my parents are lesbians and i am adopted. eveyone at school makes fun of me. HELP!!!
2007-06-23 14:28:05 · 10 answers · asked by Cait! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you should walk around school flipping everyone off. screw them if they make fun of you.
2007-06-23 21:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by al09 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. It is not wrong to provide a child with a loving home. 2. The mother can do more discipline then a father can in a lot of straight marriages. 3. Same with dads, sometimes the father is the more loving, so either way the child will be disciplined (if needed) the way the couple sees fit, plus a lesbian/gay couple is going to provide more love in my own opinion because it is more difficult for them to have that child, that they WANT to raise, not HAVE to raise, like straight couples who just end up pregnant have to do. 4. The other children at school would not bully the children with gay/lesbian parents if their own parents did not teach them it is "wrong," just teach them not to harass anyone who is different, no matter what. No one is better then anyone else. 5. You cannot influence someone to have a sexual preference. Sexual preference is what an individual is attracted to, just because the child sees two women together does not mean she is going to want to be with a woman. She could be attracted to men, so she will date men, SURPRISE there, hah. You are iignorant open your eyes and let different societies in, stop judging people
2016-05-18 22:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by elizbeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that those in school are so uneducated! Sorry for you in that situation! My husband and I (at that time) adopted a baby. I had studied adoption; genes vs. nurturing and my daughter is now 39. She's a super individual and she and I share about no similarity. But we still love each other. I've come to know that genes trump nurturing!! I don't know whether or not Gay and Lesbianism is genetic or not--I think it probably is. I DO know that you will grow and develop according to your own nature! This is not the world it used to be! THANK GOODNESS! Gay and Lesbianism is not the "shame" it was originally considered!!! The world is slowly changing. Allow yourself to develop as YOU are. Seek good counselfing if you feel that might help you adjust to adulthood! Good Luck.
2007-06-23 14:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Martell 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Idiots will find things to make fun of about anyone! If it weren't your parents, it would be your clothes or your hair.
Your parents are lesbians...so what? Do they love you? Treat you well? Encourage you to be your best? Believe in your abilities? Want you to succeed? They love you! If you think its hard being the child of lesbians, think about how hard it must of been for them to tell their friends, family and co-workers about being lesbian...even before they met. Think about the rude and thoughtless things people say in public or in conversation about them, maybe not knowing that they're lesbians. Think about what idiots say and do when they know people are gay.
If they are good parents, that's enough. There are some kids that probably wish they had your folks instead of their own. Try to ignore them and think about how good your life is with them. Some people are ignorant and just don't know any better.
2007-06-23 15:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to a councelor at school. Tell the ones that make fun of you to back off and get a life..........
It doesnt matter what sex life your parets have - have they given you a good loving upbringing ??
what matters most is how you feel about the situation,not what others think..........
if your happy,thats what counts.
talk to your parents,let them know whats going on and ask them if they can give you suggestions forhandling things..I am sure they have had lots of not so cool compliments over the years.
they obviously have a great love for one another or they wouldnt have adopted a child to share that love
good luck & god bless you
2007-06-23 14:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am sure this is hard on you although, do your parents love you? If so then feel lucky to have two parents who love you. I feel for you under your situation although, two loving parents are worth a lot so, if they love you then you are doing good. I have no problem with peoples preferences although it is hard on the children. Maybe you could have them put you in counseling and a professional can give you some good advice. Ignore the ones who make fun of you because maybe they are jealous.
2007-06-23 14:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
That has to be very difficult for you. Seek counseling at school if you can, Honey. Sometimes it's hard to hear how cruel kids can be. Just remember that you are loved and you won't be in that school forever. Concentrate on your studies, grades and find friends perhaps in a local youth group at church or in your community? You are in my prayers, Dear. God bless you....
2007-06-23 14:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by talondora 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
FU*K'EM !!! so what, kids are wan*ers and will take the Micky no matter what anyway, coz that's what thy do, but if there happy with it and so are you, then that's their prob
2007-06-23 14:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh i am so sorry. i don't believe being lesbian or gay is right. i think it's wrong but i still respect lesbians / gays because they are humans too. sorry that they tease you. you know what F*CK THEM lol you have loving parents that's what matters. you must have real friends. they will love you for who you are!
2007-06-23 14:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
scream abuse and then you will get a different home.
2007-06-23 15:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋