Family - June 2007

I cant shake this thing. I used to be a Marine. I once was a bad assed beer salesman. I used to drive tractor trailers. I am now a stay at home dad. I love my kids. I just miss working and , I duno. I am being paranoid and stupid. Right? I am ,not confused,but. I am just not sure...

2007-06-25 14:16:31 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3

Before school ended (3months ago), I was falsely accused of smoking pot during school. They suspended me just for being around others who were high when I WASN'T. It's a long story but I just walked in my friend's house and got in trouble. They said if I passed a drug test I could come back in 3 days, and I did. Even though I passed my parents were still mad at me (probably for skipping school and I guess because they were smoking illegaly). Technically, I just got suspened for skipping school because my friend's were smoking during lunch and off school campus. My whole family is mad at me mainly because I'm the youngest in the family. My siblings act like my parents as well. How could I gain their trust back? They took my cell phone away and won't let me hang out with anyone from my school. I think even though I passed the drug test they still think I smoked... Now, to make matters worse, I'm getting my grades and its FAR from a 4.0 (like a 2.9 i think). What can I do?

2007-06-25 13:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My baby is due in two weeks, and I am considering not having my partner at the birth, not to be a *****, but I dont think he really loves or cares about me, he wants the baby but not me. I Know even though he says he wouldn't, would make jokes about how I look during the birth, and I dont think he would be very good support for me.

The other thing is he has to tell his friends and his mother every single detail of our realtionship, and I dont want his friends and family being filled in on every embarrassing detail about me giving birth, I know he would do it too.

We have been having lots of problems and to shorten things i'm just going to say he treats me like crap, he's threatened to give me black eyes etc, I dont think he serious but I really dont know with him, when ever we fight he turns everything into my fault and I actualy strat to believe it is, I'm not even allowed to ask him to put the milk back in the fridge once he's done without him starting a fight.

2007-06-25 13:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay...
My brother likes to be perverted with his friends.
[He's not gay.]
They hump.
Grab each others butt in public.
Is that normal?
Are guys supposed to act like that?
No mean answers.
He is Totally 100% Straight.
By the way, He's 15, if that changes anything.

2007-06-25 13:04:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So far my life is going downhill and nothing is going right for me after all the good deeds I have done.

- Countless times I have given up my seat on the bus and subway to elders and little kids.
"once an elder refused to take my seat most likely for racial reasons and he stumbled on his cane to the end of the metro for a seat" embarrassing me.



-returned a wallet full of cash only to have the owner count the cash and look at me like a theif and drive away when I took absolutely nothing. embarassed me too making me look like a theif.
almost every time I give back a wallet I get a dirty look never a than.

-picked up dropped cash and returned to their owners many times.

kids tried to put nasty stuff in a teachers lunch I convincced them not too but the teacher doesn't know and I again recieve no gratitude

I recieve almost no gratitude and what I thought was supposed to make up for it was karma is not even there.

Where is karma?
Where is their gratitude

2007-06-25 13:02:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not a step parent, but I know a lot of them...My sons have a stepmom, and my husband is a stepdad...I also have friends that are step parents. I've heard all KINDS of arguments on rights and boundaries... I'm just wondering if anyone has experience dealing with it?

2007-06-25 12:43:57 · 5 answers · asked by giggitygiggitygiggitygirl 2

2007-06-25 12:41:18 · 14 answers · asked by BELINDA B 4

hahaaaa just kidding he doesn't
but man i had to say that
im hyper
and we are hanging out and im in a FUN mood!

2007-06-25 12:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by Margieroxmysox 1

Note: I am asking on my son's profile.

At the end of the 3rd Quarter my daughter got a C+ in English. As a father, I wasn't too happy about this. But I was understanding, as it was still her first year of High School, and she went to a academically tough Catholic School. We talked about it (and I remember she wanted a Nintendo Wii). So I made a deal with her, get an A- or higher for English for the 4th quarter, and I'd buy her a Wii. So for the last quarter, she studied so hard. She re-read stories and books. She would even stay in her school uniform because she didn't want to waste "studying time." I'd even see her in her school uniform on Friday Nights reading a book for an upcoming test. She would even put time for studying on Saturdays and Sundays. After all this, she only got a B+. She was so sad, but her teacher told us she put the most effort out of anyone. And when I look at it a B+ at a Catholic School (91.7%) is an A- at a public school. So what should I do? Do you think I should get it for her? I think she deserves it, but would breaking the deal make me a bad father?

2007-06-25 12:12:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom always takes her stupid anger out on me all the time. She thinks I'm a stupid baby and she always acts like I'm from Mars or some other planet. If I put my input into something, she'll look at me like I'm crazy like wtf....and when she gets mad at my dad or other ppl, she'll TOTALLY take ot out on ME and say I'm just like them. Sometimes, she makes me feel really bad about myself and doesn't give me credit for anything GOOD I do, but then again, nothing I do is GOOD in her book. Then, when she gets mad at me, she'll totally ignore me and say "lalalalalala" if I try to talk. I try to get out the freakin' house, but she doesn't like any of my friends......she also lets my family tease me....like they tease me about my breakouts and it makes me feel sooo bad and then everybody just says I'll grow out of it.....and yesterday, I was going outside to skate, and she said I looked like a clown b/c I had eyeliner on....she said it VERY loud so like the whole neighborhood could here....

2007-06-25 12:12:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 3 months old and his father and i are in the process of seperating ( we are not married ) What do i have to do to get custody...what kind are there....what do they mean. I dont know anything about this sort of thing and am very stressed and distraught. please help me, i need to know everything, all the possiblities. ask if you need any more information that would make a difference. thanks

2007-06-25 12:05:47 · 3 answers · asked by lee 1

HELP?????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I WANNA GETTA OF THIS HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-25 11:56:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my older sister will be a senior at a small highschool, where she has tons of friends and is great at sports. shes on 3 varisty teams, track, softball, and basketball. i had basketball camp, which she and her friends (on the basketball team) help run today. afterward, i knew that i had messed up a couple times but overall i thought i had done pretty good, and the other counslers (her teammates and friends) seemed to like me. when i got home and my mom asked me how camp was i said "pretty good" my sister was like "yeah why didnt you listen?" and i said "what?" she said "oh my gosh do you even know how many people came up to me and said "why doesnt your sister ever listen, or even act like shes listening?" i said "i dont know why theyd say that.." and she said "or do anything right for that matter." it hurt sooo bad when she said that..i wanted to cry. i was wondering if she said that because its true or just to get to me..

2007-06-25 11:12:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother wants to control all her children who are grown by the way by using blackmail and obligations

2007-06-25 10:13:00 · 5 answers · asked by SHELLY 1

Ive been told in no particular terms more than a few times that Im nothing but a spoiled brat who needs to "get out and get a job" and "you have no idea about the real world, just you wait and see miss princess". But the thing is...I dont get it, why is she so mad at me?
She's 23, has a job in a pretty dingy town, a husband who's good for what he's worth but Lord help him w/ the D&D, a 2 yr old & one on the way(which she hasnt seen a doc yet for, & shes gonna pop sometime early fall), & she works ALL day, like sometimes over 12 hrs.
I, on the other hand, am 21, go to school full time, am trying to get into the music industry, and have a 19 month old. I dont "work" per se, but my mom & sis get in home supportive services, which sends me checks, and I also get financial aid and state assistance as long as I stay in school. Thats where my money comes from, and even tho I dont pay my mom any formal rent for living in her house,I do help her with ANYTHING financial & otherwise she needs

2007-06-25 10:02:08 · 16 answers · asked by What Dreams May Come 5

A friends son doesn't really know his biological father but is about to be introduced to that side of the family. What's the best way to go about doing this so that the boy isn't to confused?

2007-06-25 09:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by d_marie_n 3

my mate isnt aloud to see his dad as he was acused of something he didnt do and there is an investigation going on my friend has been stayin with me for a few months but wants to see his dad he is 15 and really misses him the investigation could take alot more months what should i do to help him

2007-06-25 09:50:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you r wonderful & listen & follow through w/kids requests, and yor relationship is great, THIS POST IS NOT 4 U. For those who can admit to at least a few mistakes, what positive advice can u share to other troubled DIL'S and things they may not know (confessions) . b nice ladies

2007-06-25 09:46:52 · 3 answers · asked by Honeybee 5

I have a 13 week old son, and my mother in law has only seen him when he was 2 weeks, even though she only lives 10 minutes away, (she is usually drunk by morning tea) the time she did see him was only so she could say to hubbies brother that she had. Now his sister is up, and she called insisting that she come over today. I have plans with my friends and i told her that, ad she said, 'thats fine i will mind the baby'. I dont want to leave him with her, and i resent taht she only sees him so she can seem the good grandma to everyone else. Should I say something to her?

2007-06-25 09:42:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had known for a while now that my son was gay and was not surprised when he finally came out to me yesterday. the problem is his father (my ex husband) is going to hit the roof when or if he finds out. He is extreamely religious and i mean extreamely. He and his new wife are pastors of their own church and have publicly condemed homosexuals. In fact they are one of those types who belive that it can be cured "as long as they have god into their lives." He and my son already don't understand each other because my son is not into religion at all. his father forced him to get baptized to quote" keep the evil away" My son was not happy after that and told me he never wanted to see his dad again. He is going back and forth as to ever tell him, but he knows his father will find out eventually and either try to "cure" him or worse flat out reject him. He is scared of both outcomes even though throughout his life his father has never really been there for him. What should my son do?

2007-06-25 09:04:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

her need to sex may force her to have s-e-x with some one else?
and how does women usually find someone to have s-e-x with him in such this situations? how many percent is posible that it happened?

2007-06-25 08:16:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've recently started to sleep with nothing on, i've gotten into the habbit and now I just can't go back to wearing clothes at night....

Some weekend mornings I get woken up by my parents if they need me to help them with jobs around the house and what not, and some school days if I am not up by 7:15 they check up on me and make sure i'm not still asleep...

I'm scared of one of them walking in on me; it's not happened yet... But there is no lock on my door....

What the hell do I do?! Should I just stop doing it and force myself to wear clothes again? Or should I just tell them.... it would be extremely embarassing to tell them, as we hardly ever talk about things like that... it would just be like - the most embarassing thing to ever.

2007-06-25 08:10:37 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had two children previous to the two I have now. One child passed away and I gave the other child up for adoption. I have pictures and I know they will ask questions about who the childern are, plus I want to tell them when the time is right. I really do not know what the best age or time to tell my childern now about the others. They do understand death, which I'm sure not completely, but enough to know the child is no longer coming back. How should I handle this situation?

2007-06-25 08:02:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm curious because my parents used to hit me and still do with metallic things - just want a new opinion!

2007-06-25 07:49:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just so unhappy lately with the way my husband has been drinking. He's in such denial about his problem and i've just become a codependent to his addiction. I'm so sad and have been crying all the time. I've been taking a class 2 days a week and the evening class is when he feels like closing the bar down. I'm so stressed over his behavior and can't even focus lately. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

2007-06-25 07:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by Lyla 3

I only started work last week at a school that is over an hour away from home. It devistates me to wake and go every morning and I want to quit. -The thing is that my mother got me the job through her friend and I'm afraid that if I suddenly decide to quit, I'd ruin their relationship. Also I get paid 15 dollars an hour (which is alot for a college student). -But I hate it SO much. Help.....

2007-06-25 07:43:44 · 7 answers · asked by monmonth. 3

I've been dating my bf for about 4 years now. I used get along with his sister.
She told me herself a few times about being jealous, once when her father bought me something for my bday she said " I wish I could have got the same thing"at Christmas time her mom got me some gifts she mentioned "I feel like you're the daughter now, I'm jealous" and then when we spoke she mentioned she was jealous of her brother and I because our relationship worked out and her's didn't, wouldn't you be happy that your brother was truly happy and your family approved also?
The problem is that we are going on vacation and she might be there, I just think it's not going to be such a great time since she's most likely going to be looking for attention. It's almost makes me uncomfortable to be around her... last time she came to visit us I tried to get her and her bro out so that I wouldn't have to see her. The way she acts is like she doesn't want me to be there... it's just weird I don't know what to do.

2007-06-25 07:38:26 · 10 answers · asked by Jamester 4

was given everything he wanted from both his father and I. He moved out not to long ago. Now he is acting as though he doesnt want anything to do with me and his father. He tells other family members he left my home because of things we did. the truth is we kicked him out, because of things he did.

why is he doing this? He acts like he will never need us again. everyone in our family knows that we were good parents and we did what we could and more.

I hurt all day, and cant seem to shake it. the worst part about it is that i have other children and i dont want to make the same mistakes.

Please advice.

2007-06-25 07:04:09 · 2 answers · asked by Trying to help 2

in our country, it is a big deal to introduce your girl/boy to your family. what will you do and how will you feel if your boy neglects to do that???

2007-06-25 06:35:48 · 37 answers · asked by crazy_kingkong 1

He's against black people that their lazy and cuss all the time, but I don't agree. It gets me mad sometimes. Well, he doesn't know my boyfriend's black and i kept it a secret for a LONG time. He expects me to go out with our own race- hispanics. But it hurts me that he thinks this way. I'm really not sure about this- my boyfirend's the best and I love him, but what will my dad say about this???

2007-06-25 06:18:31 · 25 answers · asked by Evaの 6