HELP?????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I WANNA GETTA OF THIS HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-25 11:56:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am sorry you are very unhappy. First of all is it because you don't like rules or are your mother's rules unfair? If you feel your mother abuses you call police ambulance fire whatever it takes to get the attention of a responsible adult. Keep telling until someone listens and believes you. I would suggest a school councellor may help. If you trust a relative or a friends parents try that. I have seen so many children live under abuse it makes me sick. I can say personally I have had bad luck with family in children's services run by the government but that doesn't mean that they are all bad. The most important thing to remember is no one has the right to abuse you mentally or physically. If you just don't like rules try to mature and realize everyone should follow some rules or this planet would be terrible. Try to figure out how you can help other people make this planet a better place. I hated rules too but I did try to follow them and at your age I seem to recal being kind of grouchy because I wanted to be independent. Try to appreciate your mom if she is responsible. again talk until someone responsible listens and never let anyone touch you where your private spots are or let anyone tell you to keep secrets. good luck
2007-06-25 12:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by detour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what Mom's do. Usually they seem to be doing it, because out of love, they're trying to help you avoid the same stupid mistakes they made.... or they're trying to help you become a grown up by learning the basic principals of how humans act and work. As for getting out of the house, there's this little matter of how you will get regular meals, a roof over your head and all those other little items that you need for daily life. Everybody at one time or another felt like running away or joining the circus, but after a while you might actually appreciate that there is someone who loves you and wants to protect and take care of you..... at least until you're 18.
If however, you're really being abused,, sexually or physically.... then there is no reason for it to go on. In that case, have a talk with a guidance counseler or a nurse at school and tell them what's going on.
If it's just generally being hasseled, then suck it up and try to sit down with Mom, have talk to her like you're talking to another real person..... see if she'll try to understand it all from your point of view.... and you do the same...
2007-06-25 19:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by squeezie_1999 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing happens, you are 14 and can only leave home legally when you are 18 and gainfully employed in order to pay for a place to live and utilities, and food and clothes and every other thing your Mom pays for now.
Calm down, all teenagers have moments where they feel like they want to leave home. You only have a few years to wait, take a deep breath and be thankful that you have a Mom who loves you and takes care of you.
Good luck.
2007-06-25 19:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back and have a hard look at your situation then think about leaving and becoming a ward of the state. After you realize how good you got it sit down and talk with not to your parents and work things out.
2007-06-25 19:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by b44z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun I am 22 and still have to deal with it. find a hobby or something that will get you out house for most of the time!
2007-06-25 19:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I'm 14 too and I SO wanna get out of this house because of other reasons! omg, I'm so sick of it. Looks like me and you are gonna have to wait till were older, so don't think that you're the only one! I feel your pain!
2007-06-25 19:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am so much younger than you and I wanna get out of my house. Just wait until your older enough to leave.
2007-06-25 19:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who buys your clothes, who buys your food, who buys your bills. If you do this yourself then by all means you are ready to move out on your own, if not go to your room and thank God you have someone who will take care of you.
2007-06-25 19:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by PREACHER'S WIFE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Annoying is not enough tough it out 'till your 18.
2007-06-25 19:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by darkflower366 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing you are so I'm putting this on my watch list.
2007-06-25 19:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋