Family - June 2007

does anyone have any ideas? i love my sis to death, but she knows how to get on my every last nerve. I have tried everything. please help.

2007-06-24 06:08:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see mothers in the street getting rudely treated like she is one of their spoiled daughter contemplaries and I am thinking why is this mother taking this? Why is this mother acting like she has to bow down to her whims? Too afraid to say no or excerise authority.

2007-06-24 05:59:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help.. I have two children that are 17 (boy) and 9 (girl) The problem is their Father and I divorced 4 years ago because of his drug abuse. He has not had alot to do with either of them ever since, even though he lives two blocks away. My son has always known the truth about the divorce and the drug use. He witnessed it many times, but now my daughter is asking alot of questons. My son has recently tried to get ahold of him and has now decieded he is done with trying and if his dad wants a relationship he can get ahold of him..He has told him he will give him one last chance, but if he does not stay in his life he is done for good. I'm unsure of how to handle it with my 9 year old daughter. He has no set visitation and might see her once a month for a hour or so, but now I'm afraid he will show up and want to be involved ( which that will not last) It never has! He has two drug charges and I'm afraid he is using again, since he recently quit his job. He does not pay CS HELP

2007-06-24 05:52:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

if mother-in-law never had chance to live with her mother-in-law, can she understand the feeling about daughter-in-law?

2007-06-24 05:35:11 · 26 answers · asked by Jasmine 5

In getting upset about my husbands hobby....He leaves the house while I am asleep (after pulling 2 overnite shifts) to go do his hobby. I get about 2 hours of sleep, just like the day before because I have our 16 month old baby to watch. He has also and is planning another hobby related weekend. He takes off from work and spends $300-$1000 on his hobby, last time it was a event out of town, this time it is entertaining a crew of his friends at our house and providing food, beverages and refreshments for a weekend. He didn't even take a day off from work when I had our child. I work and don't EVER get to spend any money. I need work clothes but it seems we are always broke-his hobby sucked up all the money. Any suggestions?

2007-06-24 05:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by viper pilot 2

2007-06-24 05:27:06 · 12 answers · asked by Jim 6

I recently got a job at a local little caesars, and I have to tell you, I do not like it at all. The manager as well the other employees in my opinion have been rather rude to me. For one the manager seems to be bothered that I cannot make a pizza correctly. Is it really my fault. She only trained me for about ten minutes, and she started me off in the afternoon hours, on a thursday and saturday. Seems shes too impatient with me. Another thing that gets too me is that they all speak spanish, and sometimes when I know i'm doing something wrong, they laugh and talk to eachother. I do not know what they are saying. The manager also has a problem with my hair.. I get harassed everytime i go to work. Its not my fault my hair is long and layered so when I put it back, little hairs poke out. I've had about enough of this.. do you think I should just quit?

2007-06-24 05:27:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had an argument yesteday with my dad when he told me to vacumm a hallway. when I pulled out the vacumm a huge object fell on my foot and it hurt so I cussed. My dad yelled at me for swearing. The vacuum wasn’t working and so I clicked the button several times to get it to turn on. I dropped it on the floor and went back to the couch. My dad was pissed and yelled at me because I left the vacuum on the floor he was annoyed that I clicked it several times. this morning I woke up on the wrong side of the bed because little kids were making tons of noise to wake me up. I went to the kitchen to get breakfast and my dad’s girlfriend Donna burst into the kitchen and grounded me because I didn’t clean the fridge last night. I misunderstood her and thougt that I was supposed to clean it this morning. I told her this and she didn’t believe me so she said that I was grounded and couldn’t leave the house. I was having a shitty morning and I didn’t need Donna’s nagging so I yelled to her that I didn’t need this stress that she is putting on me. she pinned me against the wall and clawed my arms. I kicked her away and ran out onto the porch. We argued and she smacked me in the head so I kicked her and the fight was on. She called my dad and he came back and told me to pack my stuff and he’s bringing me to a foster home. I have gotten into a few arugements with my dad and Donna in the past because of me not listening to them the first time but my behaviour has been improving over the year. I am a senior next year and a good student. I want to go to college and get a degree in science.

2007-06-24 04:29:21 · 24 answers · asked by younglady 1

My parents seperated 2 years ago. My dad moved out. I stayed with my dad a couple of times a week, until one night he felt something was wrong so he drove to mum's house and she wasn't there. She was at another man's house who she'd known for a short time. My dad was terribly upset from then on. He'd ring if i was at her house almost in tears, it was horrible. Mind you, my parents were just split, not divorced. I still thought they were together. So through this awful patch, she was seeing this man and is still seeing him today. 6months ago she told me she was moving into his house and there was pretty much nothing I could do. So I moved in with my dad, hating mum and her "boyfriend". Now she acts all soppy around me and says she misses me, but when I lived with her she'd always be on the phone to her boyfriend and always screamed at me for everything. I am still so bitter towards my mum and her boyfriend now, but she wants at her house more often, which I hate. What do I do!? Plz help

2007-06-24 04:15:14 · 6 answers · asked by Morgan♥ 1

My most beautiful baby daughter, now grown, breaks my heart and I let her. A complete stranger, treats me with more respect. I lose respect and all dignaty for myself, and I feel her hatred. Later, when I am back in my own element, it's still hard to shake off. I try to forget about it. I know she already has.

2007-06-24 03:29:45 · 2 answers · asked by Gayla C 2

I am from Iraq, and I want to know what u fell about this country?.
I been wondering why the world dosen't do any thing to stop what is happening in Iraq?

2007-06-24 03:22:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

she was born in mich(my doughter) where i still live and she (the mother)took them both to missippi and changed her last name(the doughter) to hid her from me now i have found her i want visition but the mother x girl friend say no still after 11 years of hideing iam not some wierd o or sick lunitik there in no reason that i should not be able to be a part of my doughter life the mother is greddy and belives she does not need a dad she can raise her fine on her own with her new boy friend and that i should not inter fear and confuse the child as she wrote in a letter 11 years ago i still have the letter but now is enough i think my doughter should be aware she has a real father who loves her and miss her and who is looking for her my name is james wingett III my doughter name is sonni patrica wingett as on the birth certict i was told the last name in now parker the mothers name in celeste amanda parker witch the last name i was told is dunn hafte her boy friend james dunn

2007-06-24 02:37:30 · 2 answers · asked by jimboschevy 1

I've just turned 20, this is my 2nd year out of high school, I’ve just moved back from uni that mum made me go to, I quit because I didn't like the course, didn't like where I was living & I've picked up a course in IT & goes for 12 months. I’m working part time at a supermarket, I did live with my boyfriend but my parents laid the ’guilt trip’ on me that I was living with him, but the reason I was living with him is because my parents where upset on my decision & were rejecting me. So at first that were really happy that I was back, & my father was saying comments like "welcome back to the family" & I told him "I didn’t know I left?" that hurt me. At the moment I'm lost in choosing a career path and what I want to do with my life, I’ve made a interest list to try to help figure out what I want to do. But now my father says comments that hurt me & put me down like "You have a soulless life" I can’t make a decision if he puts me down like that, I want to leave, I don’t know what to do?

2007-06-24 02:36:10 · 9 answers · asked by Simone T 1

I enjoy mine so much.so explain how do you enjoy them.

2007-06-23 23:15:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I recently won a very large sum of money in the lottery, I haven't told anyone, I was sitting outside a BMW dealership with the intent of buying a new car, but I began panicking that I will do what seemingly every other lottery winner has done. (Go crazy and get killed...) I feel even worse, because this is what you dream of, and now I'm hating it, either way I'm going to freakin regret it! What should I do, give it all away, just try and play it cool? I know that I have a good family and stuff, but I don't want to see what this could do to them...

Help

2007-06-23 22:17:46 · 17 answers · asked by Musicman 5

My sister wrote this poem before she killed herself, my family wants to publish her poems but I need to know if she is a good writer or if she was just depressed......

AM I Alone?

sometimes, i get this funny feeling,
it comes from deep inside.
i get so mad and angry
all i wanna do is run and hide.

my doctor calls it depression
my father says its just me.
noone will ever be able to see.

He says im psycho,
he says im weird
its as if im a different person,
the old me just faded away.

i get really upset and angry
i want to die so bad
then i get a headache
and then i start to cry.

i wish he would help
i wish it just went away
maybe if i pray real hard
someday..........
im gonna fade away.

2007-06-23 20:30:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 19:00:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

because ive been put through alot of **** etc and they want to keep involving my cousin who is the reason the family got broken anyway they want to except them back at times if that happens they will never see me at any parties and iam the life of the party and thats not the reason why iam depress either thats another story how do i not care to be at the parties and do other things

2007-06-23 16:52:31 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

in my depression because iam not shes acting like its easy to get over or like its nothing shes not trying to help shes in it for the gossip or and to hold it againt me

2007-06-23 16:45:46 · 9 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

i feel like although i hate them, and i think the things they do are sick and twisted, and i know theyre wrong, im becoming a little like them, since im homeskooled and always around them. i hate it, because i want to be the opposite of them, literally my worst fear is to be anything like them when im an adult. is there anything at all i can do to prevent myself from picking up their habits and tendancys? id do anything...ill never have kids if im like them when i grow up. i wont marry either. the last thing i would do is inflict my messed up self onto someone else

2007-06-23 16:31:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 16:31:08 · 14 answers · asked by ifhusain 4

I am so sick over the ohio married cup that killed his girlfriend and there unborn child. What a sick person he is. I feel for jessie's family but most of all for her son blake. What a sick son of a ***** his father is. I am angry and very angry over this. If you dont want children then dont lay down in the bed with someone. This is two innocent lives that have been taken because of some asshole and to boot he was a cop. ok i am done venting.

2007-06-23 15:46:53 · 17 answers · asked by JAYNE C 4

my dad's secratary (who is a HUGE part of his job) just quit. the government has been down his throat for a while now for some things that happened in his past, so that is making him lose a lot of money too. He stopped drinking five years ago, so that has helped save money, but he has been in debt since he was in college. he always tells me all the details of all his problems, and its starting to make me nervous about all the changes we are going to have to go through. any advice? by the way, i thirteen.

2007-06-23 14:39:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it sounds stupid, but I don't think that I don't know how to be nice to my parents...

2007-06-23 14:38:20 · 5 answers · asked by goddess_lyndsey 2

my parents are lesbians and i am adopted. eveyone at school makes fun of me. HELP!!!

2007-06-23 14:28:05 · 10 answers · asked by Cait! 2

you can only clean a house so much and cook so much before you lose the plot. My kids are easy to look after. I need my time out of the house. I like working because of the social side of things. Being a mum is the best thing i have ever done. I want to give them everything they need.

2007-06-23 14:23:25 · 7 answers · asked by okleah 2

he was very matter of fact and logical in his thinking

2007-06-23 12:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many people here have bigger brothers that always get u in trouble?!!!??
Well i do!!
Well if u do then name one of the worst things they have done to you yet.

2007-06-23 11:39:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 11:23:11 · 5 answers · asked by natalie m 1

how can i stop being bothered by munipulative ex in laws...if i change my number they may start stuff also....i am so tired of my ex husbands family they just want go away,they even bother my daughter whom is upset with them for pushing her to do things and putting a guilty conscience on her if she does not do it,i just want to go on with my life and so does she but dont know what i can do to keep them from the both of us and what legal rights i have to do so,i was not married to them,plus they are my childs grandparents which she hardly wants to talk to them as welll because of the things they say

2007-06-23 11:18:12 · 4 answers · asked by TAM 2