how can i stop being bothered by munipulative ex in laws...if i change my number they may start stuff also....i am so tired of my ex husbands family they just want go away,they even bother my daughter whom is upset with them for pushing her to do things and putting a guilty conscience on her if she does not do it,i just want to go on with my life and so does she but dont know what i can do to keep them from the both of us and what legal rights i have to do so,i was not married to them,plus they are my childs grandparents which she hardly wants to talk to them as welll because of the things they say
2007-06-23 11:18:12 · 4 answers · asked by TAM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you are in the U.S. you can more than likely get a restraining order keeping them away from you or even calling you. Does your ex-husband have visitation? If so he may need to know where you live and your phone number but not his parents. Depending upon your daughter's age, I don't believe she has to see them if she does not want to.
Maybe a little more info would help. Do you have sole custody? What is your visitation agreement with ex-husband? How old is your daughter?
2007-06-23 11:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to give you advice when you don't say what they push for...depending on the situation, it might be justified...
an example of it being justified...(hypothetical of course)
let's say the father has visitation rights, and due to possibly your bitterness, and putting it on your daughter, she now doesn't want to visit her dad and you allow her not to go.
That would be incredibly wrong of you and the in-laws would be justified in getting on you about making the child visit her dad at the scheduled times, and not allowing a child to make her own decisions.
2007-06-23 11:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to a different state, change your phone number, get your daughter a cell phone so her father can contact her, and you won't have to deal with any more of their crap. another thing you could do is simply tell them they are not allowed to call you, and that they are not welcome in your home anymore. if they would like a relationship with your daughter, tell them that that is fine as long as they make arrangements with their son. NOT YOU.
2007-06-23 13:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a lawyer or the local police this may be considered harassment.
If you haven't already, tell them plainly, you don't want to hear from them. you r child doesn't want to hear from them and she doesn't want anything to do with them FOR NOW. if they change their ways (unlikely) then they are welcome to visit on xday, xday or xday between xam and xpm. Other wise please do not bother you again.
2007-06-27 10:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by † Seeker of Truth † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋