Is this normal?

Question

Okay...
My brother likes to be perverted with his friends.
[He's not gay.]
They hump.
Grab each others butt in public.
Is that normal?
Are guys supposed to act like that?
No mean answers.
He is Totally 100% Straight.
By the way, He's 15, if that changes anything.

they dont really hump, they dry-hump.

Answer 1

I have a few friends who are male, ranging in age from 19-26, who think its funny to make gay jokes constantly, and call each other gay, and occasionally grab each other etc. Usually for amusements sake, often also in public. I told them they are all closet gays - and that theres something wrong with them, but I doubt that they are (well there is one questionable one, lol) It seems it is part of young male idiocy and bonding. Its embarrassing I know, but at this point I wouldnt panic too much. It seems to be pretty common.

Answer 2

Hate to say it but yeah...in this day and time I think it is. I'm 46 and I work with younger people. Seems the acting out you're talking about is common amongst friends. See it all the time. Threw me a bit at first also...you gotta wonder....but now its just them. Most the guys that age do not act that way but some in fact do. Seems to be the more immature kids from what i've seen. Also another shocker was that girls 16- mid20's look at lesbianism as a normal part of their sexuality. In their words they're "straight" but will be with another woman if they have the opportunity. They look at it as no big deal...just a normal part of their sexuality. Anyway I wouldn't be to concerned, he'll find a girlfriend and grow up.

Answer 3

Humping is a behavior that could be interpreted as faggish! Why is he grabbing another guy's **** in public? That's faggish behavior.

Nope, straight guys do not behave that way. However, if this happens only during parties or in front of a group of people then it could be a need for attention (not in a bad way just a goofy, joking way). Then that's ok provided it's a once-in-a-while thing (parties, funerals, hangings, etc.).

But at 15, he should be grabbing girls' butts, nips, and humping them (with a condom of course, unless you want to become an uncle or aunt).

Sorry to say, he won't outgrow this behviour without some intervention by you.

Answer 4

That is probably normal behavior for a 15 year old and his friends. They act stupid, period. They are probably just having some fun and cracking on each other or trying to embarrass each other. He'll grow out of it.

Answer 5

Yeah, that seems normal for guys that age. My husband is a wrestling coach and he talks about all the stupid stuff the boys do. It seems weird but I think a lot of kids do it. I've seen kids out in public doing that type of stuff. Don't worry, he'll grow out of it. Hopefully.

Answer 6

it all depends u no. Like it could be their male boding times. I no that my bf acts that way to thier frds. SOmetime i joked around and was like are u hanging with ur boyfriend 2nite. ITs the same way that girls act towards their frds u no. Like in highschool some guys on our team acted like that. But they were straight its just them joking around and having fun. Dont' take it personal .

Answer 7

No! That is not normal behavior for a straight 15 year old boy, girl maybe, but definitely not a boy!

Answer 8

I don't really know if it is normal. I do know that guys don't really like showing affection so that is a little strange that they show it to each other. But I am not a guy so I don't really know what is normal and what is not normal when it comes to guys.

Answer 9

Yeah thats normal hes just having fun in a perverted way ;)

Answer 10

Look at what your saying a 15 year old doing sexual things with the same gender and then saying he is not gay. (Warning a un-nice part) Unless he is either 1 gay or 2 on drugs it is not normal!!