well my older sister will be a senior at a small highschool, where she has tons of friends and is great at sports. shes on 3 varisty teams, track, softball, and basketball. i had basketball camp, which she and her friends (on the basketball team) help run today. afterward, i knew that i had messed up a couple times but overall i thought i had done pretty good, and the other counslers (her teammates and friends) seemed to like me. when i got home and my mom asked me how camp was i said "pretty good" my sister was like "yeah why didnt you listen?" and i said "what?" she said "oh my gosh do you even know how many people came up to me and said "why doesnt your sister ever listen, or even act like shes listening?" i said "i dont know why theyd say that.." and she said "or do anything right for that matter." it hurt sooo bad when she said that..i wanted to cry. i was wondering if she said that because its true or just to get to me..
2007-06-25 11:12:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I imagine she was trying to be hurtfull and your mom should have said something to her about her saying hurtfull things to you . I would have a talk with my mom if I were you . good luck .
2007-06-25 11:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOUR SISTER SOUNDS LIKE A SNOB AND LIKE SHE IS USE TO BEING PERFECT AT EVERYTHING. I AGREE YOUR MOM SHOULD HAVE STEPPED IN AND TOLD HER TO RESPECT. YOU. THE REAL QUESTION IS IF YOU THINK THAT YOU WEREN'T LISTENING? IF YOU FEEL YOU COULD IMPROVE THEN DO SO. IF NOT THEN BRUSH IT OFF. THE NEXT TIME YOU GUYS GO TO CAMP CONFRONT EACH PERSON AND SAY "HEY, I DIDN'T MEAN TO MAKE YOU THINK I WASNT LISTENING TO YOU...BUT THE NEXT TIME THAT YOU FEEL I AM NOT PERFORMING AS I SHOULD, I WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF YOU CAME AND TOLD ME AND NOT MY SISTER...THANKS". kINDLY WALK OFF AND SHOW THAT YOU ARE NO LONGER A PUSH OVER!
2007-06-25 11:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That sucks that she said that but I can't imagine her making it up...and you guys are going to and probably already fight a lot so you cant keep asking questions like that on here....how can we know if its true unless we were there? so put you're big girl panties on and get over it. good luck.
2007-06-25 11:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kris W 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋