Family - June 2007

people bug me about the age difference to the point that i hate my self and my family i get really depressed and embarassed to tell my friends my bros age and usually end up lieing...all my friends have siblings that are like...6 mths apart lol so my question is -- when i tell you im 20yrs old and i have a 10 year old brother only...does it look bad? ..is it something you would laugh at and b like omg holly shiz she could be he's mom?....stuped question i know but it really bothers me especially when ppl these days there only 1 day apart.

2007-06-22 13:40:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were going to be 8 months pregnant and your family wants to go to a water park and there is not a thing you can do down there!

I already went to one park with my family and had a terrible time, because pregnant ladies are not allowed on ANY of the rides.

The water park is the SAME BLOODY BLOOMING WAY!

I mean what if I go and sit in the hot August sun, watching them and overheat and go into labor...

or they go to the water park and I am home alone in labor!
Then I can't reach them by phone, because they are playing in the water park!
I would be alone, and very frightened!

2007-06-22 13:18:21 · 5 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4

Ok here is what is going on. I have a realy good friend. She has a older brother who unfourtenly got beaten in his country Mexico. He got beaten cause he owned something to some people. Enyway They shot both of his legs, broke two ribs, and broke his jaw. Well when his sister (my friend) was at work no one was there just her she heared the voice of her brother he called her "Lil Sis" just as he always did. She got freaked out and she called her mother and she was seriously crien to death. My frined asked what happened and she saied I was takin a nap and she heared her son sain Mom Mom just like my frined heared her bro called her.
Now he is in the hospital between life and death. My question is could he acctualy be dead or is he dieing and he is calling thm it is all so confusing please answer this They really need help

P.S. that friend is me I NEED to know if my blood Brother is dead I HAVE to know if he really dead Please understand He is my brother

2007-06-22 13:13:57 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ Earth Angel ♥ 3

Mom- I know you love and care for me...but it feels to me you don't show it. You act so much different to Jeff and Marianne...You also always call me names and critizie me. You say I act weird around my friends but everyone is a little more hyper/crazy around there friends. But could you try acting like you care. Say you love me first insted of waiting for me too...ask me how my day was....and just make an effort to talk to me?

Does that sound okay? I'm saying that in a nice voice. my dad is gone tomorrow and some of Sunday.I want to spend time with her.Does that sound like it will fix things?

You can tell me stuff to add and take out or your own way of saying it =]

2007-06-22 13:08:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going thru a child support case with my ex /b'f his mom wants to see his son should i let him or not till this is resolved?

2007-06-22 12:02:05 · 4 answers · asked by singlemom0629 1

Preferably windows vista compatible... ?

2007-06-22 11:46:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I spent the day at my grandma's house today ( my mother's mom ) and she told me I'm just like my mother . . My mom and I don't talk very much . . I don't really know her . She kicked me out of the house when I was 15 turning 16 . . I was a good kid , had good grades , I was respectuful , I helped around the house , I babysat my little sisters and brother , but she always said she hated me . I'm a little worried now that my grandma said that . . because I'm pregnant , and I don't want to be like her! I really don't want to be a bad mom . . . I think I'm over reacting . . but I've been crying ever since I got home !! ( I'm thinking I'm just emotional from the pregnancy though ) but do you think it's something that would get passed on to me ??

2007-06-22 10:56:45 · 17 answers · asked by Chante Alexis 4

I live in Dallas with my husband and 2 children. I have no blood relatives here but all of my in-laws live in the area. My husband works 2 jobs in order for me to be a stay-at-home mother. His family doesn't like that idea but I babysit their baby for free. Recently, they've moved out of their home in order to save money and are going to rent the home to us. My mom says they have the perfect situation....free babysitting and a house sitter (cause we're paying the mortgage). I have no relationship with them outside of being a babysitter. Am I being taken advantage of or is this just what family should do for one another?

2007-06-22 10:30:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

If i change my hair color shes always saying *why can't u be yourself?* or change my style...mind anything i change. I like change. I change my room 2 a month (like move the bed and dresser.) She can't give me 10$ for the movie but gives my 27 year old brother 500$ for his rent at his own appartment. She bought him all his stuff for his appartment....and my sister always uses the car...read this...
Me-Marianne should really get a car
Mom-this doesn't affect u.
Me-Yes...we we're suppose to go but Marianne get's UR CAR
Mom- thats it its MY CAR don't tell me how to run my life
((marianne=sister)). Shes always telling me to calm down and stop acting weird when im with my friends..and thats the real me...i can't be *me* without her critizing me. This is what i always tell my friends.
Could she act like she cares for one moment.
my dad is the best...but he travels..and when he's not here..i'm so left our between my mom,
Mom-52 divorsed 1 time 5 kids. Sister-26 1 kid. Me-13 0 kids.

2007-06-22 10:30:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Church Announcements
First of all, the Pastor would like to thank all of you who paid your
tithes last week. With the high price of gas - every little bit
helps.
And he wanted us to mention that if you write a check, please make
sure
that it does not bounce. He said that you are still encouraged to pay
your tithes, and God only wants 10%, but if your check bounces we
gone
take 25%.

The usher board has asked those frequent shouters who routinely pass
out on the altar to please wear clean underwear. Let your praise be
holy, NOT your draws.

Also, if you are one of the people who get tapped on your shoulder
Sunday morning, make sure you pick up your Altoids at the hospitality
desk before entering the sanctuary. Saints, lets not let our breath
hinder our neighbor's praise.
Special Note:
We would like to apologize for those who came
out to the Youth Explosion Conference last night. The youth choir's
remix of Shake that Laffy Taffy was totally unexpected. The youth
director has been reprimanded and will issue a formal apology Sunday
&nb sp;
morning. Also, for those who witnessed Mother Green getting up and
doing the Laffy Taffy dance, and are concerned, she is doing fine.
She
is in Methodist North recovering well.
Saints, don't forget about the Chitlin dinner on Monday. If you
haven't
already placed your order, call the church office. And for those who
are a little skeptical after the last Chitlin dinner, please feel at
ease knowing that Pastor Happy has prayed over the Chitlins and no
one
from the Drug Rehab Ministry was involved in the preparation this
time.
Please Govern Yourselves Accordingly
This is the last announcement:
Pastor has requested that all "dark-skinneded" members sit in the
light
during night service.
Last Wednesday night, he heard voices in the dark and thought they
was
demons.


Kevin
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2007-06-22 10:28:45 · 7 answers · asked by lovesshawnmichelle 3

Where did my 5 year old cousin learn that???? He told that to his 8 month old infant baby sister when she took his toys away. He's a potty mouth. Should I put Dora the Explore on TV for him?

2007-06-22 09:53:01 · 5 answers · asked by Evaの 6

2007-06-22 09:39:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My step dad is thinking about letting my 13 year old step brother stay with his mom way up in Kansas City for the school year. I have no problem with this but mom thinks he should come back down after summer. What do you people think?

2007-06-22 09:38:22 · 8 answers · asked by i know what im talking about :P 2

I'm visiting my family who hasnt seen us in five years. Were all tight, but all of a sudden theyve gotten cold on me and my brother. I feel like throwing punches but of course I cant do that. I'm threatening on going back to my state. I have no idea what to do......

2007-06-22 09:38:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Ex & I split up last year. My son is 16 and decided to stay with him. he was supposed to come here and stay with me until July 1, but suddenly he wants to go home. (His half-brother moved in while he was here) I asked him if that was the reson he said no. he will not give me a good reason and i do not undertand. I am putting him on the bus in the Morning. I am not even over the heartbreak of losing him & his Dad and now this. Even My mother says she is sick of me crying, but I have not cried but once in the 10 days he has been here. What do I do? I am trying to not let it bother me but it is so hard to go on.

2007-06-22 09:35:23 · 11 answers · asked by exslidergirl 4

I am several weeks pregnant from a person I had a short relationship with. I was going to have an abortion but could not follow through with it. I pondered the idea of never telling him I decided to have the child. Last night I left a message for him, telling him the truth. We ended up having a brief conversation about the situation. I made it clear I have no expectations of him but I thought he deserved to know the truth. He asked me if I would consider allowing him to raise the child (We live 1100 miles apart) I said I would doubt that. Our conversation ended with him stating he needed to consult with his lawyer. Our relationship did not end because of the pregnancy. He claims on his end it is because of how I deal with my ex and my children. Little does he know, I saw how the mouse plays when the cats away. Any advise from anyone is greatly appreciated.

2007-06-22 09:32:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i would like to find my dad. i tried to use dex.com but I'm not getting any results. someone please help me

2007-06-22 09:27:11 · 3 answers · asked by poohbear 2

2007-06-22 09:26:00 · 13 answers · asked by M 2

I have a brother with ADHD and problems with controlling his temper. He is currently on a homeopathic treatment and seeing a cousellor.

My brother often has blow-ups over small things, like having to stop watching television (he has an unusual attraction to electronics of any kind). These blow-ups last hours, in which my parents are occupied with attempting control him, leaving me unnoticed. I'm having a difficult time coping with the constant strain and shouting. I see no improvement from medicine or counselor.

I feel very lonely, especially in summertime when I don't have school to distract me. I feel like I am constantly in my room with the music blasting. Does anyone have a similar situation, or any ways to help me cope with this lifestyle? Any suggestions would be appreciated.

I also want those reading this to realize that my brother's problems are complex and it isn't his fault that he behaves this way. I would really appreciate it if no one would say anything rude.

2007-06-22 09:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by katy_maj 3

2007-06-22 09:05:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter, 27 and my mother, 88 have some issues between them. It hurts me to hear my daughter say it's too late to have a good relationship with her Grandmother. I feell like I'm trying to mend the fence between them. I would like to see them heal the hurts before my mother passes on.

2007-06-22 08:46:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my wife was sick the other day and me being the smart one decided to take our kids to her sisters house so they wouldn't get sick too. My wife got all mad at me because she thought it was stupid that I wanted to keep everyone from getting sick. So who do you think was right? Me or her? Did I do something wrong?

2007-06-22 08:46:10 · 10 answers · asked by Brendan 1

2007-06-22 08:41:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom has 3 kids including me. She is also pregnant with her fourth. I love my mom more than anything and I know she works hard to support us, and she has alot of things going on, but I just want to be able to hang out with her and talk to her. I've tried to talk to her about it but she always gets mad and says that shes too busy. I did have a counselor to talk to, but I felt uncomfortable talking to my counselor about my problems. It just wasn't the same as talking to my mom.

2007-06-22 08:39:39 · 7 answers · asked by Chrystine 1

okay so heres the story. my mom is disabled my father deceased. im 20 my brother is 18. i took 2 years off from school because my brother got into some trouble and my mom was alone. well i applied to a school out of state.. nearly 1500 miles away. i just went to orientation signed up for classes and really excited about it. my brother got arrested last night for 3 charges of burgerly one of them being an occupied house. now my mom is going bezerk and crying and stuff. and we cant bail him out cos 1) not a good idea and 2) we are a poor family. now im stuck because i feel like if i still leave for college my mom would be so devestated at the fact that both her sons are gone. so i could 1) go away anyways. 2) stay and work to help pay for my brothers attorney. 3) stay and go to a community school down here. (i had tried that before and couldnt find the motivation...) i need serious advice please no jokes. thanks in advance. oh and i also need to make the decision by july 5th!

2007-06-22 08:37:39 · 15 answers · asked by Phil 2

is sex something that has been spoke about in your family alot? or do you feel it wrong for it to be spoken about to much, because you feel it to be a very personal thing between couples?.

or is sex spoke in the family, but more as a joke (something to laugh about, not in a negitive way).

i sometimes think its a case of, people who go way OTT lol about it, and some people can be very closed minded, and feel it should not be spoken about. For my family, it is spoken about, and many jokes are made about it to.

xxx

(o btw, i mean family as in family as a hole, not just yourselfs and your children, but your parents, grandparents etc)

2007-06-22 08:30:25 · 11 answers · asked by lovelifelivelife 2

Do you feel that parents are always parents, even when their kids are adults? Or do you feel that once their kids are adults, their parenting is pretty much over? I'm asking this because I think my mother's parenting skills are going downhill fast. She brushes most issues in her life under the rug, including major issues with my dad (they are still "married"). I feel she is setting a horrible example for my sister and I, and that at least some of my sisters' major marital problems are because of the way my mom is. I am 27, and my husband says I shouldn't see her as such a role model, she's only human, and that my sister is an adult, and can make decisions in her own marriage for herself, and that it's not fair to blame them, even partly, on our mom. My mom also does not make much effort to see her grandchildren, who live 5 miles away, and 30 miles away, yet often makes comments about "how much she misses them"... (my dad makes no effort whatsoever...) Any advice?

2007-06-22 08:21:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If someone dies without a will, and there are three heirs left. One of the heirs dies before probate closes, and the estate funds are disbursed. Would the estate funds then be divided between the two heirs two ways, or would the heir that died children and husband get her share? Best answer gets 10 points. Thanks!!

2007-06-22 07:41:35 · 7 answers · asked by Greer 5

January of this year my boyfriend had his sister over for his birthday. I was 8 months pregnant at this time. Everyone was drinking and she got really pissed off when she found out that me and my boyfriend planned the pregnancy. She got in my face saying i was going to leave him in a year and just going crazy for no reason.. anyway boyfriend told her to get out. He went outside and i stayed inside but i could hear them threw the bedroom window and she said that i only got pregnant because my mother died and that was my way with dealing with it.. My mother died June15 of last year and i concieved May 30th. To this day she is not aloud to come anywhere me or my child because i feel she is unstable.. Do you think this is wrong to keep her out of my childs life?? Even though she didn't seem to care much with i was 8 months pregnant?

2007-06-22 07:16:48 · 38 answers · asked by ? 1

My sister had a miscarriage and I want to know how to make her feel better.She won't eat or sleep and it's really bothering me.How can I try to make her feel better?Right now she's in the nursery staring at everything she bought for her baby.

2007-06-22 07:01:05 · 21 answers · asked by Keri 5