 answers · asked by bluec4grace 1

my mom never fails to make me cry at least once everyday.She treats me like s***! She treats my brother like he's a god he NEVER gets punished but i do and i get yelled at while he just gets "you need to stop egging her on"I hate her so much HELP!

2007-06-02 10:05:29 · 18 answers · asked by xboxboxbuggyx 1

she always screams at me for no reason and then she always says she wans to die when she is drunk.

anyways i need help.
i mean during the day she is fine but isnt at night
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2007-06-02 10:01:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have two sons by different fathers with different last names. I am marrying the man of our dreams soon, and would like to have info about changing the boys' last names to my husband-to-be's, even though he is not their biological father. We all want his last name, and is this possible? If so, how would I go about it?

2007-06-02 09:29:26 · 9 answers · asked by darcy w 1

this daughter does what she is told and always helps out at the house but when she trys to talk to her mom about going more, her mom says that if she asks again that she (the mother) will make sure that the daughter will never get to do anything, not even drive to work or school and back.

2007-06-02 08:42:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-02 08:24:55 · 6 answers · asked by ? 7

I have a younger brother who just turned 16 and now wants to experiment with weed. I'm 19 and have never smoked weed since I have never felt the need to and have felt that the negatives outweighted the positives. I was also turned off from drugs thanks to my middle school anti-drug classes that I feel that my younger brother did not have much of at his middle school. Almost all of my friends have or still smoke weed and a lot of them don't think it's that big of a deal. Is it OK for me to let my brother smoke weed just to see what the "high" is? Is he old enough to make a decision like this by himself? I am torn between being a good big brother and letting my younger brother make decisions on his own. Also, another reason I haven't tried opening the door to drugs is because both of my grandfathers were alcohol addicts and my parents have also told me to never do drugs or alcohol because I might have this "addict" gene.

2007-06-02 08:12:17 · 30 answers · asked by Jeff K 1

I'm a guy raising my daughter. She's 9 yo. Anyway the mother has been hooked on meth for about 8-9 years(that's why I raise my daughter) I've tried to keep things cool and not use the court system.
But this week she was with her mother. I picked her up yesterday and she started telling me about she went to the mountains with her mom, and they went to a boarded up cabin and there were booby-traps and a gun under a matteress, and she was talking about she seen some tubes and tunnels.
I'm PISSED!! this sounds like a drug lab to me!! Please help, what should I do?, and where should a start? I don't want my daughter to have anything to do with her mother anymore. has this happened to you? what do I do? I'm so mad I can't think straight.

2007-06-02 08:05:44 · 12 answers · asked by the shiz 5

My next door neighbors are foster parents and are in there late 60's, they currently have a simple 15 year old girl and her younger brother, I often see her wearing cloths from the 50s, like some kind of coat what hands around the shoulders, looks like somthing a 1800's detective would wear. I know for a fact she wears her foster months old cloths as I bet you can't even find that sort in charity shops. Its so funny seeing her walk down the street with her bee nest haircut and 50s handbag. Is this child abuse. She dose get bulled pretty bad at school. She dose look like a freak, bless her.

2007-06-02 06:20:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is the thing. When I became pregnant with our son, my husbands family said that it wasnt his baby and they didnt claim our son as their family because they all wanted him back with his ex girlfriend (they were broken up when we met) who he has 2 children with. When our son became 8 months old they began to accept him. Just a few days ago, his ex girlfriend had her new baby (which is between my husbands cousin and her boyfriend, she doesnt know) and everyone in his family including his mother is accepting the baby as their "grandchild" and so excited about this new baby when it took so long to accept our son which really pisses me off. We're to see his family and the ex (they always have her around) along with the new baby this weekend. I 'm on gaurd because i feel that our son who is the real baby of the family will be pushed aside for this child who is not even their blood. what should i do and how can i express my feelings to the family without causing too much conflict?

2007-06-02 06:17:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm closest to my mom.

2007-06-02 06:04:04 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5

I got a call last year at this time and talked to my cousins and they told me they where been touched and that they had “sex” at this time there only ages 8 & 9. So I went to get them for the “summer” and took them to the hospital. They where molested…front and back… They said that there step dad and his brother did it to them. Come to find out a few hours later that they told there mom, grandma, dad & aunt back in Nov. 05. They did not do anything from this happening again… CPS got involved course and they let me keep them because I am family. I had them 9 months without any kind of government help. CPS sent them to a real foster home and now they live with a black lady and there are only 4 white kids @ that school…them benign 2 of them. Cps is not letting me talk to them and they said I am a foster parent and nothing else…but I am family and I am the only one who help them kids… They are trying to give them back to there mom who is still seeing the guy who did this…

2007-06-02 05:38:41 · 2 answers · asked by MM 2

Fathers are contesting but 1 tested pos. for cocaine at court and the other has 3 domestics and 5 dui's no driving priv. We are the grandparents and have had the 4 children since last june. 2 older ones belong to 1 dad the 2 younger ones to another! They don't want to leave us. Mom is in prison for probation vio. due to addition to pain meds for a broken arm and to deal with the abusive relationship with the last dad. please help we go to court for custody june 8th. I refuse to pay a lawyer when we have nothing to hide.

2007-06-02 05:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by tlj732002 1

he called my sister and told her to tell me he couldnt make it cuz he has to work and could'nt find anyone to cover for him.. he has had 3 weeks to find someone to cover for him. he had 2 chances to go , one to the graduation on wed. and the other on fri. to the graduation party...

2007-06-02 05:36:53 · 3 answers · asked by pocos 2

It was very important for me to know if she was experimenting with drugs, according to her journal, she is, she still denies it and wont talk to me, she is 16 years old and I don't want her to ruin her life.

2007-06-02 05:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by Aida M 1

i had left my home b/c it was abusive and full of anger. i went and i lived with my aunt for about a month. just over a week ago, she kicked me out. i am now back in the abusive house and don't know what to do. i am grounded for leaving and am not allowed to do anything. i was always a good kid, i've never done drugs, i don't drink, and my grades were usually decent (until recently- it's hard to concentrate). now i can't take it anymore. i've snuck out twice since i've been home and came back both times. both times were to see my boyfriend, that i rarely see now because of the restrictions. we are in love with eachother, and i hate when ppl say that we can't be b/c we are to young. we are. he's 18, i'm 16. he cares about me more than anything. he offered me to stay with him if things got too rough at home. the second time i snuck out, i came home and was forced to move my room in with my brother. it is now so cramped in there that i have to suck it in to move around.

2007-06-02 05:22:55 · 15 answers · asked by yo. 3

of three and the only girl. My husband started making a fair amount of money about ten years ago and my parents stopped visiting us (we live in the Midwest and they are in the West). I've tried to be as affectionate as possible, not be arrogant but nothing works. My kids are very high achievers. National Merit Finalists, serious students, respectful, not nerdy. But they never visit them, never remember their birthdays. Instead they are constantly visiting my brothers and their families. Their kids are a mess. Not attending college, poor students, wrecking cars. My brothers have not done too well financially. I think I understand the problem but it really hurts me. I feel so sad that my parents seem to not have wanted me to have success in life. No matter how nice I am to them they simply never call, never visit. Why is this bothering me so much? They're in their eighties. Sometimes I go through very sad periods over this, lots of private tears.

2007-06-02 05:07:14 · 10 answers · asked by jeanC 1

I hate to go to my dad's house because I don't like him. He abused my mother and me before my parents split up. He sended me to a crazy house which was not fun. I had to stay there for a week because I said that I would do something to myself if I went to his house. Every time I go to his house he smothers me, yells at me, tells me what to do, and beats me up. I don't like it there! I have to spend 50/50 with him. I just cry there. I don't know what to do because I hate my dad and I rather be with my mom beacuse I love her and she treats me with respect and she is sooooooo nice to me. I have everything at my mom's but at my dad I have nothing. I only have 1 small bed, 1 dresser, 3 underwear, and a few pairs of shirts and pants. Sometimes I have to wear the some clothes that have been not washed. It makes me look like trash! I just can't take it anymore! My dad also dosen't feed me sometimes I no food for a day! I always have to say I'm hungry and he always says thats not my problem!

2007-06-02 03:38:21 · 26 answers · asked by minnie m 1

my MIL is such a pain what to tell.ahe doesn't have any communication skills .the moment i tell her any incidence she is ready with one of her own.sometimes she won't even let me finish and start speaking.even if i want to get up to do some work she will keep speaking.she is very repetitive also in my 4.5 years of marriage there are so many incidences that i've heard n number of times but she never get tires of telling them again an again.she doesn't like to do household chores she will just in her easy chair and pass orders to me. she just sits there watch TV and eat.
sometimes i'am so fed up that i just lock myself up in my room with my kid.i feellike getting separated from them but am afraid that people won't understand and i will be blamed for everything.she has many siblings and all stay at same place.they all will just listen to her side of the story. what should i do to stay calm and tolerate her.

2007-06-02 00:58:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my mother & whole family when I was 5 years old about 23 years ago. We have not been in touch. I recently made contact with my family (by email) and I am seriously thinking about visiting my mother & siblings & rest of the family. However, I have a major problem. We do not speak the same language. She doesn't know English and my Russian really sucks even though I have taken numerous courses for the past 10 years. I am at the stage where I can read & understand simple Russian (with a dictionary near by) but I cannot speak and it's difficult for me to understand when someone talks. It really fustrates me. I have been writing emails to my brother, sisters & mother with the help of Russian Online Translators but would a reunion ever be possible? We cannot even talk over the phone because of the language problem. Neither can we chat. We can only communicate by email as I need time to translate what they are writing and to reply them. We reside on different continents.

2007-06-01 23:00:50 · 11 answers · asked by luba 2

your children or another place''

2007-06-01 22:49:32 · 6 answers · asked by Babybear 6

i'm making him a cross 4 the crash site, please help with art detail that will best honor him,4 who he is 2 me ,his little sister & fishing buddy, he died on his springer soft tail,the day after my b-day .....i miss him....

2007-06-01 22:48:14 · 9 answers · asked by tackletramp 1