I hate my mom!i need help fast?

Question

my mom never fails to make me cry at least once everyday.She treats me like s***! She treats my brother like he's a god he NEVER gets punished but i do and i get yelled at while he just gets "you need to stop egging her on"I hate her so much HELP!

my brother is 10 and i am 12 and i don't have school anymore so i have NO resources to go to

i've talked to her before but she just doesn't understand my pain she just thinks i'm dramatic

Answer 1

Honey, I am a mom to two beautiful little girls. I really wish you didn't say that about your mom. If it wasn't for her you wouldn't be here. Maybe you just need to talk to your mom. There's only one thing that my daughters do that makes me mad. When they talk back to me with a yelling voice. Is that what you do to your mom? I'm also gonna tell you that you only have one mom weither shes perfect or not she can be taking from you with in second by God. so you should try your hardest to get along with her.I'm sure if you talk to her and tell her how you feel ( nicely) I'm sure you will get a nice reaction back from her. Just give her a chance being a mom is a very hard job and taking care of you children is very hard and if she works as well I know how she feels. You are old enough to help your mom around the house. I really hope if your not now you will start. You should always love your mom cause one day she won't be here anymore. That's what I tell my oldest daughter and she says mommy I love you so much and I don't want to ever lose you............ Tell your mom you love her............Tell her you don't want to fight with her.......Just talk to her.......... Good luck honey But don't hate your mom that's just not right.......be good and enjoy your summer........

Answer 2

i have felt like that before when my mom thinks i am to dramatic and that i get everything, though i dont get in trouble. Try listening to your mom the first time and also try to get her to feel your pain. Do what she wants but dont let her feel like she has advantage over you. Tel her to back off a little but in different words that wont get you in trouble. TELL HER TO GIVE YOU YOUR OWN SPACE, AND TO MAYBE SPEND A LITTLE MORE TIME WITH YOU. If this doesn't work and you still need a place to go, talk to a friend or go to the library where there is peace and quiet. I always feel better after reading a book. Since you are twelve which is a close age to mine, i will suggest the "princess diaries" series which talks about a girl that has problems with her family becuase they dont understand. Hope i was a help.

Answer 3

I rather hate McDonald's and KFC too, however I do like that a few speedy meals areas are providing extra healthful substitutes like yogurt or salads. My mother honestly obtained me a type of fowl snack wraps from McDonald's, and I was once rather hungry, so I caved and ate it. I was once suprised although that it was once satisfactory all white fowl and tasted beautiful well! Fast meals will also be k, it simply will depend on what you get. (Problem is although plenty of persons do not get the healthful offerings. :( Can't blame the eating places for attempting.

Answer 4

I know what you're going through. Growing up it seemed like my mom usually favored my brothers over me and I'll be honest, it hurt.
Now that I'm an adult I think maybe when she looked at me she saw into the mirror of herself from 20 years earlier.
I've learned to forgive her but sometimes I wish she would have just accepted me for who I was......not a reflection of her but someone who wanted to be treated as an individual.
It seems like your mom has higher expectations or standards for you than she does for your brother.

Answer 5

look, i know exactly how you feel. my best friends mom was the same way the last thing she said to her mom was "i hate you" then her mom died in a car accident. she really regrets not talking to her about her problems. that made me realize how lucky i am to have a mom. so i think you should sit down with her and try to understand her and make her understand you before it is to late. don't make the same mistake my best friend did, talk to her while you still have the chance.

Answer 6

find something you really enjoy doing and do that when you're upset. Then look at your mom's point of view. How old is your brother? If you still think she's being unfair then talk to a therapist.

Answer 7

I think we should hear both sides of this story...perhaps you should look at how your behavior might be causing her to act this way towards you..maybe she does need to back off a bit, and maybe she does lose it at times, but soooo have some forgiveness and look at things from her side too! it takes 2 to communicate...talk to her about how this makes you feel and I am sure you will hear how these things make her feel too....

Answer 8

Are you sure you're not just overreacting? I used to think that my parents treated me bad, but now that i'm older, i just realized what a brat I was.
Just considered the possibilities. But if your mother truely is mistreating you, you should talk to an adult family member. Maybe they will talk to your mom about it if she won't listen to you.

Answer 9

Are your parents married? Can you go live with your dad? How about an aunt or grandparents. Maybe if your not there for a while she'll realize she is driving a wedge between you two.
Good Luck

Answer 10

Wow, I'd be mad but I'd NEVER want to hate my mother. I think you should sit and talk to her about the way she treats you and your brother. Be honest with her.